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About Mocha24

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    Avett Brothers
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    I science a lot. I played softball growing up and still play from time to time. I also play the violin and have recently picked up ukulele, guitar and banjo are next on my list. As a true nerd, I can solve a rubik's cube
  • Favourite Book
    The Art of Racing in the Rain, Harry Potter, Park Service Trilogy
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    Orphan Black, Game of Thrones, The 100, Modern Family
  • Favourite Film
    About Time

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  1. @blueberry Honestly, I haven't had any experience with a woman, just that very intense crush that has left me wondering whether I would be better suited to be with a woman than a man. I haven't told my boyfriend because I didn't know if this thought in the back of my mind would be worth mentioning to him. I also don't want him to get the idea that I'm asking for a threesome, that's just something that isn't on my list of things to try.
  2. @Robin how do you deal with it? I've read a lot of stories on here about women who were married and eventually ended up divorcing to be with a woman. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I can't help but thinking that I shouldn't continue a relationship with this guy if I'm having thoughts about being with a woman because this might end in divorce and a lot of heartbreak for both of us. At the same time though, I don't want to break up with him for a "maybe" and I truly enjoy being with him
  3. I joined this site a few years ago after developing an intense crush on a colleague which failed to develop into anything more substantial, and sadly haven't had any experience with a woman since then. I tried some online dating apps with no results. I am currently dating a man who is absolutely adorable and amazing, but I CANNOT stop thinking about what it would be like to be with a woman. In my previous relationships with men, my desire to be with a woman abated, and I was able to focus entirely on our relationship. Right now I think about being with another woman almost daily, and I feel guilty for it. Not because I'm ashamed, but because I feel like I shouldn't be fantasizing about other people when I'm in a monogamous relationship. The worst part about this is the fact that this guy "checks the boxes" of the qualities that I look for in a partner, like marriage partner. I love him and I want to be with him, but I can't help but wonder if there is a woman out there that would take my breath away and reignite the intense feelings that I had for my colleague. I haven't experienced those overwhelming feelings with my boyfriend, but then I also wonder whether the feelings I had for another woman were simple infatuation, or could have led to something more. Anyway, thanks for reading my rant. Any input is appreciated.
  4. Mocha24

    if it's hard for you to meet a woman

    I definitely feel your pain. I recently started a new job, and I feel like I've attracted a decent amount of attention....from all the older men close to my dad's age -_- can hardly find a guy my own age, much less a woman. There are a few women in my department near my age, but they all definitely have boyfriends or husbands. Sigh. I've also looked around at online dating sites, no luck there either. Like you, I have been on dates with men, and I was sitting there thinking about how I'd much rather be spending my time with a woman instead. Happy early birthday though, I hope that you have a good day tomorrow!
  5. I very rarely feel that "spark" with a first date, which may be a contributing factor as to why none of my relationships have been wildly successful...any time I have experienced the "spark", the other party decided that they weren't interested. Bummer for me
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    Where Would You Like To Be Right Now?

    I would like to go somewhere warm where i have no responsibilities beyond enjoying the company of the person I'm with and being happy.
  7. Mocha24

    What Song Meets You Mood Right Now?

    Lonely by Akon has been on loop in my mind recently :/ fantastic
  8. Mocha24

    What Was Your Favorite Class In School?

    My favorite class that I ever took was intro to biotechnology...although it was an introductory class, I took it my senior year of college, and it tied together every bio class I had ever taken and related it to real-world applications. We also got guest speakers from industry who related their jobs to what we were currently learning.
  9. I have a master's degree in biomedical engineering. Haven't noticed any sort of trend within my LGBTQ friends
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    What Body Shape Do You Prefer?

    I'm generally attracted to taller, fit women. Although by taller, I mean my height or shorter by a few inches. For some reason, women who are taller than me by a fair margin weird me out haha (I'm almost 5'10). Body type still pales in comparison to personality and rapport in determining who I'm attracted to though. I've been caught off guard by women after a conversation or two
  11. I'd have to go with natural. I think it's odd when a woman wears so much makeup that she's unrecognizable without it. I don't think there's anything wrong with wearing some makeup, but I think there is a point where it becomes too much, like why? That's just my opinion, all you ladies who love your makeup, go for it, teach me! It's just not my everyday attire. Time and a place for me I suppose
  12. Brooke. Although at the time, I didn't recognize it for what it was. And she was a few years older than me, at the time when a few years were a huge deal. It seemed like she was a woman who had all her stuff together and I was just a kid lol
  13. I'd have to say evening...morning breath kills it for me
  14. If I were to be with a woman, I would want the same things that I would want in a relationship with a man. Friendship, sex, a strong connection, life building... Luckily (I guess?) for me, I am not married nor in a relationship so I have all the freedom I want to explore
  15. Drinking wine and blasting music