HI...hhhmmm...where to start...well I got divorced after 21 years of marriage, after I found out my husband had his second (known) affair. To be honest, I'm not sure what I want...I"ve been watching shows like The Fosters, Orange is the New Black, The L Word, Below Her Mouth, etc,, and I am drawn to these women. I feel like I'm attracting to women, but I'm not sure if it is attraction to them, or the fact that I was hurt so badly by a man. Right now, I would really like to find a woman to be a best friend, snuggle on the couch and maybe see where it goes. However, I'm not sure who and what I want, but I am finding comfort in reading some of the blogs. However I live in a small Midwestern town, and I'm not one to be in the spotlight or in the gossip circle. Any advice or friendship is greatly appreciated.