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BellaMynx last won the day on December 30 2017

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About BellaMynx

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  • Birthday 10/16/83

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    Classic rock...well Chevelle Radio on Pandora...
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    Women, Men, tarot, runes, crystal work, meditation, Buddhism, Yoga, Pilates, kink (ask me about that), polyamory, and more...
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    Moonlight Sonata and Sweet Pea
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    Books by Caroline Kepnes, JK Rowling, Reneé Ahdieh, Edgar Allen Poe, William Shakespeare
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    K-Dramas, OITNB, Sailor Moon, Archer, Bob's Burgers, gameplays by Dashiegames on YT, GOT, Star Trek
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    The Hobbit, LOTR, Harry Potter, and more...

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  1. This needs to be on a shirt. I love this! "Who we were attracted to yesterday has no relation to who we might be attracted to tomorrow." Love it!
  2. Yes! This! Bisexuals are not the scapegoat. There are just people who hurt others. It doesn't matter their orientation. Heterosexual people cheat, homosexual people cheat, bisexual people cheat, etc... cheat. Bottom line: people cheat. People can also be monogamous. Not all bisexual people are polyamorous or wish to be in an open relationship. As for me, I like the polyamorous way of living. My ex-prefers monogamy. I did not cheat on her before we separated; we simply separated. We are still friends. I'm also with you on not marrying again if the current relationship ended. I don't think that I would marry again either.
  3. Agreed! Girl, I had to literally tell myself that I'm better than how she treated me. I can keep my dignity and be respectful too. She was so disrespectful to me. I just can't. And the funny thing was that in the beginning, she approached me!
  4. See, I would have given her that benefit of a doubt, but she treated me poorly when I stayed with her. She lives in another state and I asked her if it was ok to fly to her for the first time. She was a horrible host and made me feel like I was a pebble in her shoe the whole time. Then to make matters worse, she left me up to their family friend whom I barely knew to take me to the airport to fly back home. Which that flight was just the icing on the cake. Had she left me after treating me kindly in her home, I wouldn't have been so bitter. She was horrible to me when I stayed with her. To me, if I don't like you back, I'd still make your stay comfortable. I would just kindly tell you that I'm not interested anymore. But her? No. It was as if she just couldn't wait to send me back to my home. She treated me as if I were an intruder in her home. I did not feel welcome. Her husband, whom I met that weekend, showed me more courtesy and kindness than she did. She barely talked to me the whole time. He and I would have conversations every evening before bed about gaming and other topics. He was very respectful to me. She acted like I was a disease and barely talked to me. Yes, men tend to be more callus, but for me, that is helpful because it helps me forget them faster. Sure, it sucks and it hurts horribly, but the pain a woman leaves me with stays for a long time and hurts more. Well, the women who I've left or left me at least. It is not to say that every woman is like this.
  5. And just like that...I have a new girlfriend! I so happy! He he! She's such a wonderful person and I hope that we last for a long time. :3

    1. NoOne


      Aww, that's wonderful!  I wish you both all the love and happiness!

    2. myladylove


      hey that’s great news, good luck.

    3. BellaMynx


      Thank you so much, ladies!

  6. Just spending some time with my friend. We're not even talking. We're doing our own thing and being in each other's presence. I like this kind of friendship. Just knowing that they are there is a great feeling. :)

    1. Hungry


      It's the small things, right?

