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caliwoman last won the day on April 11

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    Anything and everything except 75% of country
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    Palm Springs, California
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    She's Come Undone
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    Game of Thrones, Dexter, Ray Donovan, Wings
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    No Country for Old Men, Six Degrees of Separation, When Harry Met Sally, Postcards from the Edge
  1. Hey there. How are you? Have you found a new therapist yet?

    1. caliwoman


      Hi. I'm good, thank you. 

      Ive gone through 4-5 other therapists since her and I've yet to commit to one, lol. I just haven't felt a connection with any of them. 

    2. ChemFem


      Fair enough, take your time. Glad to hear you're doing well.

  2. Ex-husband invited me out to the strip club last weekend. An acquaintance like friend invited me next weekend. It was meh. Ever since my regular dancer left, it's not the same. I'd like to believe there was mutual chemistry between us, but maybe it was just that I was super attracted to her?! I rec'd some lap dances and she did okay. She actually kinda hurt me with her hip bone in between my legs, but I'm a trooper like that. Because I wasn't super into it, I was able to ask her what the difference was in dancing for a woman vs. a man. She said, "Well, you're so much smaller!" And then went onto say that it totally depends on the situation. Such as is the man forcing the woman to get one? Is she dancing for a couple? Does she want one and he reluctantly obliged? If it's a woman by herself, has she had a dance before or is she the kinda woman who knows what she wants? I liked her answer lol
  3. BTW, I haven't had sex in 5 months...I'm gonna need you to be more descriptive. Like much, much more. Lmao...
  4. You hooked up with ur BFF?
  5. I can usually tell when she's feeling me up. Just sayin' lol
  6. I just got my first tattoo on my rib cage area. It hurt!! Lol. Is there an area that was particularly painful for you when you got tattooed? I'm interested in maybe the inside of the arm, but not sure yet.
  7. I totally should have read this before getting my first tattoo. Lol
  8. See, I'm not the only one who wonders this. LOL. I was thinking that, too. How can you NOT be turned on by that? Haha.
  9. I loved the sex scene, lol.
  10. I've been through that as well and certainly feel for you. He freaked out as soon as I started talking to someone and it was okay with him. Things w/that particular woman took off, as did my feelings and I couldn't contain them. After being with a woman and the feeling of being with her, feelings for my hubby dwindled. I tried as hard as I could to maintain them, but I just couldn't. It was a very hard decision to leave, but it ended up being the right thing to do for the both of us. It's not easy. During sex, I found myself fantasizing more and more. I'd be on top of him, picturing what I could do w/a woman.
  11. Awwwww, thanks for the kudos. I did start out just like you describe now. Maybe you have can have a friend go with you? Once inside, all attention is on the ladies, that's for sure. They also dance differently for us, as I think it's a welcomed change of pace. I really hope you can try one out, even if you just sit for a drink
  12. The way ur smiley is wagging its Never mind. Haha.
  13. So, it's regular dancer is long gone, leaving because- what I can only assume to be- a falling out w/that particular club. I've since returned to a couple of strip clubs. I received my first all nude dance, which wasn't quite "all nude" and more like topless. Fully nude clubs don't serve alcohol, so the atmosphere was a bit tense and strange. The dance was...different. She led me to a row of rooms that were shielded by a drape, for privacy. I set my things down next to a dimly lit lamp atop a night stand. Lying down on a leather chaise lounge, she climbs on top of me and performs the most robotic dance ever. The only time I was really turned on was when her boob was on my arm. Second gal, whom I rec'd a "regular" dance from is blonde and cute, a few tattoos, and reminds me of a gal I had sex with. Third gal was something else. Last night, I relax at the club and intend on just having a drink or two. Men at these clubs are so strange...they line up like 7th grade boys, huddled against the wall at school dance with no intention of any real interaction w/any of the dancers. I notice that these men also enjoy watching their buddies get lap dances, as they frequently peer over the partition that separates the club floor from the private lap dance area. At many points, men just stand with their arm draped over the boundary wall, watching others get dances. Kinda weird. I think I'm about to get up and leave for the night, when I notice that the hottest woman there is free and passing right in front of me. She's gorgeous, but I"m skeptical as to whether she's a good dancer or not. She has straight jet black hair, a slim figure, firm thighs, a very nice ass and (I'm guessing) DDD breasts. I touch her arm and ask her for a dance and as usual, she's a bit surprised. We go back to the dance area, she asks me for my name and allows me to choose my seat. We sit for a moment before the song starts and then she spreads my legs open, adjusting my body to the position she likes. She grinds her ass into my crotch and leans back, sliding down to the floor. She puts her breasts in my face and against my lips. At one point, she puts her boobs on mine and bounces up and down. I start to moan in her ear and she starts to moan with me. "You're fucking turning me on!! I love you moaning for me!!" she says excitedly. I apologize, for some reason, and she says I don't need to be sorry...she likes it. I grab her ass and sit up, positioning her knee to where it can feel the best against me. I look to my left and the guy getting a dance in the next chair is completely oblivious to his own dancer and is watching us go at it.
  14. Warning! Caution! Don't read this thread when you're horny AF. I haven't had sex since April and now I can't stop thinking about it (I almost wrote, "I can't stop thinking about tit"). Mmmmm, the softness of a woman. Her curves. Every inch of her. Her moans. The catch of her breath when she starts to get really into it....
  15. Finally someone that also watches GoT in here. Hello!

    1. caliwoman


      Haha, hello!