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J-Net last won the day on April 16 2016

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  1. My opinion is she's interested in you and is testing the waters to see if you might be interested in her. One of the most difficult things a bi woman has is finding another female that they can share experiences in female to female love. Since she's married and has a family that just makes it that more difficult. Depending on how interested you are in her it might be a good opportunity for both of you to satisfy your bi sexual urges. Because she came out to you it seems to imply she's interested in you and wants to let you know the way is clear if you want to become lovers.
  2. It's never a good idea to hide something from your spouse but I can understand her reservation about approaching her husband on her feelings for women. If her husband loves her deeply he may understand her desire to have sex with women. He may also take her desire as an insult that he isn't "MAN" enough to satisfy her sexually. Without knowing further details on her relationship with her husband and what type of man he is it might be best for her to keep things under wrap while being careful so he dosen't suspect or find our about her bi nature.
  3. Well with me foreplay almost always start with clothes on especially if I'm wearing a skirt which leads to sex in the nude. If I'm with my husband at home, at the movies or out for dinner and we get playful he'll start with his hand on my inner thigh slowing making his way to rubbing me through my panties. It has made for some interesting situations where I sometimes can't contain myself and will squirm or make sounds which sometimes draw unwanted attention from strangers !!!! I've had similar experiences with some of the girls in my FWB group but they have almost always been somewhere a lot more private and not so public. Especially if we're in skirts!!!! ......
  4. I guess I would have to answer yes that I primarily enjoy being with a woman for the intimacy that two women can share. I'm married and have a wonderfully sexual relationship with him but there's something about sharing sex with another female that he can't provide. I love kissing another woman's breast, nipples and when I go down on her I love how she reacts when I place my tongue on and between her pussy lips. I've found that each woman has her own smell and taste when it comes to oral sex. So yes I guess if it weren't for the sex I probably wouldn't be as bisexually active.
  5. A good online source for sex toys is Adam and Eve....They have a very good selection of dildos and vibrators with actually user feed back. Regarding recommendations it depends if you're looking for something to stimulate your clitoris, something that you can insert into your vagina or something that does both. Based on what you've indicated a dildo with a clitoris stimulator is probably a safe first choice.
  6. I totally agree with Vampire and Shassa21 since both have given you excellent advice... My experience has been that it seems foreplay is more pleasing with women since we are a reflection of each other and know where the sensitive spots are that excites the female sex. I'm one that enjoys being penetrated so sex with my husband is VERY satisfying but I find that sex with women is also VERY satisfying so it's something that you just have to experience for yourself to answer the question which is better.
  7. Love the video but if I were the one on top I would definitely be moving back and forth more to experience better the girl below and enhance my sensation of receiving her tongue....However I believe I would prefer being the girl giving another girl all the pleasure I could licking her till she cums over and over again !!!! Thanks for sharing this GREAT video!!!!!
  8. I religiously follow Dr Doe on her sexplanations site. She discusses things like sex, relationships and health topics that are truly thought provoking that I'm sure if you watched you'd be a follower of her site. Please do yourself a favor and take a peek of her site. I think you'll be entertained if nothing else.
  9. I was in the same situation but my husband understood sometimes we have to have a way to release certain urges. He has no problem with me seeing other women for sex as long as it doesn't become an affair with her. I'm somewhat lucky that I'm friends with other women that feel the same way and aren't interested in a long term affair just occasionally getting together to explore female to female love. My involvement with other women has actually improved my love life with my husband since when I desire being penetrate there's no better source than his penis. It's not unusual for me to have wild sex with him and ride him like crazy after I've been with a woman. There's something about making love to a man and having a penis in you that no dildo can duplicate. I realize that other women may feel different but that's what makes us unique.
  10. I'm a big believer in pussy massage when I'm starting masturbation. Using both hands I'll start massaging the area between my outer lips and inner thigh occasionally rubbing my pussy mound . As the excitement builds I'll use the three middle fingers on one hand to massage the outer lips with the middle finger slipping between them. It reaches a point that I'll insert fingers in my vagina while still rubbing my clitoris shortly after a flood of juices usually follows. I think most of us masturbate this way and I've found that of all the other things I've tried I like this method the best.
  11. It sounds as though the ice has been broken for more satisfying activities. Here's hoping that your relationship will grow into something more sexually enticing. I think part of the problem bi-girls have is finding a partner that is willing to share all the pleasures that two women can share. I think that you're very lucky to have found a potential relationship that could lead to bigger and better things!!! Good Luck !!!!
  12. I'm sure I've mentioned this before on this site but British accents is a real panty dropper for me I just love watching British based shows partially for the accents.
  13. It sounds as though you used one that was too short if you were having problems keeping it in. I would suggest trying one that is longer while the two of you are facing each other or on top in missionary position. I've used an 18 inch one and both of us had no problem with it slipping out . I've found if you grab it mid point while both of you are riding it it helps with the sensation of being penetrated. I'm not aware of any harness that they make for them but a harness would definitely help with keeping it in place.
  14. My suggestion is to show each other the way you like to be stimulated with fingers. I'm sure you and the other person want your experience to be the best and I've found that show and tell is the best way to please each other. Just my 2 cents on the subject !!!!
  15. When I was young I had a circle of girlfriends which I hung out and did things with like I guess most of us did. We used to get together for sleepovers at each others house doing and talking about things that we were curious about. As we matured we started talking about sex and physical feelings we were having. I recall one girl talked about how good it felt when she rubbed herself. Most of us could relate to what she was saying but were embarrassed to bring it up among our little group thinking it was something we shouldn't do. The more she talked about how good it felt I think most of wanted to try it and so later that night when everyone was suppose to be sleeping I could hear sounds from other girls which I'm sure was girls experimenting with masturbation. We had other sleepovers which we started expanding our experiences which included rubbing each other while kissing. Eventually we reached a point that we engaged in oral sex which I think caused me to realize that sex between females could be so fulfilling. I started dating boys and enjoyed my time with them but in the back of my mind I couldn't forget how good it felt being with other girls. You didn't have to worry about getting pregnant and girls knew how to please other girls. I do love intercourse but sex with women is on another level all by itself.