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hwp96

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About hwp96

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    Big Tease
  • Birthday 07/24/1985

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    Sydney, Australia
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    Cuddling, kissing, making love not just sex.

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  1. Bare for me, easier for oral. I like bare boys too.
  2. I'm pretty sure I've mentioned elsewhere I don't relate to the dominant-submissive dichotomy - for me sex is about mutual love and care for the other. That said, I do find I'm happy for the man to take the lead but when I'm with a girl often I'll be the one to lead. It's not a 'dominance' thing, though.
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    Older Women

    I appreciate the sentiment about large age differences within couples being 'not a problem', but I think depending on the circumstances it can be (not necessarily insurmountable, but there all the same). I probably mentioned it before but two of my closest friends are married with ten years difference and while they work really well together I only remember that there is such a large age gap when she doesn't understand or relate to something we're talking about - and then I realise it's because we're discussing something from a time in which she hadn't even been born yet! For me, I tend to stay around a few years older or younger than myself, although after seeing her in a few movies I have a bit a of a crush on Sally Hawkins - but then she's only around ten years older than I am. I have a colleague who gets on really well with everyone at work, I think she's around ten years younger but she already has a boyfriend.
  4. Regarding those who dislike the term 'making love', I'm the opposite - I dislike the term 'fucking' or anything else that describes sex without love or emotion, like porn men pounding away at a woman like she's a lifeless sack of meat. So yes, I like slow and romantic sex. Well, more kissing and cuddling really. Oh and fondling breasts too. There are times for hot and passionate sex and I can enjoy those too - and sometimes sex needs to be quick simply because of life circumstances - but I definitely prefer longer sex sessions. I haven't had that much experience, but while I think the stereotype is that men just want get into sex as quickly as possible there are those who enjoy intimacy as a whole and not just the climax of sexual intercourse. Likewise I suppose girls can be tender and slow but I have a friend who enjoys the quick and rough kind of sex.
  5. I don't think it's fair - for anyone at all - to expect that a girl should know how to go down on a boy. Communication is everything. If he's not willing to talk, to guide, to respond kindly to your loving, I'd question why you are offering oral in the first place. Personally, I love giving oral sex to boys - but only ones I know and trust. So I learned pretty easily. As mentioned above, some boys can be downright disgusting in terms of hygiene or behaviour. But you said you're willing to give, so it sounds like it's someone special for you, not some random guy. Everyone is different, but I'd suggest if you're struggling with the oral bit to just focus on stroking him with your hand and then using your mouth to suck on the head. If he's willing to talk, you should be able to work together on where to go from there. All the best!
  6. Oh my, this definitely turned me on. Agree with the kissing being sexier than any actual sex that might be shown!
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    Dom or Sub

    For me sex is best when there's mutual desire. Strong dominant/submissive behaviour is a turn-off for me, but on the assumption that people are actually using dom/sub in terms of leading/following in sex, with boys I'm the follower/sub. Males are naturally the leader when it comes to sex, they generally have the gift of a strong sex drive. With girls, I can be either but usually I'm the leader/dom. But in all cases, it's mutual love, passion and desire that drives me and makes for intense and powerful orgasms. <3
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    Morning Sex

    I find myself being tired at night these days so often morning is the best time for sex - if I have time for it. Whether with myself or someone else, a morning orgasm satisfies me and if I try to leave it till night sometimes I find myself just wanting to go to sleep and missing out for the day. So if I can do it in the morning, I take it.
  9. Clothed to start with, and the process of taking them off is a turn on too, but I prefer being naked for the passionate love-making and climax stages. Skin to skin just feels so good.
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    Any Asians Here?

    Chinese Aussie here.
  11. That's brave! Did anyone notice or guess what was going on or did they just assume you were having a cuddle?
  12. I suppose sometimes you just need to use whatever is at hand!
  13. I was being polite. I can be as circumspect or as explicit as people want me to be, but I've mentioned my love of swallowing before and seem to be in the minority, so I didn't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. ;)
  14. Sounds like everyone is different. For me, I think I've always had quite a strong sex drive but I've noticed in the last couple of months that I'm really struggling to maintain my regular schedule of orgasmic release. A close friend told me that it's okay and I'm probably going through a phase and maybe that's true but I don't think I've ever gone this long without regular release before. Ever since I experienced my first orgasm when I was around 13 or 14, I reckon I've been averaging at least one orgasm per day whether from having sex with myself or someone else (I didn't start having sex with others till I was older, though!) and it's not like it's a routine thing as some days will have several orgasms while others have none. But recently it's been more like once per week. The desire for sex is certainly still there, I just haven't been able to act on it, even to spend time making love to myself. (And to think that as a horny teenager I used to make love to myself several times over a weekend...)
  15. Lots of different opinions here and I agree that we have to be very careful and protective of our children especially when it comes to sexual abuse. I think it's unfair to generalise all men as ogling teenage girls too, but there's no doubt that there are a lot of creeps who do eye girls with a mind of sexual lust and fantasy. I'm not a mother (though I'd like to be) so I might not have the same kind of instincts as others here, but I admit I find some pretty young girls quite attractive - the more grown up ones can look quite mature in the way they've grown (full breasts, etc), how they carry themselves (body language), etc. Then I will notice they're in school uniform and feel a bit embarrassed/ashamed of myself because then I realise they're still so young. Of course younger teens who are still developing, that is they still look like children, of course I would not think to go there. Would I actually have sex with a young woman (18-20)? I think probably not as there can still be quite a generational gap even among the mature ones. A high school friend married a girl ten years younger than us (he didn't know the age gap was that large at first) and she really is quite grown up and mature, but sometimes I forget that she doesn't know about something from our childhood that we're talking about because she was still a kid during those years, or not even born! That said, she's a lovely lady and mother and she's just as much a friend to me as her husband is.
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