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Cute&Curious last won the day on February 25 2017

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  1. I couldn’t do the poll, I didn’t feel that either option fit perfectly. I predominantly think about it but have not PHYSICALLY acted upon it...but I have acted. I have no previous PHYSICAL experience, but I have some online experience (which I believe is still valid). A connection can exist without physical touch...sexual attraction and chemistry can exist without physical touch. Emotional and psychological, and even sexual aspects, do not rely on physical aspects...while my interaction was not physical, my responses and reactions were. So anyway, that’s my bisexual experience level, it’s not entirely traditional, but it’s something
  2. shybi

    Yes, there are a lot of factors to consider, and that will most likely be a problem...those who have the ‘heart’ to lead this site, may not have the technical knowledge to do what needs to be done. I know we’re not there yet, and may not be for a while, but it couldn’t hurt to have a discussion about it now that we know it’s at least a possibility. In the end it doesn’t matter because we don’t get to make those decisions, but it’s still interesting to read other’s opinions. I think that is what this thread has become, a sort of sounding board for members to bounce around ideas and opinions and to share their vision of what the future of Shybi might look well as a place for admin to provide updates and feedback as she sees necessary. However, considering that a lot of members are choosing to opt out of this particular discussion, I’ll take that as my cue to do the same.
  3. shybi

    I think it would be good to have more than one new addition to the admin team, so that when @la-femme is unable to be here, the responsibility isn’t put on one single person. Also, a collaboration of minds can surely only be a good thing, and perhaps prevent the kind of drama la-femme mentioned above, where one person acts as a sort of dictator. And a few extra mods wouldn’t hurt either. Just my opinion of course. I’m excited for a new shybi experience
  4. shybi

    I agree with @ChemFem, voting might be a good idea, I’m sure there’s no way to please everyone but wouldn’t hurt knowing what the majority thinks. I second @BiTriMama, she’s well respected and I think she’d be a great addition to the admin team. I think @Hungry is a great candidate as well. Obviously @la-femme will ultimately make that decision, but I suppose we can throw our opinions out there.
  5. shybi

    Well I can’t speak for everyone, but I’d say this is a good sign @la-femme seems more than happy to look at the possibility of appointing more admins and to ways of supporting the site financially. I think those two things are the key ingredients in working torwards the future of shys. I’m glad to hear that la-femme is on board with that vision.
  6. shybi

    I completely agree with @Hungry, if members are going to support the site (many will be happy to), we need to know what’s going on. I think it’s clear that @la-femme cares about the future of the site, otherwise she would have let it die, but we need to know what the plan is going forward. Everything that Hungry talked about above is what needs to be addressed before we can even think about making changes/improvements. I support everything Hungry is saying and I hope la-femme can get on board.
  7. Welcome! You’re right, this is a great place for support. It’s not typical for a new member introduction to go unnoticed, and receive no response, sorry about that, but as you’ve noticed, we have some site issues at the moment that’s taken the majority of attention. Hopefully all will be back to normal soon and you can enjoy this fantastic little community. Have a look through the forums, particularly ‘how our forum works’, there’s lots of helpful information there including some house rules.
  8. shybi

    Agreed, it’s a lot on one single person (financially and time wise), if there were co-admins, la-femme wouldn’t have so much pressure on her, and we as members would have an admin team who we could rely and depend on to manage the site that we love so much. It’s a win win in my opinion, and I too hope we can move in that direction, otherwise this may very well be the beginning of the end :(
  9. shybi

    Yes, shys is fully accessible through mobile, I’ve only ever used my phone, other then to try a computer just to compare. Before the update last year, mobile format was pretty limited, it was better on my iPad than my iPhone, but nothing compared to good old PC. But since the update I believe mobile is just as functional. I’m really glad that la-femme is around and keeping us updated. I hope it all works out and we’re able to keep our site. I feel truly grateful for all she’s done to keep this place alive all these years, even after she stopped using it for herself. When the site went down last year, she was quick to step in and make changes to save it, despite being MIA for some time. I know there is room for improvement but overall I’m pleased with the site as is. I think what we need the most is admin presence, or at least someone appointed as a sort of co-admin. We could use someone we can communicate with, preferably someone who has access to control panels and can make changes and improvements as necessary. I don’t even know if that’s possible, but I think it would be beneficial to the future of the site (hoping there is a future)
  10. shybi

    I really don’t want to move to another platform, I like this place, best case scenario is to get back in shape. Do we know for sure if @la-femme received enough donations to pay off the 1and1 domain? Did she give anyone any indication that she did? Does anyone have any information on what’s going on?
  11. shybi

    Ok so what happens now? I think we all agree that this site is valuable and we’d all like to see it do we as members make that happen? It seems clear that our current admin no longer has the personal resources to maintain the one faults her for that, but how can we help. Is it a matter of someone(s) purchasing ownership of the site? Does @la-femme have a long term goal in mind? There must be some goal, otherwise why ask for donations to pay the ‘ransom’ to move the server and save the site (for now)? She obviously has interest in keeping the site alive, and so do we, together what can we do to initiate change? Do we really just sit and wait and hope for the best?
  12. What does ‘please help keep our site live’ mean? How do we do that?

    1. la-femme


      You should be able to read the post below or click on the link?  x

    2. Cute&Curious


      Yea, I just discovered that I could read the entire message by clicking on it 

    3. la-femme
  13. Karen, I was 13, she was one of my best friends, but I felt completely different towards her than I did any of my other friends, I just never understood what it was at the time. There were a few more that I didn’t quite understand until looking back. The first time I recognized an actual crush, I was mid 20’s, her name was Jen, and she turned out to be bi. I often wonder what would have happened if I’d had the nerve to make a move.
  14. I get the small town thing, I really do. I doubt I could meet ANYONE who doesn’t have at least a few friends in common. How does she feel about anonymity? Is keeping things secret as important to her, or is she a little more (or all the way) ‘out’?
  15. I’ve heard about this one, around here somewhere, I looked it up but sadly it’s not on Canadian Netflix :(. It’s too bad though, because I think this is a show I could get into. Canadian Netflix is seriously lacking.