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  1. Friendship What is your best childhood memory?
  2. I'd say attration is non-linear and some people don't like labels. If I had a friend who said the same thing, I would believe her. She would have the right to define herself based on her beliefs. Often it is the external world (society/social norms) who place expectations and labels on people and expect them to fit into a stereotypical box. Some people are attracted to one person for whatever reason and have no desire to look at others. I would categorize myself as being one who is not attracted to women (or men) at this point in time even though I have a husband. Hence attraction not being linear or simple, purely because we are complex beings. The older I get the less I yearn for another being because I am happy in my own company and enjoy what I do have in my life as well as being grateful for everything in my life. Gratitude is important in my eyes. Helps keep me grounded and empathic towards others who have less.
  3. wondering why I'm more alert (and feel like I'm on class A drugs) when woken up early yet can't get out of bed when the alarm goes ? right this second I feel like this abnormal high is wearing off...at the exact time I should be waking up just my luck I'll fall asleep and wake up wondering what day it is
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  5. With the cat waking me  up at 2am, guess who is going to be...


  6. "To know how to suggest is the great art of teaching" Henry Frederic Amiel "The art of teaching is the art of assisting discovery" Mark van Doren Perhaps ask them qualifying questions before getting physically intimate? Such as 'can you finger?' And if not, then maybe you could teach them? Or use communication to let them know how you like to be touched because... it is literally different strokes for different folks..
  7. Hmm perhaps this question might push too many buttons and is really quite a complex question because it gets someone to challenge their belief system (or not)... so will try and answer it myself... Yes I feel children should be sheltered from religion because relgion to me is nothing but a man made narrative aimed to control the minds of many, though I respect those who hold a different view of course. This is my own opinion based on my own ideologies. I shudder at the thought it is often the cause of war instead of world peace. Though I do respect difference and thus have friends from all walks of life, so to me relgion is also fascinating becasue of different worldviews. If children made up relgions then I would follow those because children are smart. ... Do you take time to nurture yourself, and if so, how?
  8. @Hungry I can't recall the movie. It was one of those ones that you find fascinating because you are waiting for it to get better, which it never does... not to mention a very strange story line, so strange I can't even describe it because my brain went in to overdrive and a semicoma at the same time
  9. hehe I came to have a look when I saw this and.... glad I did!... CC & CallieT I enjoyed reading your post See, us married women can be mighty fine! < sorry, just had to add that in ;)