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Clarity last won the day on July 15 2016

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    Mountain Hiking, Climbing, Martial Arts, Guitar, Good Books, Art, Being Outdoors.

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  1. Hey thanks for passing, hope you don't mind the add x

  2. I just used the image icon and entered in the actual url rather than uploading a saved photo ;). So it essentially just links to the image at whatever size it is online. I guess I just picked huge images...not complaining though ;)
  3. LOL! Those came out HUGE! Margot Robbie and Jason Momoa.....droool.
  4. This sounds like fun! I was actually working with a personal trainer after I had my baby. Breastfeeding did not make me lose any weight unfortunately and I was hanging on to about 35 extra pounds of fat, and I was REALLY out of shape. I wasn't really "big" but I was not in shape at all. I got serious with my diet and started jogging and lifting weights and the results were phenomenal. I didn't just lose the fat but I got toned and strong, and just overall felt awesome. My skin was better, my nails were stronger, my hair was shinier. I've been slacking the last few months, and over the holidays gained an extra 10 pounds as well, my skin has broken out, and I just feel bleh. Not a single pair of my jeans fits....So yeah....time to get on it again! My goal right now is to get back on the weights, lose the bit of weight I gained, and just keep working on toning up and FEELING GOOD. Current: 145 pounds Target: 130 pounds p.s. the one tip I will give anyone reading this, is try not to be concerned about the scale. If you are doing any weighted exercise you are going to lose fat and build muscle at the same time, and that is where the toning comes from. But muscle weighs a lot more than fat, and I have found that there is an initial drop in weight, and then the loss is very slow after that, or the scale doesn't budge because the muscle is building. Just focus on how you FEEL and how your clothes are fitting, not how much you weigh, the scale can be a real mind F$%&, and can easily become an obsession! If anyone wants any tips for weight loss, muscle growth and toning, I am happy to share what I learned that worked! Cheers!
  5. It sounds like she has already expressed the interest, and your mutual attraction has already been established, so I would say definitely start the conversation! I myself have never flirted with another woman (unfortunately), but if I were in your shoes I would start with small innocent compliments, and let the conversation naturally take it's course after that. You could start by just telling her how attractive she is, or what you like about her, and then see how it goes from there. I completely understand overthinking it all and not having a clue how to talk to a woman (Hence the fact I still haven't hahaha). But I think deep down we know what the other woman wants to hear, how to talk to each other (We are women, we understand each other after all!), and you are exactly right we just overthink it. If I were in your shoes, I would start with safe compliments, see how she reacts, and I am sure the conversation will just take it's natural course after that. Here is a quote I found today that I shared with a lovely friend, I'd like to share it with you as well! "They say, "Look before you leap." So look. But do not look for too long. Do not look into the void of uncertainty trying to predict each and every possible outcome, to evaluate every possibly mistake, to prevent each possible failure. Look for the opportunity to leap, and leap faster than your fear can grab you. Leap before you talk yourself out of it, before you convince yourself to set up a temporary camp that turns into permanent delay on your journey into your own heart." - Vironika Tugaleva
  6. Because I am here to gain more of it, when it comes to myself and my sexuality
  7. I've seen a few topics relating to what we feel most self conscious about, and we all have insecurities and I think that's natural and ok! I would like to take a more positive spin on things and ask you all what you LOVE about yourselves. It can be anything, not just physical. Even better, name as many things as you can! Let's promote some self love :)
  8. Any heavy metal fans out there? I listen to a lot of metal, and I rarely connect with many women in the metal scene, always so many more dudes than chicks it seems! Just a few metal bands I listen to: Opeth, Gojira, Bloodbath, Devin Townsend, Ne Obliviscarus, Dark Tranquility, Soilwork, Darkane, Hypocrisy, Slayer, Pantera, Megadeth, Meshuggah, Dream Theater, Symphony X, Tool, Nevermore, Dying Fetus.....among many others I listen to many different genres of music and I wouldn't really call myself a metal head per se because I listen to a lot of different stuff, but I've always been drawn towards the darker side of life in art and music