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About Spicysweet

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    I enjoy a little of everything. If I can sing and/or dance to it, huge bonus!
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    Midwest USA
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  1. I do. I also may have embellished it a tad with my waking imagination. ;)
  2. Night before last I had a dream that dh and I had a girlfriend. In the dream, I knew that we'd had sexy time all together the night before. I didn't actually remember it, but I had some pictures on my phone. It was the next day, and dh had gone to work. The girlfriend was in our bedroom getting ready for the day. I walked in quietly to see her standing completely nude in front of the closet. I came up behind her and wrapped my arms around her torso and kissed her shoulder. I told her I was craving some one-on-one time with her. I caressed her soft little breasts as I kissed the back of her neck and she took a deep breath and reached her hand back to grope at my leg. Then she turned and kissed me passionately. I quickly removed my clothes with her help, and our bodies melted into one another. Arms pulling, hips pushing, breasts brushing each other, hair falling around our shoulders. She bent her knees and lowered herself to the floor, pulling me down with her. I sat on the carpet with my back propped against the wall, and she straddled my waist, rubbing her crotch against my abdomen. She leaned forward to kiss me, and her hair brushed my breasts. I put my hands on her hips and rocked her against me as she arched her back and I leaned in to take her nipple in my mouth. She took a sharp breath in and moaned as she put her fingers into my hair and pulled my head closer to her chest. I continued to tease her nipple with my tongue. She moved her left leg down in between my legs, moving her mound closer to mine. I felt the heat and wetness of her pussy and I pushed into her as she ground her clit against me. Our lips found each other again as our breath quickened with the rocking and grinding. I wrapped my arms around her waist as we both reached the height of ecstasy and let out moans and groans of delight. Then we melted into a puddle of satisfaction, our legs entangled, and our hands enjoying the softness of one another's skin. Hmmm. Yeah.
  3. Up-ditty-date. We have continued texting pretty much daily, while dh and I have continued searching dating sites for any other possibilities. We also went to a "Lifestyle" club while we were out of town for our anniversary. Had fun people-watching and dancing, but definitely cemented the fact that we are not swingers. Lol.... But, we're still open to a relationship with a couple if it were to work well for all involved parties. Our double date is tomorrow night. Sigh, We've been back and forth between optimism and pessimism regarding this situation. It really all hinges on the husband at this point, I suppose. Dh and I both like her pretty well and would be cool with moving forward with a relationship with her, but we just don't know how we'll get along with him. Dh is opening more and more to the idea of me starting a solo relationship with a woman, but he is still afraid of feeling left out, and he still wants any relationship I have to be open to the possibility of turning into a triad...IDK.
  4. Lol! Oops. Thanks for asking, @Confusedin2013! It was a lovely time. She is a lovely woman. I don't know that I felt "sparks" or chemistry or anything, but maybe that will develop if we become friends first? We plan to do a double date with the guys soon and see how we all hit it off. We'll see. I don't feel super hopeful about it today, but I'm remaining open.
  5. Thanks for the reality check, @BenedettaC. We do need to be clear about these things. I started a conversation with her tonight about what their specific desires are, and what ours are. It may turn out that those don't line up, but we can all still be friends. I feel like we can explore this as a possibility yet not close ourselves to other possibilities.
  6. This is good to hear. I really hope it works out this way. So far, it seems like we both want the same things, we have similar interests, similar values, similar lifestyles. I am amazed and excited that we found each other. We've been texting really regularly, and she is so sweet and sexy and smart. I can't wait to see her in person. I am dreaming about kissing her and playing with her hair, but telling myself we have to take it slow!! And, the aspect of our two guys makes things interesting. I hope we all get along and have a great time together, but it's hard to say!
  7. So...threesome chick is ghosting us. Dh is disappointed. I'm not too heartbroken. Couple chick has continued to be sweet and flirty via text, and we've set a date to meet and have a drink (this Sunday!). I'm happy about this, even if just for a potential good friend who I can talk with about bi/poly whatever stuff. We talked about doing a double date too as soon as we can fit it into our schedules.
  8. Yay, @Wisleia Go, girl! So exciting.
  9. Welcome to the site! Nice to meet you.
  10. You're absolutely right, and inknow that. Im just like a kid in a candy store right now because this is the first time in my LIFE I've seriously considered the prospect of casual sex, and the first time in 21 years I've seriously considered sex with anyone other than my husband. I never had that wild and carefree period of my life. I dated my husband for 3 years and didn't have intercourse with him until we were married. Willpower indeed.
  11. I do really like where things are going with the couple, on the other hand. Much more slowly, with an emphasis on getting to know each other. Much more common interest outside of sex. Much more respectful and interested in intelligence and kindness. We're about the same age and both have kids. We've ended up in this weird place where we have options which are on opposite ends of the spectrum: one that's fun, fast paced, no-strings-attached, and all surface-level. The other that's more of an investment of time and emotions, but has the potential to be a deep and loving experience. Hmmm. Is it completely selfish to want to indulge both?
  12. I didn't ask for it, but it definitely turned me on. She's definitely pretty single-minded, but I keep thinking maybe that's ok. If she just wants to get it on and move on, less drama for us... But I do feel a bit like she's a tease and definitely pretty shallow. Not so much my thing.
  13. I'm testing out an app called Feeld. It verifies your identity using your flFacebook account, and you can have it hide you from your Facebook friends who are on the app if you choose (and pay, after a free week). I've got one good lead so far, though it's definitely more hookup-based than relationship focused. OkCupid has been Ok (haha) as well.
  14. Exciting!! Good luck and be careful!
  15. Good points, both of you. That is something I've been admittedly ambivalent about. I discussed that with this woman. I told her I haven't yet been with a woman and I'm not sure I want my first time to be a threesome. She is open to just being with me if that's what I want. She is definitely looking for more of a hookup than a relationship, which is not what I want ultimately, but it could be a fun pitstop on the way.