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  1. brokengirl0407

    What Do You Sleep In ?

    It depends, but usually a extra long T-shirt. Not very sexy but comfortable and practical for someone who has to get up very early like 4:00 a.m. most days. I have special attrie for those intimate evenings and a set of fannel PJs for the really cold winter nights. But normally it is a long t-shirt
  2. brokengirl0407

    Married women?

    I am a married woman ,who is also involved with another married woman. I didn't set out to fall for another married woman. Nor did I have any preconceived notions of being involved with married women vs single women. For me ,it just happened. I wasn't out looking or searching for another lady, it was just one of those twists of fate that brought us together. It was totally unplanned but I can't help but feeling it was meant to be. Our situations are eerily similar, although she has children and I do not. Both of us truly love our DHs, and neither of us harbor any thoughts of ever leaving our marriage. What we have with each other is beautiful, and is something that we could never get from our DHs. That is not a reflection on our spouses, rather it is a reflection of the special love that only one woman can share with another woman. No our Husbands are not aware of our depth relationship, they do know we are close friends. My g/f lives in a sperate state so it isn't like she and her family live down the street and stop by on a regular basis so there is very little interaction with our husbands . She and I chat on the phone or text each other daily and area able to get together in a city about half way between us 2 or 3 times a year.
  3. I found this one to be sensual and very real - no acting or fake arousal. www.homemoviestube.com/videos/451761/passionate-lesbian-college-sex.html
  4. brokengirl0407

    Never ending , Would you rather

    I assume Western, only because I am woefully ignorant of the Eastern Zodiac. Tennis or Golf ?
  5. I was at a 2 day Continuing Ed conference. Due to congested traffic, I arrived late and had to take a seat up near the front. The girl I seat next to was nice. As the conference unfolded . we shared notes and compared practices at our individual clinics. After the end of the first day, we both went on our on way for dinner. That night I was bored and went down from my room in the hotel to the bar. The saw was super crowded, after looking around I spied a seat at the bar and went to take it. As I sat down I noticed for the first time that the woman sitting next to me happened to be the same lady I had sat next to at that days conference. Over a couple of drinks,we began talking, first about the today's CE sessions, then about our nursing experiences and about our families. As it became late and we each settled up our bills, I took a deep breath, swallowed hard and asked if she might want to come up to my room for a night cap. She ended up staying all night and the next night as well. She and I have been friends and lovers ever since.
  6. brokengirl0407

    Let’s talk Pubes!

    DH trims and manscapes rather short. He knows if he does I give him more oral. I shave in the winter and the rest of the time I wax. I do not like shaving but letting things grow is not an option for me. Once I was clean for the first time I knew I could never go back to full bush ever again. Waxing does hurt initially, but after you have it done a few times it is not bad at all. The nice thing about waxing is the more you do it, not only does the discomfort decrease but the less hair returns each time plus what hair that does return tends grow back finer and less course. My g/f also is totally bare down there as well, she is glorious and so sexy! I aabsolutely love the way she looks and feels. very very kissable...
  7. brokengirl0407

    Your favorite St Paddy’s joke

    Saw this silly corny joke on another website and thought I share it What is green and stays out on your back deck all night? Answer. Paddy O’ Furniture Now tell your goofiest, silliest St Paddy’s Day joke and make us groan or giggle.
  8. I've never had it done, I am a more clitoris focus kind of girl.
  9. brokengirl0407

    Below Her Mouth

    OMG!!!!! I just finished watching Below Her Mouth on Netfilx !!!! My panties are soaking wet. I know I slipped my hand under my panties a few times while watching it. To me , it has to be one of the MOST erotic and sensual movies I have watched in a long time. Are there other films of this high quality and sensuality that I am also missing? If not I could always watch this over and over until my battery operated friend dies.
  10. brokengirl0407

    Anybody else?

    WOW, eye opener! Thanks, Pinklotus! It hadn’ t crossed my mind till I read your comment. The more I think about it the more I think you are right. Feminizing him is a way to make him my submissive and bring him into my comfort zone, maybe?
  11. brokengirl0407

    Butts and butt play

    I admire a nice firm butt as much as the next girl. Having said that I am not in anyway into “ butt play” with my g/f and especially involving my own. However I do have this odd and erotic desire to “peg” my hubby. He of course would rather die a thousands deaths lol. But than it might be my dom side more than anything wanting to make him more submissive.
  12. brokengirl0407

