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  1. Been an awesome day. Me, sis and the niece went to the water park. I think for the first time ever I was not self-conscious of being around other people in my bathing suit. It's so refreshing to feel good about myself again. We came home, grilled out (had roast, corn on the grill with pasta salad and baked beans). Then we cut the watermelon I got earlier from the store. I needed today. Especially after the past few days.  

    Oh, and we drew on the driveway in chalk. My niece has this game where you draw a sheet of paper with something on it to draw. You are supposed to draw with your eyes closed, we never do, haha. Such a wonderful day.

    1. JadeBleu15


      Awesome on your day! Hope you have more of those....

  2. She seems cool. Didn't want any more misunderstandings.
  3. I didn't mean she was either, hope you didn't take it that way @Sithandra. I was just pointing out I love that comment. Was just stating that after thinking about it more, someone's definition of a headwrecker or unicorn is going to be different because each person is different. Edit.. or maybe it's someone's qualities for each will be different.
  4. About a year ago I was trying the Paleo diet. I actually loved it and miss it. I felt more healthier, had more energy and I did lose weight.
  5. I love that statement, "Beautiful, in my own way". I think that refers to everyone really. That also means that who is a headwrecker to one person can be a unicorn to someone else. So I guess in all reality, it's a persons perspective as to who is a headwrecker and who is a unicorn.
  6. They say not to over due it when you work out. Yea, I just pulled something in my back :(

  7. Haha no, that makes perfectly good sense. It's nice to know someone close to you feels the same.
  8. Oh, more KY girls. How are you all doing?
  9. Next two days off. Gotta love it

  10. ugh.. when you search the whole basement and unable to find your work out shoes. But you still won't let that stop you, barefoot exercise!! This will be fun!!

  11. Haha... Today has confirmed how fucked up I am. Best thing about it, I know I wasn't crazy thinking it before. So thanks for that... 

    1. JadeBleu15


      @Nidalaeh you are not fucked up at all .

    2. Nidalaeh


      Hmm...we just have to agree to disagree on this. But thanks Jade

  12. Hugs.. I don't have any wise words or help on how to make it better. Just know you have people here that can see how special you are. Live your life your way. Finish nursing school and maybe one day you can start somewhere fresh and away from her.

    Fight for the fairy tale, it does exist - Joy F.

  14. There is a Pride festival this weekend where I live, I will not be able to go to it. However, there is another Pride event in September that I plan on going to!
  15. Hello, you are not the only one who is here searching for answers. That is the amazing thing about this site, we are here to support our fellow ladies. Take your time, read other posts, respond when you feel comfortable. Take care and welcome to Shy's.
  16. Sometimes we must undergo hardships, breakups, and narcissistic wounds, which shatter the flattering image that we had of ourselves, in order to discover two truths: that we are not who we thought we were; and that the loss of a cherished pleasure is not necessarily the loss of true happiness and well-being.” – Jean-Yves Leloup

  17. Thought I would bump this, let some of the new people know or the older members who comes around every so often. A nice place to chat with other Shy ladies.
  18. I think this would be an amazing idea. I don't have anyone to really travel with and I want to travel, but going alone does not sound appealing.
  19. Self-confidence is the foundation of all great success and achievement.

  20. I feel abandoned. The kittens have decided upstairs is more fun :(

  21. Very good points. I think more times the not, the Unicorn is going to be screwed over because people say they want the dependable. But in all reality, it's the hunt and chase of trying to turn that headwrecker into their Unicorn. If you are attracted to the dangerous girls, the mystery or what will keep them with you, then the Unicorns will have a hard time keeping your attention. Because with them, they won't give you the atmosphere that needs to keep you there, to keep you trying. You get bored with the relationship and when that other girl comes along that gives you the excitement, your gone.
  22. Waves back! How are you?
  23. There will be more questions later that is in more depth than these.
  24. A lap full of fuzzies. And people wonder why I don't get much done :D


    1. Vampire


      Plenty of Pussies there, Lol. Definitely cute. 

    2. Nidalaeh


      Yes, plenty.