Platinum Shy-Bi Girl
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About xxshy-bixx

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  • Birthday 08/03/1990

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  • Music
    country music is what i mostly listen to now.The Fray, Maroon 5, Hunter Hayes,many more.
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    Reading, watching tv & movies, going for walks, being around my family especially my kids, making friendshio bracelets when i have time.
  • Favourite Book
    Me before You
  • Favourite TV Show
    Grey's Anatomy, WENTWORTH
  • Favourite Film
    Carol, The Notebook, Elena Undone, a perfect ending:-)

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  1. I just hate that we'll have some great days then she says something that will make me feel hurt. Like I'm the one whose doing the wrong in the relationship. I'm just going to give a bit more time. Hoping things will get better .
  2. She's 39 I'm 27
  3. Don't worry you havent offended me. I like honesty and good or bad feedback. Im juat taking it one step at a time. I know not all relationships are perfect, so im just going to wait it out a bit longer. But I'm not sure I can, I've been thinking lately about being with someone else, No one in particular, just maybe I'll be better off with someone my own age or someone who Ik more attracted too.
  4. yes I do. but I don't talk to them about her. I don't think I can, I'm too afraid.
  5. she makes me feel good, happy. but things shes says to me make me upset, she constantly asked me if I'm happy or do I want someone else. But other than that I'm happy with her, my kids like her. like if she didn't always ask me if I want her or if I'm talking to someone else, I would be much happier. I just don't know what to do sometimes.
  6. She's the type of person who thinks she doesn't have any faults. I'm just afraid she will not let me break up with her, if I try again.
  7. And thank you ladies for asking about me. I literally have only one friend who I text about this relationship. It's always good to get feedback from other people. I just love this person, I just hate that the beginning was great, and now it's seems like we argue over little things. It's been 8months since we've been together and it hasn't been the greatest. I'm going to see her this weekend, and if things don't go well, I'm going to break up with her this last time. I will not give her another chance.
  8. Wow, that's exactly what she does. I've tried to break up with her three times and each time she blames me for her behavior, she blames everything on me. Each time I say why I want to break up then she says that's not a good enough reason. So each time I try to be better, but it's like no matter what I do it's not good enough. Then I end up blami my myself, like I think it's me that's doing something wrong.
  9. I'm doing ok, things haven't honestly been better she hasn't been abusing we've just been arguing more over stupid things, I feel like she likes it, I've already tried breaking up a few times but I keep giving her a chance hoping things will get better but haven't. We still haven't went on our trip, she need to get her passport still, and she feels like i don't want to go on the trip because I never bring it up or talk a out it. And she constantly asked me if im cheating or want someone else, I hate that she doesn't seem to trust me .
  10. I'm doing a little better now.. We're planning our trip now. I just hope things get better after this trip.
  11. Hello, thank you for checking in....im doing ok, things are actually a little better now, we're planning our trip soon.
  12. ive never been in this situation, but I'm the type of person who doesn't judge someone on who they r on the outside. its whats on the inside that counts for me.
  13. thank you ladies for the responses, they have helped me a lot.
  14. the bad thing is they are a cop, I just feel worthless, like all the things she said were true, I have nothing going for myself, I'm nothing.
  15. the emotional abuse has only happened once, for a few hours. I don't know if they were just having a bad day or not, but I was scared, especially the things they said, they did it in front of my kids. its a fairly new relationship. but I'm the type of person who can forgive easily, I just want to fix what has happened and move on and forget about it. I just need to talk to them, I'm just afraid of what they would say, or if they will get angry again. I'm sorry you went through that, I'm glad that time is over with. thank you, that is sweet to say. I'm hoping it doesn't, I don't live with this person, I just want to move past that day. we plan on going on a trip together, I hope this trip will help with dealing with that day and we can bth move on from it. just honestly it is stuck in my head the things she said to me.