ChemFem

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About ChemFem

  • Rank
    Blinding You With Science
  • Birthday 03/28/1995

Profile Information

  • Music
    Classic rock, choral music, funk, many more
  • Location
    Phoenix metro area
  • Interests
    Crossword puzzles, museums, tinkering
  • Signature Fragrance
    IPA (the beer or the cleaning product)
  • Favourite Book
    Mistakes Were Made (But Not By Me)
  • Favourite TV Show
    Lost Girl, Gallivant
  • Favourite Film
    Doctor Strangelove, Muppets From Space

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  1. Not that into Master/slave but that was quite good
  2. Sex

    Mmph I wish someone that age would "take advantage" of me...
  3. Lol the cleaning crew!
  4. @Sithandra are you volunteering as a headwrecker?
  5. Great reminder. The dynamic will be different around different people, and few people will fall completely to one extreme or the other. Like you said, some people can grow out of being headwreckers, but don't count on it happening while they're with you.
  6. HI

    Hi! Happy to have you back.
  7. Hi @Bella Blake. I had a lot of the same thoughts when I was your age. I say that like I'm so much older, but I'm only 23 myself. It's amazing how much difference a few years can make in growing into your identity. There is enough programming out there to be straight that in my case, and likely in yours, i figured the fact that I had seriously considered being with a woman at all probably meant I wasn't exclusively heterosexual (spoiler alert I'm not.) Hopefully being on here will help you contibue to figure yourself and find the words to describe this fluid, complex mess we call sexuality.
  8. @Sukeybaby if Offspring are a local band for you does that mean you're from SoCal? I'm from Long Beach.
  9. Hi! You're definitely in the right place to discuss bicuriosity. Good that you've already initiated a conversation with your bf. Friendship is a good basis to build a relationship on. Most of the members on this site have expressed a preference for independent exploration over threesomes, so you're certainly not alone in that regard. Hopefully you will find good information and support here on ShyBi.
  10. I'm working to be a unicorn. Right now i want to take the opportunity of being single to work on myself and be a positive influence to those around me.
  11. Take your time, there's no rush.
  12. So sweet. I didn't actually realize that you two have never seen each other nude. It will just make it that much more special when you can meet in person.
  13. Yeesh. Have they heard you talk about your girlfriend? Like, ever? Cause at this point I'd bet on a nontrivial chance that you marry her. You're taking the high road by focusing on the love they have shown in the past, and good for you. I'm not sure I would have that kind of patience.
  14. Absolutely. I'd still be poly even if I were straight. More and more I've been looking on my bi/pansexuality as a gift rather than a burden. It makes it easier for me to see the good in everybody and generally spread love to the world. I sound like a hippie wannabe when i say that but it's true, i just want to show everybody some love and care.
  15. You did the right thing and behaved honorably towards her. It's difficult sometimes to accept that someone you have feelings for is not in a position to hear it at the moment, but putting your desires aside and giving them what they need is a mark of true love. We'll see how this plays out. Good luck.