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no, I'm not looking to pick up guys

Lookingformyself2014

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So tonight our neighbor came over and we were talking about religion and she was asking me if i went to the church to look for cute guys and it totally threw me off guard because it was unexpected and also because right now I'm not looking for anyone and just there and honestly if i was looking for someone, i don't know if it would of been a guy or a girl and after our conversation i realized i need the connection that i had before where i could talk to people about this stuff going through my head.


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I have this problem in my life to the point where I am almost reluctant to go outa the door. To see someone else write this down makes me feel a bit more sane in an insane sex obsessed world. I just wanna say to all ya folks out there, it is quite feasible for a woman to be single and not looking. Maybe we are going through a process, i.e. working ourselves out, maybe cos we made mistakes before we are once bitten twice shy? Or maybe we are just going to the shops for groceries and the pool to exercise. Give us a break right?.....

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5 hours ago, myladylove said:

I have this problem in my life to the point where I am almost reluctant to go outa the door. To see someone else write this down makes me feel a bit more sane in an insane sex obsessed world. I just wanna say to all ya folks out there, it is quite feasible for a woman to be single and not looking. Maybe we are going through a process, i.e. working ourselves out, maybe cos we made mistakes before we are once bitten twice shy? Or maybe we are just going to the shops for groceries and the pool to exercise. Give us a break right?.....

I agree...the last guy i liked turned creepy and after 3 years i realized it wasn't going anywhere and i had started talking to someone but she wanted to go a lot faster than i was ready for and i cut it off.. its to the point where my family doesn't ask or say anything and i keep that to myself about who im attracted to and i have noticed i comment more on what girls are wearing than guys, and when i was asked that i didn't even know what to say..i just know it was a little awkward because it had been awhile since i was even asked. Im home most of the time and i don't drive so im pretty much limited to internet and when my old bestie was around it was assumed we were a couple at first because He was gay..

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Nothing wrong with being single something I've never been only for a short period of time come to think about it.. I felt relieved in the fact I only had to worry about me and not anyone else.. Taking it slow is always a smart move.. You got your whole life to get to know someone for who they are.. Good luck Hun .. 

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