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  1. Welcome! You are far from being alone. Lots of women in your situation. What is your idea situation? Are you planning on finding a gf? Will you tell your hubby or do you plan to do in secret?
  2. Welcome @BellaLuna I Have been married for 12 years. Told hubby I had an attraction but would not pursue. Fast forward 12 years later I could not handle the struggle... found secret gf. Wish I had not mentioned the attraction to hubby in first place. So far so good, I was surprised no feelings of real guilt despite christian background and living the straight and narrow all my life. I just keep the 2 separate and have no regrets.
  3. Very interesting reading. I met my gf on pinkcupid but was on for about 3 months. Met several women (the good,the bad and the ugly). 2 of those we became platonic friends. You will have to take a chance and be patient. Don't fall for the first one... wait for someone you are compatible with. There are single women who don't mind married ladies. My situation is working out great. She likes her space and doesn't want a full time live together relationship. She is supportive of my marriage and family life.
  4. Thanks for your words of caution
  5. Welcome- you are not alone. I've been married for 12 years with young kids, a good husband but something missing. Found a friend and I'm finally home.
  6. Welcome. I'm in similar situation. Struggled for years since teens. Decided to venture out this year. After a few months on a dating site finally found someone I could bond with. I'm doing this without the knowledge or consent of hubby. Funny but I don't feel like I'm cheating and it has not changed how I feel about hubby. I'm more happier and contented. And yes women are awesome.
  7. I would say stay in your marriage and keep your family together if it's not horrible and find yourself a girl friend on the side. They are a lot of married women in your situation who want to keep their marriages.
  8. Tell us more??!!
  9. Welcome- my situation is very similar to yours. I'm in my late 40s with 2 young kids christian good hubby had longing since early teens. Gave in this year. Considered the consequences and willing to take the risk. Enough is enough
  10. @Stuck42 yes my situation has changed.
  11. Thank you @N00Bi I will check them out
  12. Welcome...
  13. Don't settle for this woman. There are many other women you will be compatible with. It's obvious she has different values from you. Find a way to end it sooner than later. She is playing games and knows you are vulnerable.
  14. I'm in a similar situation as you. I've been married for 12 years with young kids was always attracted to women since teens. I'm in a good marriage, religious since childhood. So the conflicts are major. Welcome to the site.