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About ana

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  • Birthday 05/29/92

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    Goo Goo Dolls, Sister Hazel, Bon Jovi, Nickelback, Show tunes...
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    I love nature & being outside.
    My favorite season is the fall because of all the beautiful colored leaves, the crisp but not freezing weather....
  • Favourite Book
    Love You Forever & Fantasy books
  • Favourite TV Show
    Archer (Though it's gone downhill since season 6), Doctor Who, Friends, South Park
  • Favourite Film
    Pay it Forward

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  1. I'm in NJ. If we get more people involved, is there a chance we could do a meet up? NYC or something
  2. You've been intimate with a woman while being married? If so, how have those experiences enhanced your marriage/ brought you and your husband closer? Also, I will probably be posting my story/situation sometime in the coming days. Until then, long story short, my bf knows I'm into women and no longer wants me to explore that.
  3. That's not weird at all. I sometimes have a finger rubbing there, but don't really put it in.
  4. hey there :) 

    Happy 2018!

  5. I know that protecting every member's personal information and identity is a high priority here. La-Femme and moderators have been working extremely hard to make this accessible. So thank you!! I also know it's a work in progress. I've noticed that when I got to the website, before logging in, I can see member's posts and shoutbox entries. I couldn't find a way to change my privacy settings to make sure my posts aren't available to the general public. Has anyone else noticed this? is concerned about it? I'm sure the moderators will address this and other people's questions/concerns.
  6. Welcome. Hope you can find what you're looking for.
  7. Thanks for adding me!

  8. I love him. He is my everything. Yet I *need* a woman.

    1. myladylove


      Exactly where I was.

    2. ana


      How did/ do you deal with it?


    3. myladylove


      Went out and got a woman, wasn't easy though, meeting one or making it work.

  9. Hi ana..did you get anyone to speak to....give me a shout when ever if you like..

  10. Always remember to be kind to yourself!

    1. myladylove


      Always, don't rely on anyone else to be either!

  11. I feel hopeless.

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    2. Shebop


      All of us felt like that at one point. It'll happen when the time is right. Believe me xx

    3. ana


      I think that now is the right time. Before I settle down with/ enter into an exclusive relationship with a man, I need to experience a woman. I go to LGBT programs, chat with folks on Shy's, but doesn't seem to get me anywhere. Where do I go if I'm looking just to hook up??

    4. Shebop


      You could try dating sites such a mingle 2 which are free. You're very young so if it's a hook up you're looking for you should have no problem

  12. I am glad that this thread and other supports are helping you through this. While I hope you are all doing well, I want to thank you for reviving this thread with your recent posts. I too have been recently compelled to harm myself. Mainly, I 'enjoy' palpating my scars but they are fading. If I hadn't been following this topic, I probably would not have looked here for encouragement to refrain from cutting. What does stop me is knowing my significant other (I guess I'd call him that) would most likely not talk to me for a while if he found out. And he probably would find out. If he sees so much as a little scratch on my body, he gets worried that I did it on purpose. Thankfully, I do not recall the last time I hurt myself on purpose. I wish you the best.
  13. I started birth control two months ago. I see how it's effective: I can't get pregnant if I can't have sex. I don't have sex because I have my period ALL THE FRICKING TIME! Apparently it's normal, my body is just adjusting to the hormones and what not. But over a 60 day period, I've been bleeding for 30 days. (not all consecutive) The flow is light/moderate to just spotting. If I didn't change my tampon several times a day for sanitary and safety reasons, I'd go through just one tampon a day. But I don't have even have sex when just spotting. I'd like to, but I think it would be gross. Not to mention religious restrictions regarding impurity during menstruation. (Yes, an ironic concern considering I am currently having premarital sex) So I'm curious as to whether some of you here have ever had sex on your period. What was it like? If it was with a man, how was he not grossed out by it? Thanks!