  7. Hey, lady! It's been a minute! How have you been??

  8. Greetings, ladies, As the year 2018 begins, I spent some time to myself reading at my leisure and conversing with my husband. I had forgotten what it was like to sit and breathe in and out. I was so preoccupied with deadlines, schedules, grad school, work, and whether or not I would go on another date. I consumed myself with everything that had to be done that wasn't done yet. My therapist was right! In a session, where I was complaining about how I felt my life was going down in a twisted spiral of dep. She stopped me and said, "to hell with everything! Take care of yourself! You're important!" She continued to say that I was spending my life caring about everything and everyone else except for myself. I placed too much focus on too many things and that I was ignoring myself. My health was fading because of this. So she told me that we had to come up with some strategies to help me take care of myself. This was November... It sank in finally from December 31, 2018, and through today. It's time to look out for myself and chill out. It is a work in process, but I know it is doable. I actually spent time reading! I never get to read for pleasure due to my grad studies. This also means that I need to be more organized in how I move from day to day. I start work tomorrow; being a teacher in graduate school is hard work! However, it is not impossible to do. I know that I can manage my time to where I have enough time to prepare lessons for my students, read for graduate studies, and spend time to myself (exercise, reading, doing things I love). There are 24 hours in a day. Teaching can present unpredictable after school business stuff. I am lucky to work at a place where even if I stay late, I won't get home too late. That means I can come home and de-stress from all the craziness from work and do some meditation of some sort. There is where my leisure time comes in. I can also take care of my studies and not go overboard. Still, I can play around with it. I'm not going to be so rigid that I cant fluctuate my time. This is how my anxiety gets triggered. I am a perfectionist. I have this idea of what something should look like, and if I do not meet that idea, I get depressed and give up completely. So I need to tell myself, "Oh, even though you didn't get to do this, you're still a good person, and you will have time to do it." Anyway, I will spend this year calming the hell down, not making other people's emergencies my emergency, take care of myself in all definitions that this entails, and spend time enjoying life. I want to live in the present. I don't want to worry about the future. If I take care of myself today, I won't have to worry about the future because I will have already been prepared. Just random thoughts, Namaste Bella
  9. I woke up at a time I wanted to wake up! I also read for pleasure, which is something I have not been able to do for ages. Gotta do that more often. So, I'm starting it off right this New Year!


  10. I bought some fireworks for my hubby. He seemed so down that he'd been consistently making it to the Firework stands after they close whenever he gets off work. So I'm going to surprise him with a bag of some fireworks. :D He has no idea!

  11. Heeeeeey! Hows it going?

    1. Hungry


      Hey you, realized I wasn't following, things are good. If you want to message do, or I will in the next few days, lost our last message, hence I never connected with you. Hope things are good for you too. Read your story about the car, too cute!

    2. BellaMynx


      Girl, I miss talking to you! Of course, I'll message! That way you don't have to look so hard. :)

    3. Hungry


      You're too kind, look forward to it! :D

  12. I've also discovered that my profile needs to be severely updated. I'll have to do that Some of my interests have shifted and well, I just want to change now. 

  13. See, this is how dealerships sucker you in. Wednesday, I tried to see if I could trade my car in. Lo, and behold I couldn't due to an accident I had previously, and I needed some repairs. I'm glad I had an extended warranty, and so it is 100% free with a deductible of $100...better than $1400! Anyway, they gave me a rental so I wouldn't be car-less. Oh dear...the new Malibu is nice. It's one of those cars where you push the button to start the car! :O Omg...they know I love to push buttons! They knew they were wrong for that! Today, I have to give the car back because my car should be ready. I love my car; I named her Snowball because she's white. Lol! Actually, her full name is Snowball Icee (pronounced: ice-EE, after the cold drink). He he!!! I know my car will be like, "you traitor!" I will enjoy the smooth ride back to the dealership to retrieve my car. Ha ha! 

  14. You have earned a follower! Glad to know another Weezer fan!

    1. SakuraGirl


      Thanks! Followed back! 

    2. BellaMynx


      I saw! Thank you!

  15. "If you want to destroy my sweateeeeeeer, pull this thread and just walk awaaaaaaaay"


    Listening to!

    1. SakuraGirl


      "Watch me unravel I'll soon be naked

      Lying on the floor, I've come undone"

    2. BellaMynx


      YES!!! He he he! I love it! I heard a band do a cover of this song and they were awesome!!