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Flirt

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If Hozier's "Someone New" isn't the most accurate song for me right now, idk what is.  I can talk to someone for a few hours and, if they're kind, flirty, and I find them attractive, they become my favorite person for those few hours.  Luckily I don't see myself actually being with any of these random people.  Not to take away from any of them, of course; they are all quite wonderful as far as I've gotten to know them.  I just get a lot of joy from making them smile or blush.  I'm excited for our interactions.

Did a little reading on it and it's as I expected: I'm just a flirt.  Here's the best description I've found so far for what I feel:
"You are genuinely interested in people and want to make them feel like they matter and are special to you. You truly want other people to feel good and there is no manipulation of any kind going on. If anything, your flirtation serves as a means to lift yourself and another person up, because, most times, it’s a mutually beneficial exchange of smiles and excitement over connecting with each other. You’re like a modern-day saint, basically."

Ignoring that last sentence, lmao, this feels pretty accurate.

I guess that's all I wanted to say here.


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"Someone New" is my jam too, that's why I recommended it. I just want to make people feel cherished for a little while, is that so bad? We live in such a suspicious culture (for good reason) that anyone who truly engages with those around them is assumed to have ulterior motives. :( I say flirt on, you're making the world a more positive place.

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Of course, i always thought it was harmless complimenting because i was also flirty with women. But now there are new layers,  lol. But I do pretty much flirt with anyone & words of affirmation is my #2 love language, so i hand out those like candy. 

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Words of affirmation are so wonderful. And certainly more appropriate to give to strangers than physical touch lol.

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That description is perfect. I'm often told I'm a flirt but I think I'm just friendly and building a rapport! I like to talk to people, and find common ground, smile, laugh and make them feel good. Interactions make me happy and people think I'm approachable as a result and I'm fine with that. I understand that everyone has bad days, believe me! But there's nothing worse than talking to negative people who are always angry or upset about something. Those people bring me down...I avoid those people. Give me a flirter any day!:P

 

 

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I'm so glad you all relate :lol:

I definitely flirt without knowing it often, and end up having to explain to people that I didn't mean anything more by it.  That used to be really annoying, but I don't get out often enough for it to happen anymore. lmao.

I LOVE flirting with my friends.  They play along and it's just a fun game.

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I'm glad I'm not the only one. I love meeting new people and making them feel at ease. Its just my nature to be engaging and complimenting. I love building people up it makes me feel good. I know some see it as flirting I just see it as me. Sometimes it gets me in to trouble but hey its good trouble lol.

I'm a flirt but to me its just appreciating the scenery :wink:

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