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About Giulia1098

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    French Kisser
  • Birthday 12/01/1967

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    Everything... but I am REALLY on an Italian kick right now... representing my roots! :)
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    Martial Arts, Music, Travel, Science, anything unusual, People with unique and interesting views on just about everything

    Life is way too short to be bored.
  • Signature Fragrance
    Soap? But I do like girls who smell nice...
  • Favourite Book
    The Kingdoms of Thorn and Bone trilogy by Greg Keyes
  • Favourite TV Show
    Deep Space Nine for old ones... I AM Jadzia Dax! Walking Dead and Into the Badlands. And anime.
  • Favourite Film
    That is really tough... I like all kinds of movies and I adore anime.

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  1. Back from a much needed vacation in Mexico! Hope all you lovely ladies are doing well! :)

    1. BenedettaC


      Welcome back! You've been missed!  :)

  2. It makes perfect sense.
  3. As you talk to people here, you will find that you are so much less alone than you think you are. I know I feel that way now after being on the site for a while. I didn't realize how many married women come to the realization later in life that they are bisexual. I always liked looking at women... found women attractive... but I didn't really admit to being bisexual until a few years ago. I can't come out to my husband, unfortunately, and that is something that just "is what it is" at this point. And I am truly bisexual... I am very happy being with my husband, and I am attracted to men, but I am also attracted to women. I think as time goes on you might start to just look at yourself without labels... just look in the mirror and see you. Think of it as attraction to the person, not just the type of genitalia they have. In my mind, it made it far easier to accept. I am sure you are not attracted to every man, or every woman. You are attracted to individuals. I know at first it must seem like such a burden... and it's hard when the people you love are not open to it... but try to give yourself a break. You have realized it. You have admitted it. That took a lot of bravery. And you came here. That also took a lot of bravery. Relax... don't put too much pressure on yourself. Learn to accept all sides of you... get used to it... wear it for a while. And read the posts here... join in... ask questions... talk to people. I think you will find the more you open up to people who are like you, the easier it will be for you to accept and love this part of yourself as well.
  4. I have found that with people I have known, "making love" has a romanticism attached to it. The idea that the act is a transcendent beautiful thing... clean... pure... true. Almost a sacred act of union between two people. I have a hard time with that concept because anyone I have known who referred to it as "making love" was so into the emotional part... the "pure" part... the sanctified part... that there was no playfulness. And anything dirty was for "bad" girls. I'm neither pure nor a particularly "good" girl in the bedroom. I think the fact that society has imposed different labels has done women in particular a disservice and added to the concept of madonna/whore... because in my opinion, sex should be, above all, FUN. Way more fun with someone you love, but it can be fun with a friend... or with yourself. Taking playful, or kinky, or dirty sex... which means different things to different people of course... and separating it from "making love" in the societal sense, just makes one seem good, and the other bad. To me it appears like it is trying to make those who are sexual creatures with varied appetites seem less worthy than those who are looking only for that purity of love. Labels can be helpful... but they can also be damaging. That is only based upon my personal experiences though.
  5. Thanks femmekat... I guess I have to suck it up and download IE so that I can actually get into the chatroom to find out. If Chrome would just play nice in the sandbox!
  6. I was wondering if there were any plans to add an IM feature to the site. That would be really nice if it would not be a lot of trouble... instead of messaging back and forth in the private messages it would be nice to talk to a friend privately in real time.
  7. Just stopping by to say hello! :)

  8. All the time. Thankfully nobody can hear me. When I sing... male cats gather outside the window thinking I am in heat. I understand that recordings of me singing have been used to torture enemy combatants into talking. My rendition of Bohemian Rhapsody is actually on the list of items that violate the Geneva Convention.
  9. Male: I totally agree about hockey. And male gymnasts because of how perfectly sculpted they are. Female: I have a total crush on Rhonda Rousey. Gorgeous, and fierce! I hope that she hasn't left fighting completely... although her last two losses were pretty awful.
  10. That is a great idea. And whether she celebrates her birthday or not... the fact that you did something so sweet and thoughtful will surely make her smile.
  11. That moment when all day you thought it was Thursday because you work at home and have been doing the same thing for the past several days... and then... it hits you... that.... IT'S FRIDAY!!!!!!! *fist pump*

  12. Hi and welcome! *waves and smiles*
  13. I would put less pressure on myself to be perfect. And I wish that I could bring some of the things I learned as an adult back in time to help me as a child... like how to protect your mental and emotional health when you are surrounded by emotional vampires and narcissists.
  14. You're hired.
  15. I took this a while ago and found I am an INTJ... spot on. For better or for worse LOL! "The Mastermind" Logical Intuitive Introvert. INTJs are one of the rarest of the 16 psychological types and account for approximately 2–4% of the population. Women of this personality type are especially rare, forming just 0.8% of the population. I – Introversion preferred to extraversion: INTJs tend to be quiet and reserved. They generally prefer interacting with a few close friends rather than a wide circle of acquaintances, and they expend energy in social situations (whereas extroverts gain energy). N – Intuition preferred to sensing: INTJs tend to be more abstract than concrete. They focus their attention on the big picture rather than the details and on future possibilities rather than immediate realities. T – Thinking preferred to feeling: INTJs tend to value objective criteria above personal preference or sentiment. When making decisions they generally give more weight to logic than to social considerations. J – Judgment is auxiliary function (J or P illustrates auxiliary to introverts): INTJs tend to approach life in a structured way, planning and organizing their world to achieve their goals. Perhaps the most fundamental problem, however, is that INTJs really want people to make sense. AND THEY DON'T! But dang we are good at laughing at ourselves...