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  2. Wouldn’t it be full of swingers/bdsm/fetish/kink? I would not use it unless you're into the above? I would contend that the Her app is the best place to find queer women??
  3. Just joined. Anyone have luck? Seems to be a lot of men on there.
  4. Sometimes people just get a vibe and wanna know. Why don’t you ask her why she asked?
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  6. Welcome!
  7. Any suggestions about which move to make? Other than a kiss, not quite yet lol
  8. I can say that to my dismay, I've never been chased by an unmarried woman since I've been married. Any of you ladies are welcome to try though! It seems like @Rani has no shortage of takers Also, I think the massage idea is solid.
  9. The short answer is yes, and what I might have done, when she said her fingers were getting tired, is complient her on how good it felt and offered to reciprocate. Give her some physical contact, through her clothes, since her son is there, and after ask her if she'd like to get together again, maybe when the two of you can arrange a bit of child care, or the kids are at school. At the end of the day, if you want something to happen, you have to be willing to make a move, and escalate, or nothing is going to happen. Talk is good, and communication is good, but remember that she's in exactly the same position you are. She's afraid of rejection, of ruining the friendship. But if you're both too afraid to make a move, then no move ever gets made. Talk is good, and necessary, but at the end of the day, you have to be willing to risk, and do more than just talk.
  10. I would very much like to have an open relationship like that, as well. Not sure that's the route I can take but I need more then what he can give. I've lived most of my life letting others make my choices for me. I don't want that anymore. I guess I'm just going to define what works for me as I go...
  11. @Rani deal. We can add other places that interest you, too
  12. Never feel you are to blame for someone else's insecurities. Love and accept everyone for who they are and for what they bring to the table. We can all learn from each other if we look past physical imperfections to see the the true beauty within. 

  13. You give love songs meaning 

  14. @femmekat That sounds lovely! I have been in your shoes before about 5 years ago and just now I have settled into a home where I plan to remain for some time. I am looking forward to traveling more as well because my teenage sons 17 & 18 years old now are basically adults and I am not tied to my house as I was for the 12 years or so. I am interested in traveling to Brazil, and hoping that this will be one of my goals for the upcoming year. Also, good health is most definitely a resolution after a difficult year.
  15. Yes, this. I'm so glad to know that there are more of us out there.
  16. I identify with so much in this thread! My DH is fine with me exploring as long as I'm open with him and listen to any concerns he has. I long to meet a married couple similar to us, where we just enjoy each others company but there's intimacy between me and the other wife; like a delicious added benefit to girly nights in. Yet to meet anyone in this situation though so it's still just something I fantasise about
  17. Counting down the days - 2 more days until Christmas break - bring it on!!

  18. Great Topic and it is always great to look forward Mine is to travel more after a hard 2 years with moving 4 times and not taking timeout for a holiday or even a break. I will only move once next year - for the last time for a long long time so therefore will spend some time travelling to new places for leisure.
  19. I 100% identify as gay now. When I joined here I was married to a man that I had met when I was 17, we were together 13 years and at first I figured I had to be bisexual because how could I not be? But when I met my now wife on here I immediately had my eyes opened to how a relationship should be. I loved my ex husband and honestly had no idea I was gay or even bi when we married. But the emotional and physical connection I have with my wife leaves no doubt that I am gay.
  20. Yes and the Israel guy is a homophobic dude
  21. Rani I’m in a very stupid scenario with a man that is a terrible relationship I should not be in. being bi is a by product so to speak. im bi but probably not my time to explore until I’ve clear or not of the man. or until I find another guy..,
  22. One sleep...... bloody sleep!!!!

    Get ready cos here i come!!!!!


  23. That is so true. If anyone does know a way, please post it on here.
  24. @missyjanet1 Hello and welcome! You've come to the right place to share your feelings, experiences and to ask for any advice that you need. That's why we have all found our way here.
  25. I love slow, soft, wet kisses from the nape of my neck to the small of my back and light fingernails across my stomach. Ugh! Its been too long!
  26. That could be the reason. I am sure all of the married women here have women crushing on them.They're just too scared/nervous to tell them because they think you're straight. How do i know this? Ive been on forums with single lesbian/bi girls and they talk about their crushes on straight girls including married ones. They're scared to tell them as they dont want to lose the friendship. what we need is a way to let them know some married women can be into women
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