myladylove

Platinum Shy-Bi Girl
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  1. Christmas dinner
  2. Christmas tree
  3. Amount
  4. Action. Lady friends, please don’t mention or even allude to anything you may have discussed with myself in a private pm on the public forum, it is not good netiquette. Thank you. Cut.
  5. Yes I’m fine thanks Kairi, don’t think it was done intentionally, just a lack of education on polite netiquette hence my little tutorial.
  6. Ha ha, me too, I have some interests but they are solitary really. Actually you have given me a tip, when and if I do try again (and it’s doubtful atm) I will use the word ‘Introvert’ why not? Let’s own it and be proud of who we are, we are not the only ones. I loved your post btw, and let me tell you of a positive and appealing quality you have; a good sense of humour. Lol.
  7. Some good performances for the first week, getting high scores.
  8. Yay I am a fan of that as well, was pleasantly surprised to hear it is returning.
  9. Didn’t think Joe would win but hey ho, they all winners when they get to the final I guess.
  10. It’s close but I think Alexandra or Debbie. It is very enjoyable to watch, a great distraction from other matters. Long live Strictly!
  11. Ain’t love, ain’t love, ain’t love a surprise...

  12. I just wanna get it right this time, no grief, no hurt, no deceit and no drama. I want honesty, friendship love and loyalty. Too much to ask?

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    2. Hungry

      Hungry

      You're saying it like the majority behave this way, they don't.  I think you need to look at your feelings and wherever they stem from because not only is this affecting your life, if you're not careful you'll offend someone on here. 

      For the most part nobody cares about your sexuality if you don't. Tarring everyone with the same brush is the recipe for a sad life. 

    3. myladylove

      myladylove

      It’s true that this is my experience and as this is a site for bi women I don’t think that expressing and trying to understand myself is in anyway offensive to anyone else. I guess not many of us go through life without being offended anyway. I am just a little bit tired of straight women imposing gay women onto me when they have no idea what they have put me through in the past.

    4. Hungry

      Hungry

      Who are these women imposing on you? Is this a current thing?

      That wasn't me saying you shouldn't share, but lots of women on here identify as gay and that's not their attitude, agenda or experience and on a site for women across the same-sex spectrum, it's probably not a good idea to be overly negative, that's all.

  13. Well done to you, I know how scary and disappointing it can be. I’ve tried twice and deleted twice. I think it’s about knowing how to present your profile in words and pictures and knowing exactly what you want. I am surprised in this day and age that there are not tutorials on this subject, I have seen some really excellent profiles and some pretty poor ones. You can get advice on which websites are reputable though which is good, I have of late been contemplating a third attempt (third time lucky) but I am taking time until I decide exactly what I want so as not to unintentionally deceive or hurt anyone. I also want to get my choice of website right. What is a generic photo btw?
  14. Hello pavements, it’s good to see you again....

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    2. shazza21

      shazza21

      So off putting. Most people can't get their head around married couples being ok with one of them having a relationship outside of their marriage because monogamy has been inbedded as the norm. Some of us just aren't normal lol ;)

    3. myladylove

      myladylove

      It depends what you want and knowing what you want is the first step. Just vaguely saying you want a woman is not enough. The woman wants to know where she stands. Also it is not unheard of for a Lesbian to go with a married woman. Both the Lesbians I had affairs with knew I was married but it was made clear hubby wasn’t playing.....

    4. shazza21

      shazza21

      I know what I want and no hubby isn't going to join in. Just want that special friend I can make feel special regardless of how she identifies 

  15. The problem is that the males and females that I attracted in the spring and summer of my life are impacting negatively in the autumn and winter of my life.

    1. shazza21

      shazza21

      Don't let them. Be proud of who you are xx

  16. That this weather is holding me up but that’s better than venturing out and doing myself an injury. NHS hospitals to be avoided at any cost especially this time of year. (Sigh)
  17. -12 brrrr...onesie warming on the radiator..

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    2. myladylove

      myladylove

      So true, me, I get stir crazy when I can’t get out.

    3. Hungry

      Hungry

      Aren't we all.. :blush: Don't worry about it's the season of eating anyway...

    4. Hungry

      Hungry

      I know what you mean, I came home early before it colder just so I wouldn't land on my backside :P 

  18. Stars
  19. Night
  20. I was gonna run some errands and do some more Christmas shopping today but the pavements here are like ice rinks, don’t fancy falling arse over tit really..

    1. shazza21

      shazza21

      I'd volunteer to hold you hand so you don't fall :air_kiss:

  21. I’m not the only one born around Christmas time then, it’s a white birthday this year for us ladies.

  22. Loving
  23. Soothing