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  2. Just thoughts I am confused I believed I must be bisexual, after 1 occasion, as much as women are absolutely sexy all are, I am confused.
  3. These posts are old, is anyone still game to share? 20 questions lol please go ahead, I swear I am not experienced in so much but would like to express my interests
  4. Today
  5. Thanks, oh my...I was 29 when it happened I'm 40 now, I have not experienced a women since
  6. Have had an amazing weekend with her 

    1. Becz

      Becz

      Ohh wow so happy for you

  7. It has 1 problem.... If you do. you will crave it forever. like me
  8. It's a coarse more than anything. Where I live is straight. Bisexuality doesn't exist. I'm surrounded by lovely ladies and NO one has any idea. I crave the touch of a woman, her smell. her tender body next to mine. I know it won't happen again and it hurts. If I'd never been with a woman, I wouldn't know what I was missing. It can be very unfair.
  9. Why do you wish it never happened if you don't mind me asking
  10. Yep I get this. That 1 woman woke up feelings in me big time. Sometimes I wish it never happened. I'm 54 now and single.
  11. Don't  think i can do this anymore.. Started chatting with someone new an we are feeling each other and shes want in to fall back from it due to me being married (even tho he okay with this..)  I was honest about it all with  her.  Ah basically wants to talk back since she likes me too much..  Im over it amd confused.  Might  take a break from being what I feel.. #badluck

    1. Rocker83

      Rocker83

      There are women out there who are looking for something casual, or women who'd be fine with you being with your husband as well them. But sounds like this lady wants more. You will find that a lot of women you meet will want something exclusive, they don't want to be someone experiment or someone's third. But it's ok, there are women out there who would be happy with your marriage. Don't lose hope.

  12. These are the words that say everything. You're gay. You're not the first here I've seen with this kind of thing. They went through the motions with men because that's what they grew up with as being "normal" and the only option. Then a woman entered the picture, and BAM. Then the sex... you learn you CAN enjoy sex. With the right gender. You're gay. Or maybe homoflexible. But you need to be with a woman. So you need to start strategizing. Can you start looking for work? I know with two young ones, it can be hard, but it can be done. My son was 6 when I left, and I left in spite of the fact that I couldn't afford to (my ex was very abusive, so different situation). I worked hard to get things situated, and the stars aligned for me very shortly after I left. Look at the resources in your life. Any friends or family you could stay with while you get on your feet? Do you have any work experience prior to being a SAHM? Can you start working from home with anything? Any skills you have or interests you've thought about pursuing? You may not be a millionaire (you WOULD be entitled to alimony, most likely), but you'd be happier, and you'd be YOU. Your kids will be fine, and they will be better off with HAPPY parents, even if those parents aren't together anymore. You and he can be friends still. You don't have to hate each other. You'll always have kids to share, coparenting to do. But you can also be friends still.
  13. I was going to say most of what's already been said. The bigger hang up is usually the bisexual thing more than the inexperience. Bisexual women tend to get a bad rap amongst lesbians because most bisexual women end up with men ultimately, and lesbians don't want to just be some experimental piece of ass. And some are grossed out by the idea of a man having been there (especially if you're dating both). This is definitely not all lesbians, but it is many, and you'll have to sift through the lot to find the right one for you. I dated a bisexual woman for a year, and we had an arrangement where she could casually date men. Turned out our ideas of casual weren't the same, or maybe mine wasn't convenient for her. Anyway, after a year, she was more open about the guy she'd been seeing for 2 weeks than she was about me. That was a major contributor to our break up. How out are you? Most strict lesbians are out, and will want a partner who is out. I identify as gay, and I am cool with dating a bisexual woman, but I admit I would have more questions for her than I would a self-identified lesbian. Experience level really wouldn't matter to me, as long as she was open and into it and willing to try things out. Sometimes experimenting together and being someone's first can be really fun and flattering! The more open to new experiences you are, and the more you welcome her input and direction, the better. Be aware that the dynamic between two women is vastly different than that between opposite sex partners. It's much more egalitarian, as there aren't necessarily gender roles, unless you're with someone who's very butch and likes to be "gentlemanly". A handful of lesbians are more into gender roles, and that's fine, too. I hope you find the right woman for you!
  14. Yes, could not tell my 16 yr old daughter. Would not want to influence or confuse her.
  15. 1. Is there anyone of your friends that you would ever consider having sex with? Yes 2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night? afternoon or evening 3. What side of the bed do you sleep on? right 4. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money? No 5. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath? Yes in the shower 6. Do you watch/read pornography? OMG yes! both watched and read ( I think reading good erotica is much more arousing) 7. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed? depends on the time and person both I enjoy both 8. Do you love someone on your blogroll? Blogroll? What's a blogroll? 9. Would you choose love or money? That's easy , Love everytime 10. Your top three favorite kinks in bed? Oral Sex, Sex Toys And Sex 11. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually? A BF tried once, he quickly became an ex-boyfriend 12. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex? Cabin in the woods in front of the fireplace with it snowing outside 13. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex? College Library 14. Have you ever been caught having sex? No 15. Ever been to a bar just to get sex? Sort of, I guess sub consciously.. OK yes. 16. Ever been picked up in a bar? Yes, but it was very mutual 17. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex? OMG YES 18. Had sex in a movie theater? Not sex but have been brought to an "O" 20. Had sex in a bathroom? Yes 21. Have you ever had sex at work? NO , but pleasured my self ( not current job) 22. Bought something from an adult store? Yes, but thank God for the internet, much easier and more private 23. Do you own any sex toys? Several 24. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film? Maybe, but I hope not ( fingers crossed) if they do I never knew they were being taken 26. Do you think oral sex constitutes as a form of intercourse? No, but it is sure fun! 27. What’s your favorite sexual position? Cowgirl with Hubby, side by side w/ g/f 28. What’s your favorite sex act? Giving Oral to my g/f 29. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time? No, not on my bucket list
  16. Hubby asks if there is a dating requirement.. I said they must enjoy The Cranberries. He told me I needed to alter the requirements because that was a long shot. >.> Not happening.

