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The Dating Life part 3

Booknerd1

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Well, today I found out that my Girlfriend was already dating a guy before I even got the chance to tell her that I think we should be friends. Wow! I'm not hurt but pissed now. She lead me to believe she was interested in a monogamous relationship with me. She even sat me down to tell me what she was "about." Meaning not dating more than one person at a time. She said she had " been with women" but not had a relationship with one but, that she really vibes with me and that it wasn't about what someone had between their legs for her but, what they felt. But then, when I'd try to ask her out, after we had been intimate, she was always busy. I had started to pick up signs that she wanted out but wasn't woman enough to admit it. So, that's why I ended it. Now she's following me around like a lost puppy, not because she wants me back but, because we work together and she doesn't want me mad or drama at work. She's afraid I'll post the many nude photos of herself that she sent me in the short time we dated. Sigh, I hope most women aren't like her. If they are, I'd rather be alone.   

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I'd be a bit pissed off to If I was in your position. Most women aren't like her, well I hope not. I guess you may have to chalk it up to experience and move on. The funny side tho, you hold a trump card as you have the photos. Even if you never ever think of posting them, she doesn't know that. Lol. I'd be tempted to milk that a bit just to get even.  

Seriously, we hopefully learn from our experiences. Better Luck next time. 

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Ach, that sucks. I'm starting to think that we all get to have at least one ex like that, like the rules of the game are that the gods have to deal us one into our hand. At least you were seeing the signs before she got to drop the bombshell.

Most... no, the vast majority... of my exes haven't been like that. There'll be someone better for you ahead.

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Delete the photos and tell her that you have done so. The prospect of revenge may be tempting, but posting them is wrong and beneath your dignity. Also once she knows they are gone she will have less incentive to cling.

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I have no intention of posting her photos. I'm not like that. But I won't get rid of them either because I don't know that she won't try to say I was harassing her. I just feel safer holding on to them.

 

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Ok, I can understand why you would want them as insurance. It's a shame you can't trust her not to make allegations like that against you.

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I feel the same way ChemFem. I wish I didn't feel like I needed to hold on to her pics for insurance but she's shown that she can't be trusted and I really don't know what she would do. Like you said. It is a shame. 

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