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About rem000

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    Dancehall, Contemporary, Rock
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    Studying, Music, Fitness
  • Favourite TV Show
    Game of Thrones, Orange is the New Black

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  1. @Ty2254 I would have probably freaked out just a bit, but I'm super anxious in awkward situations. The pool sounds like fun, though! I'm also curious if you still see her.
  2. I'm mortified! I'm sure my anxiety is making me think this is worse than what it really is, though. 

    I'm a reddit user, and I posted something with my main account and was replying some comments with my secondary. 

    That's the one that I use for all things bisexual and finding chat partners.

  3. I had to change my theme (found all the way on the bottom of the screen) back to "Default".
  4. 1. Is there anyone of your friends that you would ever consider having sex with? No... I think that would be kind of awkward for me. 2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night? I am more of a night person. 3. What side of the bed do you sleep on? I sleep on the right side. 4. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money? No. 5. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath? >> Had sex in a bathroom? Yes, I have had sex in the shower with hubby. 6. Do you watch/read pornography? Yes, I like to occasionally watch porn and read erotica. I love bicurious/ first time stories. I was just reading some today. 7. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed? Somewhere in the middle would be nice. 8. Do you love someone on your blogroll? Nope. 9. Would you choose love or money? I would have to go with love. 10. Your top three favorite kinks in bed? In bed? I have two main kinks: Threesomes and hubby being with another woman. 11. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually? Yes... an ex of mine. 12. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex? Hmm... I haven't had sex in any romantic places. I'm kind of boring. 13. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex? Sadly, no weird places. 14. Have you ever been caught having sex No. 15. Ever been to a bar just to get sex? No. 16. Ever been picked up in a bar? No. 17. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex? Just a couple of kisses. Some more would be nice. 18. Had sex in a movie theater? No, and I don't think I ever would. It sounds like it would be exciting, though. 21. Have you ever had sex at work? Technically, yes... I'm a stay-at-home mom, so I work at home. 22. Bought something from an adult store? Yes! Flavored lube and a vibrator. 23. Do you own any sex toys? Not anymore. I have to get creative. 24. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film? Yup. 26. Do you think oral sex constitutes as a form of intercourse? Hmm... I suppose it could. 27. What’s your favorite sexual position? I really don't have a favorite. 28. What’s your favorite sex act? Penetration, masturbation 29. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time? No.
  5. Watching Game of Thrones tonight.
  6. Detachable shower head and the handle of an electric hair trimmer.
  7. Sounds like fun! I already have a big mouth when I'm not drinking. I think I would blurt out all of my secrets if I were tipsy.
  8. @ChemFem I haven't been on r/poly yet. Maybe I should check it out.
  9. bicurious

    I have been lurking around on r/r4r and similar subreddits, but I still haven't found anyone that I click with. Maybe I'm just too picky or expecting too much... I don't really know. I thought that Reddit was a good idea because you can remain anonymous, and it would give me the chance to figure things out a little more, but maybe it would be better to look for someone around my area. I have tried a few apps such as Tinder, Her and Moovz and have matched with a a couple of women that I wanted to get to know more, but they ghosted. I was told that there are clubs in my city too, but I'm not sure if that's my thing or not. I wouldn't even know what to wear! It has been years since I have gone out. Sometimes I think it would be easier, though. I am always afraid that if I click with someone online and we decide to meet up that they won't like me in person. Although, I have met a few people from Badoo in person, and it went pretty well, but I wasn't looking for anything more than friendship. Well, I think I just need to learn how to go with the flow and not worry so much. Maybe someone will pop up when I'm least expecting it.
  10. @ChemFem You read it already? How did you like it? I hope there will be more to share soon! @Hufflepufflove3 Yeah, I'm usually happy that I'm so picky, but it does make it extremely hard sometimes. :/
  11. @Roxyluvs I wouldn't want to use Craigslist either! What about dating apps? There are a lot of options. You might like "Her" or maybe even "Tinder" or "OkCupid". I always feel akward and nervous talking about women with my husband too. I'm still learning how to go about all of this without making him freak out. Someone here recommending reading "The Ethical Slut". Have you heard of it?
  12. @Shy_Kat Hey, thanks! Hopefully in the future they'll be longer. I'm still not great at organizing my thoughts. I'm glad you worked things out. I'm getting there...
  13. Welcome! I'm pretty new here as well! You are definitely not alone, and I think this forum is a great place to connect with other women and get support. I'm in a similar situation. I'm married, and I find myself fantasising about being with another woman. I haven't had any in-person crushes yet, but I'm not that social either. Maybe I should get out more. Have you thought about looking online?
  14. I joined because I was very confused when I started questioning. I'm married and in my upper 20s, and it kind of took me by surprise. Turns out it's not that uncommon. I only lurked until just recently.
  15. @Graycie I'm in a similar situation. I would assume that online is your best bet. I have tried out a lot of apps, but I still haven't met anyone. I am super shy, so I am the type of person who likes to actually chat a little bit before meeting up. I guess that annoys some people. I would even be happy starting off with an online friendship. I clicked with a couple of ladies, but they ended up ghosting. I'm starting to think that maybe a club or a bar would be easier. I don't really like drinking or going out, though. I hope you find what you're looking for!