     

    1. Hungry

      Hungry

      Depends how far enjoy is meant to go. Cos like is reasonable. Think they changed my life, nah. I mean there is a moment for them on a Sunday morning and for a hot minute with the windows down on a road trip but after that, I think every woman is just looking at you like.. :whistle:

    2. Katy

      Katy

      XD  I'm just looking for an enjoyment of them. I don't mind whether there is a life altering event or just an interest. They hit my spectrum in the middle somewhere. It would be a dead end if there wasn't even an ounce of enjoyment from listening to them though. >.> I don't think he has to even wonder if I'm an interest to women at this point though so this requirement shouldn't even fall in to play. >.> I'm just here like "well if the circumstances fell in to play and I considered it then...." Or maybe I am just more of an asshole that I think and I have too many wants to really see if others are really interested or just blowing smoke in the wind while whistling. hah It could all be just alcohol induced contemplation though. That has a high possibility. 

    3. Hungry

      Hungry

      Ha, all of the above?

      I know what you mean though. Like I couldn't date someone who didn't have varied musical taste. How do I know? I did it lol. But to be honest it could be any one of the things I love they didn't to be honest. She suggested our song be one from Chris Brown :lol:<_<

  17. Women have always hit on / flirted with me, even a teacher or two back in high school lol, along with my best friend at the time. Although a natural flirt with a general appreciation for woman's beauty, I was just never about it. As a musician though it comes with the territory; there's a type of allure I guess. It really wasn't until a couple years ago when I met a very attractive woman online who was a big fan of my vibe and just fully into me in general. She was also very intelligent and funny and had me intrigued right away. She had a bf but also had some experience with women as well but identified more as straight. As our friendship developed, she wasn't shy at all with showing me how much she was into me with intimate photos and vids which made me feel something that I'd never felt before. We chatted pretty much everyday from that initial meeting, After the "relationship" was over due to distance / misunderstandings / growing dynamics, it was my hubby actually who pointed out that what we had was much more than just a friendship evidently. We learned together (even more recently) that I'm heteroflexible and with that new knowledge it all made sense.
  18. Same for me. Husband is supportive of me being bi-curious. But how do u go about finding another girl that understands your situation and would still be cool with hanging out or more? Ya know even though you're already married to a guy.
  19. You make me happier than music does...

    :air_kiss:

     

    1. tbare13

      tbare13

      That is the highest compliment you can ever give darling :wub:

    2. Rocker83

      Rocker83

      Happier than music and happier than my dog makes me. 

      2 highest compliments ever. 

      I'll save the second for another time : p

    3. tbare13

      tbare13

      Hehehe you sweet talker you :don-t_mention:

  20. Yesterday
  21. Nobody knows I joined this group I only just decided to acknowledge my sexuality, I want to speak freely without judgment, find someone I can have good conversation with 1st
  22. You are not alone, and I'm glad to hear from many more ladies have experienced the same I feel better in myself as confusing yet exciting as these last 2yrs have been with my libido out the roof Masturbating at least 3x a day Craving for connection More satisfying orgasms Absolutely loving lesbian porn I'm 40 now and its been settling down
  23. I haven't tried it yet I can't wait And the word "pussy" turns me on, I don't like other names used though, I get offended by the other names
  24. :3 Today has been a very calm birthday.. Though he is allergic, DH bought me some Cajun steamed shrimp and grilled steaks for dinner. Now it is time for a drink to help in the day even more calmly. haha

    1. Rocker83

      Rocker83

      That sounds amazing. Enjoy the rest of your night! 

    2. Katy

      Katy

      Thank you Rocker83! :) I sure hope to. hehe

  25. I'm the same I find it difficult to flirt with woman If they would only flirt with me would be amazing
  26. I knew I was different, I hadn't realized until early 20s I was in a relationship with a guy I loved and we were having children I noticed 1 girl I found breath taking, I would notice her every chance I could it was creepy I'd adore her from a distance. A few years later another girl approached me and flirted I enjoyed her attention but didn't pursue her Until I was 29 and my best friend told me she liked me more than a friend, she was my 1st and only Since her she woke up my feelings to women I became so confused, because I loved it more than I possibly could have imagined I am 40 now and single, I crave the company of a women
  27. Yes, I do love a dance from this gal in particular. Ha ha. And she delivers a great experience. I've seen people try and take her home, but no cigar...ever. Even for the guys that I know drop $1200+ on her in one night. I wouldn't have the cajones (balls) to ask her, though. Lol. Ugh...so, so hot and gorgeous. I am gonna take a break for a bit, because I did find myself getting a little jealous when she went to dance for another gal, who she seemed to know. That's a big no-no on my part. I'll need to chill for a bit before going back or maybe go on a day she isn't there (she seems like she's the top-earner and is primarily there on the weekends).
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