    Just a quick peek

    That's a no for me as well. First , I would not give my hubby or BF approval over who I can and can't kiss. Second, threesomes just don't work for me- not that I have been involved. I just know they are not for me, I tend to be a bit on the jealous side, so seeing my GF or BF kissing each other might bring up BIG issues for me that would cost me my relationship with both. Having said that, to each her own. If that works for you then go for it, jump in with both feet. But it is not something that fits who I am or how I feel.
  13. This is going to sound very weird. My hubby is very very vanilla and very very straight. Anyway several nights ago, we were traveling, he didn't have any clean or dry underwear ( long story) anyway we were in the hotel room, he asked what could he do since he didn't want to go commando, and asked my suggestion. I told him to wear a pair of my clean panties ( I always pack more than I need- I tend to be occd about that. Anyway, he did and way standing there, and looked so hot in my panties. I pulled he immediately into bed for some amazing sex. At least it was amazing for me and he said it was for him too, but than he's a guy so any sex is amazing for him. This is the first even mildly kinky thing he has ever done. I asked him if he would wear them more often and surprising he said yes. I have no idea why it turned me on so. The past couple years, I have been feeling more and more BI, but this was H. O.T.. I wonder if subconsciously I was trying to make hubby more feminine, or superimpose my Bi -desires for him to be a woman. I don't have a clue. Anyone else find dressing your hubby/S.O. up in ladies underthings to be something that flips your switch?
  14. I moved this post from the talk sex to here OK, I have been putting is off for a while now. I am a nurse so that is a big part of reason for my reluctance I guess, it just seems to be embarrassing in a way, even though I know I should not ever feel that way about a medical condition. PIV sex has always cause me discomfort. When I was younger I thought it was just my inexperience an it would eventually get better. But as I got older the pain got worse and worse to the point that I dread having PIV sex with my hubby ( even dildo's are uncomfortable unless they are very small in diameter. That pain and discomfort after PIV sex now make the thought of it distasteful, I am in pain long after we are finished,sometimes I am brought to tears afterwards, which makes my husband feel terrible and in turn makes me feel bad because he thinks it is his fault. I feel so awful , not being able to have a full PIV sexual experience with my husband. He is very understanding, but even though he says he is ok and understands,I can't help but feeling he has some resentment . While I know intellectually it isn't truth and I shouldn't feel that way but I times not being able to enjoy PIV sex makes me feel less like a woman , I hate it when that thought worms it way into my head. It is depressing when that thought shows up and it takes weeks to banish it. I have rarely ever had an "O" with PIV, the total is most likely something I could count on both hands and have a few fingers left over. I have no problem at all "O"ing with Clitoral stimulation. I have tried, different positions, literally dozens of types of lubes, tried lidocaine cream to numb everything ( helps a little but not enough), alcohol (drinking a few more than moderate) and even self-hypnosis all to no avail. I have discussed my condition with several doctors and have received several opinions , of course very few are in agreement. they ranged from "it's an emotional thing take some Valium" to "surgery and ablation of some nerve endings". Bottom line is they just don't really know the true cause or a solution. AS a result, I satisfy my hubby with oral sex. If judging form his reactions , I have become exception at it. It is kind of strange in a way, Now how I feel about giving my hubby a BJ , like an adaptation I guess. maybe like how someone afflicted with loosing their sight becomes more adapt at using their hearing and sense of touch to compensate. I find I have become very aroused by the act of giving my husband oral. it in itself is very sensual and erotic for me to pleasure him in that way. He too has reciprocated and have honed his oral skills as well. It has not been that big of issue with my Lady friend, although she has mentioned a few times she might enjoy using a strap-on with me since i have played with one on her before. We have discussed my situation at length and I know she is very understanding, but again I do feel bad at times that I am denying her. So, after that long rambling explanation, I guess my reason for posting this is , am I alone,? Does anyone else suffer from this condition? Has anyone found a way to overcome this problem? Has anyone found they enjoy giving oral sex to their hubby more than PIV? I guess I am just looking for comfort in the form of others who can relate and understand what I am experiencing. I just want to feel normal.
  15. This is going to sound callous and a bit cold, certainly do not intend it to be, truly I do not. But just wondering if we married bi-ladies were totally honest with ourselves how many of us, knowing how we feel and are attracted to women now, would we have married? You could assume you would still how have your children even if you never married or entered into your existing relationship (after all this is totally hypothetical so assume anything you wish) . I find myself wondering that that from time to time. I do love my husband, he is kind, sweet, loving a great provider, strong, everything I had hopeful in a man. Having said that, if I had meet the lady I now have as a friend and lover before our marriage, I wonder if I would have done so. There are times I think I would not have married him, not because I didn't love him or still don't, because I do love him tremendously , but because of the special connect ion, that "thing" ,I find I can only get in my relationship with another woman. That thing that no matter how hard he tries my dh can not give me. Am I selfish wanting the best of both worlds, yes totally. Am I fortunate to have close to the best of both worlds, absolutely.... But still in the back of my mind I day dream about what if.......