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  1. I completely agree with you.
  2. I think friends can be close and do things like cuddle and hold hands and not be sexual. I have a super straight friend and we used to cuddle when we were teenagers. As adults we don’t and I never had any feelings for her at all. I don’t think it’s for everyone but I don’t think it’s weird or strange for women to do that. Im not one of those anymore. Last week I had lunch with a few friends. There was four of us and two left before us. I was sitting with my one friend imthat was staying in the same side of the booth. I felt weird doing that, like I needed to get up and move to the other side. I felt uncomfortable I guess bc I’m bi and she is straight. She doesn’t know I’m Bi though. I finally asked if it was weird and she said no, not at all.
  3. I have a “girlfriend” and she works ALL the time, married and has two kids.... Both of her kids play sports and one plays a travel sport. So to say she has limited time is an understatement. I’m married and have two kids but do not work. So I have a lot more time then she does. However, she does make time for things that she wants to do. Apparently I am not one of those things..... that is what I have a problem with. As soon as I start to say something she magically has time for me. I’m not ok with this. I guess the point I’m trying to make is, if this is something you truly want, you will find time to make it happen.
  4. My experience was similar to yours. My ex girlfriend had gone down on me a lot. I was nervous about doing it to her. I had never done it before and was scared I would suck at it. I was scared I wouldn’t like it too. I did eventually do it and the first time I honestly wasn’t a fan. Thankfully we were on a huge time crunch and had to speed up the process quickly. The next time however it was a lot better. Maybe just nervous. She never was generally a fan of me going down on her. She told me she likes to give and not a huge fan of receiving. Apperantly that is pretty common. I don’t know if I will hav ethe chance with someone else but I hope one day I get the chance again.
  5. When my girlfriend and I got together, her husband especially wanted to watch. He would open the door and watch us, and drag my husband along. Mine could of done without coming in there. I don’t really like being watched. I prefer it to just be us. I have learned to just ignore it to a degree. Thankfully it doesn’t happen as off as it use to. Neither does us having sex but that is another story, lol.
  6. I have always been monogamous up until my feelings for women returned. I’m married and have/had a girlfriend (not sure how that really stands right now) but for the most part it was good. We were exclusive with each other. I was very clear on that. She is married too, and I don’t want the risk of someone getting something and then all 4 of us have it. If this relationship does fall through, I think I’m done for awhile with women. I’m not going to say I will rule them out, bc it truly is amazing being with a woman. If someone pops up great, but I don’t plan on going out and searching for someone.
  7. My girlfriend is like this. She will let me give but would much prefer to give. But only when it’s just us will she let me. If our husbands are in the house, she will not let me period. So what you said does make sense. Maybe when it’s just us she can relax. Really kinda threw me off at first. I was hesitant at first to go down on her at first, so I thought that may have been why. But no that wasn’t it.
  8. I’ve never been big on the whole sexting thing, but I would think Day 1 would be a little to early for that. But I guess it would really depend on what you are looking for. If you just want a hook up or if you want more then that.
  9. Man vs woman...... I love both honestly. I’ve only kissed two women so I don’t have a lot of experience kissing women but the two I have kissed OMG!!!! They definitely kiss better! Sex, I don’t think I could choose. It’s different. With a woman it’s sensual and loving and everything you would think it would be with a woman, or at least what I imagined it would be like. Her smell and the way she touches me is completely different then with a man. The way she can kiss me and I just melt right there. Not saying my husband can’t touch me and I go crazy but it’s different. Maybe bc we have been together for 15 years vs 7 months with my girlfriend. With a man it just feels more rushed and rough, but that isn’t always a bad thing.
  10. Things have been going pretty good btw my girlfriend and I the past 6-7 months. We are both married and our husbands know. I do not have any extended family. My parents and my husbands parents have unfortunately passed away. So there isn’t anyone to come out to. We live in the same town as her parent and her in laws. So I get why she doesn’t want to advertise we are together. I’m fine with that. I’m sure my husband doesn’t really want the world to know his wife has a girlfriend either. So I’m ok with the “keeping it a secret” thing. This week I had her and some mutual friends of ours over for a little pool party. Her and I went to the store alone and I kissed her in the truck. She put up a little fuss about it as other people were here, but we were in the front and they were in the back. No one could see us. Didn’t get upset and did kiss me but still her reaction kinda hurt. A few days later she tells me “maybe we shouldn’t hang out with other people bc we get a little wild sometimes”! What??? I barely talked to her the whole night! She was talking to the others and so was I. She kinda chased me in the pool a little but nothing crazy. My husband would of spoke up if we were getting that way. He didn’t see anything either. Would you be bothered by this? It really bothered me. Am I overracting?
  11. And it feels amazing doesn’t it???? I’ve never felt better in my life! Letting go of her was one of the best feelings in the world! Freedom!
  12. I agree 100% with this! This is exactly what I did with my best friend, I really wanted to kiss her more then anything but I’ve never done anything like that before. One day we were watching tv and they were discussing LGBT rights (probably 5 years ago now). I picked up on it and started asking a few questions. I knew she went to an all girls school in college. So I just filled her out a little. She told me she kissed a girl in college but that was it. I waited a good while before I kissed her. it was a super quick peck kinda kiss and I wasn’t so sure I should have done it. The next morning I asked her if we were ok and she said “of course, nothing wrong with best friends kissing”. Completely threw me off by that comment! We aren’t even friends anymore but it isn’t bc of that. We just grew apart, our priorities and lives changed a great deal. Not like I wouldn’t speak to her if I saw her but just not close. Just get her opinions on gays/lesbians in general when the opportunity approaches itself and it will, heck just watch a tv show and there will be a couple on there, lol.
  13. I’ve never had a romantic relationship strictly online but I do have a platonic relationship with someone from shy’s and we have been friends for years. Message each other weekly and even daily sometimes. Depends on what is going on in our lives. Literally across the world from one another but she is one of my best friends.
  14. I’m super shy too. I can’t ecen ask my girlfriend stuff I want to ask her. So I get it. But I have started to come out of my shell a little bit. I started out by flirting with a waitress that I knew I would probably never see again and it did make it easier. A lot of people don’t catch my eye but when one does, I have learned to embrace it instead of shying away. For example the lady at the liquor store. I caught myself flirting with her the other day. I didn’t even realize it til after the fact. She has caught my eye, but I’m not looking so I didn’t really notice. Til I realized I went out of my way to go there and then flirted with her... and I do see he regularly, lol. Just take it slow no rush. Do a test run like I did on someone you will probably never see again. Never know.