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Are There Any Women That Want Monogamous Relationships Anymore???

Booknerd1

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blog-0054518001364470991.jpgI've been looking for a woman to date for a while now. Not only have I not found her but I haven't had a date...it's embarrassing to say but it 3 years. I'm a nice person. Or at least I think I am. I try to treat people well. I think I look decent and I can't land not one single date. I know part of it is that I'm shy but I've tried dating sites, I try to keep my mind and eyes open for potential dates but no luck.

 

The few women that have shown interest have lived a zillion miles away, or are married or have boyfriends. Why can't I find a simple woman that's looking for a relationship with another woman and a monogamous long term relationship. I'm beginning to think I'm the only woman alive that likes women and wants to be with just one. Maybe it's old fashioned and out of style.

 

Some of the women that have contacted me abruptly stop and then start up months later like nothing ever happened which leads me to believe that I'm second choice or that they are already involved in a relationship and trying to have a little fun on the side or trying to play the field.

 

I had one woman from Okcupid start messaging me and wanted me to call her but, as soon as I did she acted like she was mad that I did and got off the phone quickly. She sent me messages a week or so later and I figured she was married or involved and didn't want me calling. So, I didn't respond and blocked her number.

 

Recently I was texting a woman that lives 45 min away but, I stopped texting to see if you would contact me. Just trying to see if she was serious about wanting a relationship. I haven't heard anything from her in several days.

 

I won't text her. Why bother. Just wanted to vent on my blog. Anyway, I'm taking this time to continue working on myself so when and if I meet that special person, I'll be whole and complete by myself and I'll want her because I want her not because I need her for anything.

 

weight loss update: Still losing weight but slower. Saw my doctor the other day, she was pleased with my progress so far. I have to go back in and get checked in a month. She wants to see how much I've lost then, check my bloodwork and bloodpressure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Okay, I honestly didn't mean for the tummy pick to be so huge and in your face. LOL I was just updating the weight loss thing.

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It sounds like you and Shy Lainie need to switch, she keeps meeting single women but needs to be meeting married women. It's weird that you two have the complete opposite problem! Hope things turn around for ya soon bookie. Congrats on the weight loss!

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Congrats! On the weightloss! I think just keep going, I'm sure you will find someone. I wonder if just getting out there and doing things you enjoy, shift your focus other things you love, that's always when I have met people. It's been by chance but it always involved me just being out in the world more. Maybe that's a real grandma suggestion, lol. It's crazy though, I feel there are more monogamous people out there than not. Hugs and I hope things look up for ya...

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Okay, I honestly didn't mean for the tummy pick to be so huge and in your face. LOL I was just updating the weight loss thing.

 

I don't know whether this advice with work or not for you but I'm taking it from my own life experience. If you want something bad enough and you constantly worry about it, for some reason, it just wont happen.

 

I knew I wanted a relationship with a great guy and because I was so upset and angry with my ex, I went off men completely. I became a workaholic. Then one day (because I had completely stop obsessing over wanting a good man in my life) I started chatting to an amazing guy. I was looking for friendship and now 8 years later, we're married.

 

I know that one day you will find that woman you are looking to meet. But you're over worrying about it. Let it happen in its own time. Enjoy life, laugh, be happy and when you least expect it, wham, there she'll be. Life is full of great surprises and all you have to do is let it surprise you.

 

I truly hope you find each other soon. :)

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I think you might have more luck with in person meets than dating sites, which seem to attract a higher proportionate of people with open or unconventional relationships and people who are just flirting with the idea of being with another woman.

 

Have you tried meeting people through meetup or GLBT groups?

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The old saying is true...you have to kiss a lot of frogs, before you find your prince/princess! And you do learn something new, about yourself, with every connection.So look on it as research, rather than a waste of time! You are right to concentrate on YOU, in the meantime.There's nothing quite so enticing as somebody who doesn't need you but actually wants and chooses to have you in their life.Good luck with your search! She's out there!

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