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blueberry last won the day on December 3 2018

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  1. blueberry


    @Rani Now you're talking! I wonder, too.
  2. blueberry


    Yeah, I’m curious too@these-broken-wings(TBW), what do you mean by it being boring?
  3. Yes, both married and single. I have no preference on the status of the woman but I don’t have an interest on threesome or triad relationship. It is one important thing I always make it known with any woman. I don’t want to waste someone’s time and I don’t want her to waste mine, too. Different strokes for different folks.
  4. Move on sweetheart. I’m sorry but I have to tell you to move on. Is this your first girl crush? She’s not into you so there’s no competition going on here. I suggest that you also spend less time around her for your very OWN sake.
  5. @Mocha24 I have two questions. These are important questions that you have to answer for yourself. First, are you generally comfortable in your own desires towards women (or that woman who took your breath away)? This is being comfortable in your own skin and being who you are. Second, does your boyfriend know that you have this desire for a woman? I am not saying that you should tell him all the details of your fantasies because you are entitled to your own privacy even if you’re in a monogamous relationship (even people who took a vow of “...till death do us part.”). However, if you are bisexual or bicurious, it will be beneficial for you in the long term if right at the very start your boyfriend knows your sexuality. I am going to stop here. I am not going to talk about the “what ifs” because there are so many of that and if you dwell in these “what ifs” they will make you confuse more. Know and find what you really want for yourself. When you find from within what you want then if those “what ifs” (eg., boyfriend breaks up with you) happens, it will be easier for you to recover from it. My 2cents. -Blue-
  6. blueberry

    Fake Pics

    I agree on @moonbynight Next time, If it’s not too much of inconvenience, meet up after a week of chatting with her. This woman you were chatting with was already beating herself. She might be moving on and finding a new prospect. Forget her. Move on. By the way, be careful sending or sharing your own pics. Some can be very nasty. I suggest that you meet the woman. If she’s halfway across the world, well, that’s a different story with a different approach. Either way, be careful.
  7. I completely agree with @-Jo-. You are free. Take courage and you'll find out.
  8. blueberry

    My confession

    It took me years and years before I got over the first woman I loved and I was 17 when she appeared in my life. Eight years older than me and a married woman. Our story spanned for 8 years and I don't want to dig it up and tell the details anymore because I don't want to play with my old scar. The wound was too deep, then. Recently this buried past memory has resurfaced as I shared my deepest self to someone special. I was glad when I decided to end my self torture one day. Burnt all her letters, memorabilia etc. I burnt the bridge and never look back while it was burning. For the last 3 years, she has been making contacts: sending emails and pictures. Sweet..but I'm done. I have no more interest and appetite for her, even friendship. I am not angry with her. I never was. I never entertained her reaching out to me. She's now nobody. @VirgoGirl, all the best to you. One day, you'll find yourself free from her. As in totally free. @estee She has probably moved on like me. There are things that it's better to be left in the past.