For myself (or anyone else who can use it), next time I get angsty:
Intuition is accurate, but seeing the context involves looking below the surface, and the context is what is hanging you up and causing the angst. So stop being hormonal and look deeper.
You know this. You've written some variation of this in every entry here. You've even discussed this in job interviews.
Look deeper. Figure out what filters they're seeing the situation through.
And the same holds true for the other person involved - they have no way of knowing your filters, and their assumptions are probably inaccurate.
It's not about you.
Also, you're probably ovulating. You'll be able to be zen about this all again in a few days.