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  1. It's hard not to checkout other women at my gym since it has a community shower which is a large room with three shower heads on each wall for a total of six. I get to see all kinds of shapes some with small breasts other large, some trimmed others full bush or shaved. I find my self starring and I've noticed other women doing the same. I've received and given compliments so it's not unusual to have a conversation with another woman while we are naked in the shower. I've even gone out afterwards with some of the women for drinks or dinner afterwards. Some encounters have lead to more while others are more casual becoming just friends. Depending on what you and the other woman is looking for a gym is a good start in finding women of similar interests.
  2. We all occasionally have tightness problems but KY Jelly is a great lubrication. You could also try asking for more foreplay before the girl tries to finger you. I've found the more foreplay I receive the wetter I seem to get which helps with fingering or intercourse. I know sometimes we get swept up in the moment but try having her rub your pussy lips for a while longer before she inserts her finger. It may just work too!!!!
  3. Well this is a popular topic since I recall replying to this often... Anyway I'm shaved and I like the same or close trim on other women. I think in my opinion it looks better and helps to maintain a better level of cleanliness since you can wipe removing more since it doesn't leave much to cling to the pubes. It also doesn't tickle as much if you're lucky enough to venture into that area.
  4. Fortunately my husband knows, understands and accepts the fact that occasionally I have a desire to be with another female. I explained to him that it's not that I don't find sex with him satisfying but there are certain things a woman can provide that a man never will. I explained that I like performing oral sex on women because I like the scent, texture and the physical pleasure of running my tongue on and between her pussy lips. Since my husband really likes performing oral sex on me I think he better understands and accepts that aspect of my sexual desire. To answer your question before my husband and I married I was hesitant to divulge my bisexual desire to him thinking he would be upset so I chose a time I knew would be idea and didn't really start off telling him of my desire but sort of lead up to the subject of women loving women. I for a time while we were dating did not take advantage of seeing other women not knowing if he would get upset if he found out. So yes I and probably a lot of women in similar situations have felt or fell the same way.
  5. I think missed opportunities are the ones that we remember the most and sometimes regret not pursuing. I had a similar experience and have often wondered what if.... I've learned not to pass up any opportunities regardless of how fleeting they may be.
  6. We all do things that sometimes we regret. I don't see any purpose in telling your BF if like you say it would create unnecessary drama and relationship problems. Let sleeping dogs lie as they say and move on with your life with your BF. You have no cause to feel guilty since it was a one time thing and something I don't think you plan on repeating at least any time soon. You are not a terrible person to keep this discretion to yourself and it's nothing to be ashamed over.
  7. The article really didn't surprise me that much . My experience has been that women are flexible enough that almost anything can excite them especially certain male and female nudity. The one exception in my opinion would be a woman that is exceptionally religious and leads their life by how their scriptures indicate they should behave. I think most women like a little spice in their life even if it means seeking it from their own gender.
  8. Cherished, Thanks for your reply!!! I went ahead and ordered a Satisfyer and can't wait to try it and share with my friends......
  9. I came across an ad for a clitoris simulator called the Satisfyer (www.satisfyer .com) and was wondering if any Shybi girl has tried one. It appears to fit over the clitoris with what appears to be a suction cup and provides stimulation. I'm really interested in buying one but don't want to waste my money if it doesn't provide much satisfaction. I'm really into clitoral stimulation and this appears to be just the thing for such activity.
  10. I think it depends who is on the other end of the strap-on or penis. I've had it both ways and depending on the person prefer either. My husband knows how to use his penis along with other physical maneuvers that bring we to orgasm after orgasm and other women have also pleased me using a strap-on. If I had to chose I still prefer my husbands penis .
  11. I'm not sure I qualify as young being in my 30s but there are a couple of women in my friends group that I'm very attracted to and they are in their late 40s. I know the feeling is mutual so we get along very well since we all desire the same interaction with each other. I think if you're attracted to a women regardless of age let them know since the feeling most likely will be mutual. I don't see myself being very interested to women 60+ but you just never know until you're face with that circumstance. Appearance, attitude and openness are things that mostly attract we to a woman age is secondary.
  12. I think my attraction to other females stated when I was in my early teens but didn't know why or what caused me to feel the way I did. I hung out with a group of girls and we would have sleep overs at each others house. I remember the first time I saw my friends naked there was a feeling I had that I couldn't explain but it was wondering what it would be like to kiss and touch another girl. I think it's normal for other females to compare themselves with other females but the feeling I had was wanting to caress and kiss girls I was physically attract to on the lips and breasts. I was to nervous to act on my feeling until later in life since I thought it would alienate the girls in my group and always wondered if I was the only one in my group that had these feelings. I've lost contact with my childhood friends but I'm sure most of us that are bi had similar experiences which we didn't understand until later in life.
  13. My opinion is she's interested in you and is testing the waters to see if you might be interested in her. One of the most difficult things a bi woman has is finding another female that they can share experiences in female to female love. Since she's married and has a family that just makes it that more difficult. Depending on how interested you are in her it might be a good opportunity for both of you to satisfy your bi sexual urges. Because she came out to you it seems to imply she's interested in you and wants to let you know the way is clear if you want to become lovers.
  14. It's never a good idea to hide something from your spouse but I can understand her reservation about approaching her husband on her feelings for women. If her husband loves her deeply he may understand her desire to have sex with women. He may also take her desire as an insult that he isn't "MAN" enough to satisfy her sexually. Without knowing further details on her relationship with her husband and what type of man he is it might be best for her to keep things under wrap while being careful so he dosen't suspect or find our about her bi nature.
  15. Well with me foreplay almost always start with clothes on especially if I'm wearing a skirt which leads to sex in the nude. If I'm with my husband at home, at the movies or out for dinner and we get playful he'll start with his hand on my inner thigh slowing making his way to rubbing me through my panties. It has made for some interesting situations where I sometimes can't contain myself and will squirm or make sounds which sometimes draw unwanted attention from strangers !!!! I've had similar experiences with some of the girls in my FWB group but they have almost always been somewhere a lot more private and not so public. Especially if we're in skirts!!!! ......