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  1. Im 34, and I would say my drive has gone down. Ha ha no pun. I used to put a huge value on sex, how good it was how frequent it happened how much I want them or they want me. Nowadays. My drive is healthy and constant but not over the top. Sex is good between my beautiful girlfriend and I. But she has a lower drive than me, and I have accepted sex isnt nearly as important as I thought it was as far what constitues a satisfying realtionship for me. But I do get around her and then sex is always on my mind.
  2. Most position that can be done with a man can be done with two women. But so much more! My current girlfriend proves this to me often and its super sexy. But there is no need for the template to be from straight sex. Just sayin.
  3. Ya. She bought a massage table and we have used it for many mutual massages. Her and I both are in much LESS pain. Super fun and fun to role play! And helps with the stretches. She's not letting it stop her... at least not..when I start taking off my clothes and talking to her as much as I can.
  4. Can't remeber the first time as I have been Bi, my entire life. But I will say after what feels like a very long time of being with men and women.. With women, It is softer, more real, more honest, more sexual and more enjoyable. I remember being married to a man I loved. And yet being so pulled to women who so obviously wanted me. The soft hair, the sweet skin, the way their eyes flashed when flirting with me. Simply captivating. Now... only women. And I couldn't be happier!
  5. She has a " bad back:" suggestions, ladies? Im fairly limber. and curvy body... .. go yoga!
  6. Specificity really helps. Thank you. I agreee with the song thing. I like latin themed music. So we will see where it goes... She so wants a striptease from me... time to step up, I think.
  7. It is working.. phew...finally!. Onto sex....She has a more masculine persona sexually. So it would likely be me straddling her on the chair.. But Im 5ft 9 and she is maybe 5ft 2... with a very small frame.. we don't line up on the chair... though she is dying for a lap dance! Suggestions, please hungry?
  8. Fingering is a hard subject. To each there own. But i agree. your finger isn't a tiny dick, so don't use it as such. Dexterity is a plus!
  9. Anytime really, other than middle of the day. Its a good start or end to the day for me.
  10. most positions Im happy with as well. Chair sex, dosen't work with me and my current girlfriend as she is so much smaller than me. Missionary works well. So does car sex! As in my mouth on her pussy in the car. I introduced strap on sex to her.. we did a doggy thing once but never revisted the matter yet.
  11. super into it all the time. a few days before bleeding is best Girlfriend and I tend to still have sex, but with tampons in during bleeding. No messy stuff.
  12. Typically I only wear tampons for 4-5 hours at a time and then change them. I don't like wearing them to bed because frankly I start to get irritated and sore after having a tampon in all day. So to manage I take it out at night and free bleed into into my shorts or sweats or sheets. Its gross. But its what I have done for years. My Girlfriend isn't okay with it. Or at least with me messing up her sheets and expensive mattress. I can't blame her. But pads are super irritating for my lady bits skin, and typically I have a yeast infection in about an hour after wearing a pad...So not an option. And cups never stay in place. Any suggestions as to how to cover myself during sleep at her place? For the past 11 months Ive been wearing tampons back to back ..even while I sleep. But I wake feeling nauseous and often extra sore in my labia. Any experience with the THINKS period underwear. Not sexy.. but maybe an option? Ideas? Suggestions? Thanks. Furthermore.. medical Folk... are there dangers in wearing a tampons 24/7 for all 5 days of your period? Of course change them out...but do most people take breaks? or just wear them all the time? Thoughts on why I have so much trouble?
  13. The GF invited me and the kids to family dinner. Everything went so well and my older daughter especially loves her! This woman has Finally come around! A month apart on separate vacations has done us a world of good! It feels good to be happy.

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      I'm glad things are going well :)

  14. Thank you for educating. And Im so happy you came up clean! Will you provide a link to the other thread please?
  15. I have genital herpes. Hasnt been an issue in the past.. but it is her call. Risk is super minimal. But I'm not going to push her comfort zone or pressure her. Thats gross and not my style. She does a great job attending to other areas, nowadays.