Platinum Shy-Bi Girl
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About cantgetadecentusername

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  • Birthday 01/30/1978

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  • Music
    Pretty much anything apart from house music
  • Location
    North West UK
  • Interests
    Reading, sewing, chatting, dancing
  • Favourite Book
    Philip Pullmans Northern Lights Trilogy
  • Favourite TV Show
    Game of Thrones
  • Favourite Film
    Rocky Horror Picture Show

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  1. I'm plucking up the courage to go to one of these nights. There are a couple within driving distance from me that have ladies nights. Maybe after the summer!
  2. I'm pretty open about things and will try most things once! I'm on Fet Life as I'm quite kinky and I enjoy looking at peoples lists of kinks and finding out what they were. I've discovered things I want to try through that
  3. Fab. I'm sending it to my Kindle now
  4. I go to an actual book club but think an online one would be great particularly as I'm going to have to stop going to the real life one when I start Uni in Sept!
  5. I think I used it a few times but no more than that. I can't even remember the password! I'll maybe look once the updates have been done
  6. I'm north of Manchester
  7. I love your username

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    2. Nidalaeh


      I can completely understand that

    3. cantgetadecentusername


      Although I do use it on Tumblr too but there is nothing there that can identify me :)


    4. Nidalaeh


      This is my gaming ID. Honestly, I'm not caring who knows anymore,just want to be the one to tell my mom and sis

  8. I read a fabulous fan fiction story where scarification was done and it was described really well. I love the idea of it (it's on my list of things I'm curious about on Fet Life!) but I'm not sure I could ever go through with it.
  9. Whoot whoot! I'm all for getting the bi propaganda out there
  10. I'm in a poly relationship and I have no desire to date men other than my husband. We both date women (he is straight) and it's a dynamic that works for us. I don't have a female partner at the moment but I'm looking and in the future I may have more than one female partner (wishes really hard!!)
  11. I'm in a poly relationship with my husband - we've been together for 23 years and only opened up our relationship about 3 years ago. Both he and I have separate relationships with women and I doubt we would ever have a triad or relationship with three people in it at the same time (although never say never!) I split from my girlfriend in January after 18 months together as she wanted someone who could prioritise her and I wasn't that person - we are still friends though. My husband and I still class ourselves as poly even though we aren't dating anyone else at the moment. I'm chatting to a few ladies but think they will stay friends rather than develop into anything else. One thing I will say about having a poly relationship is that it makes you much more open about feelings and things that might turn into resentments if left to fester. We have talked a lot more about things over the past three years than in the previous 20! It's not easy but it can be wonderful.
  12. I love the Welsh accent and I'm a sucker for a Northern UK accent.
  13. 1. Is there anyone of your friends that you would ever consider having sex with? Yes! 2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night? Afternoon 3. What side of the bed do you sleep on? Right 4. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money? Yes - I life model sometimes 5. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath? Yes both 6. Do you watch/read pornography? Watch and read. I prefer reading porn 7. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed? Both if that makes sense. I'm a switch 8. Do you love someone on your blogroll? Blogroll?? 9. Would you choose love or money? Love 10. Your top three favorite kinks in bed? Being hit with something (on my arse), being teased until I'm begging to come and being tied down. 11. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually? No. 12. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex? On my honeymoon in Paris 13. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex? If we are talking things other than penetrative sex then the queue in a fish and chip shop! 14. Have you ever been caught having sex Yes 15. Ever been to a bar just to get sex? no 16. Ever been picked up in a bar? no 17. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex? yes 18. Had sex in a movie theater? Yes 20. Had sex in a bathroom? Yes 21. Have you ever had sex at work? Yes 22. Bought something from an adult store? Yes 23. Do you own any sex toys? Yes, lots! 2 strap ons (1 normal and 1 is a thigh one), magic wand, g spot massager, various hitty things like crops, whips and paddles, dildo's, things for sensation play like a pinwheel. 24. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film? Yes, 26. Do you think oral sex constitutes as a form of intercourse? Yes of course 27. What’s your favorite sexual position? I love doggy style with guys or ladies with strap ons and I love giving women oral sex - it's my favourite thing to do 28. What’s your favorite sex act? performing oral sex 29. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time? No but I would love too!
  14. I love sexting. Especially if you are out and about on public transport. One of my previous female lovers knew I was on the bus and kept sexting me the filthy things she was going to do to me when we next met up. I kept getting all hot and bothered and I'm sure the woman opposite me knew what was going on as I kept biting my lip!