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  1. Terrible isn't it.
  2. I feel like the OP. I don't want to hurt a lovely man, or ruin my children's happy life. I think as soon as I tell him, the marriage is over. I don't want to lose him as he's my best friend, but I don't really want to have sex with him. I feel really sad about it.
  3. You sound just like me. I haven't told my husband either, I think if I did that would be the beginning of the end of our marriage. I love him very much, just not quite as much physically nowadays.
  4. I found from 35 I was horny all the time. 37 now, hope it stays around;)
  5. I'm in exactly same situation. It still hurts but it's slowly getting better.
  6. I don't think I'd send it. I've thought about doing this countless times, but I know I cannot get her to feel like I want her to feel. You want this woman to tell you she feels like you do and you want her to be hurting too, I know. But she doesn't. If she feels anything for you then let her be the one to get in touch. It's awful having your heart broken, but give it some time and rise above this.
  7. Well, I heard nothing from her for 10 days, then one afternoon a message to say she missed me. I played it cool, said I was fine, now nothing again for the last few days. Ugh. I'm starting to feel a bit better about things but I'm still hung up on her. I'm not going to push for anything, she knows where I am if she wants me. It's a shame, that's all.
  8. Thanks all; you are all absolutely right. I've always felt there was something between us for a long time and in the past year or so, there definitely was- flirting and a bit more but she'd never say the words and go cold on me for periods of time which hurt me. Knowing I was leaving soon, our thing was back on, and on my last night she'd been drinking so had her guard down. It felt like I was out with my girlfriend. It was nice. But right at the last minute she kissed me goodbye and said she stay in touch by liking my statuses on Facebook. In the morning she was cold with me again. I think maybe she does find me attractive, but she's older than me and loves her husband very much. I know that feeling like I do will fade in time, just feel rotten right now. But I have to squash it deep down inside because no one can know about this and it's all made me feel like I'm going mad.
  9. Thanks. It's 3.30am and I had about 3 hours sleep last night, just feel awful, really wound up and sick. I do think you're right about time being a healer- just need it to hurry along:) I think she doesn't want to see me again because she's scared of her feelings but maybe her feelings weren't as strong as mine anyway. I'm in actual physical pain like someone is sat on my chest.
  10. My long term crush from work finally revealed she had feelings for me too on my last day in my job that I left pretty acrimoniously. When we said our goodbyes, she said she'd probably never see me again. And I feel sick. Yesterday was the worst day ever, and this was the final kicker. I don't know where to begin to get over this. I have a family and a husband who know nothing of this and carrying on as if nothing has happened is hurting a lot. I can't sleep or eat properly and I've been on antidepressants for a while. I don't know what advice I'm looking for- I just don't know how much more I can take this year. Where do I find the strength to get back up? How do I move on and try and make a success of my life?
  11. Yep, I like. I also like to taste myself on my man iyswim
  12. I would perhaps ask them outright if you've done something to upset them? If so, you can explain yourself better or cut your losses. If you've done nothing wrong then she might not be worth it anyway.
  13. I'm in a similar situation, but we're both married. If you're boyfriend wouldn't object, what have you got to lose?
  14. Wow, I would love this!