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Sithandra last won the day on December 23 2017

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About Sithandra

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    French Kisser
  • Birthday 10/12/1977

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  • Music
    Maybe classical, maybe jazz, or maybe something with a pounding beat.
  • Location
    North Carolina
  • Interests
    Reading, painting, gardening, (especially wildflowers), kayaking, cooking, especially Indian.
  • Signature Fragrance
    Black Opium
  • Favourite Book
    Anything by Dan Simmons
  • Favourite TV Show
    Game Of Thrones
  • Favourite Film
    The Lord Of The Rings
  1. Belts, crops, things like that, take some skill and they're kind of intimidating for a beginner. I don't want her to flee in terror. As a general rule, with any kind of BDSM, it's really important that the first time not end in a disaster. So no floggers that might wrap, or whatever. The very best way to begin, (And one of the best ways period,), is with a bare handed spanking of her ass, with draped across your lap. It's very intimate, and it's hard to go wrong. And I can use that same hand I use to spank with to rub, stroke, comfort, and generally help keep things from getting too scary..
  2. Honestly, I think, most people, if they had it to do over, would likely make the same mistakes. In fact, I can say that I actually enjoyed my mistakes, even when the bill came due later. (I enjoyed them at the time.) So if I restart at ten, I might be just as likely to make the same mistakes, and I'd be consigned to years of dependent childhood. I'll take the freedom, independence, and possibilities that come with being a 45 year old multimillionaire. I've made my mistakes, I've learned from them, I've enjoyed them, and now I'm ready to make brand new mistakes. And I have money in my pocket.
  3. Above all else, the capacity to love. That can take many forms. Love for her man, her children, her friends, her sisters...or love for another woman. Love can mean anything from years of hard work, to a comforting hug, to a gentle kiss,, to passionate sex. It means a willingness to listen, and that she cares.
  4. "The Hegemony Consul sat on the balcony of his ebony spaceship, and played Rachmaninoff's Prelude in C Sharp Minor on an ancient but well maintained Steinway, while great, green, saurian things surged and bellowed in the swamp below " - Dan Simmons, Hyperion "Finally, he knew the world was going to end." - Harlan Ellison, The Very Last Day of A Good Woman "Call me Ishmael" - Herman Melville, Moby Dick "It was a bright cold day in April, and the clocks were striking thirteen." - George Orwell, 1984
  5. It's the best time to kiss her. Because she's knelt to me, made love to me, given me pleasure, And so I feel a strong need to show my love for her. I want her to know that she's never more beautiful than when she's wearing my pussy juice all over her face.
  6. Eventually by Pink The love theme from Blade Runner Oh No by Shvaree also Arlington Girl by Shivaree Too Close by Next Earned It by The Weekend Bolero, by Ravel. Some things are classic and some things are just old. Weeping Cherry by Ambrosia Parsley
  7. You can triumph over the dark voice, but the first step to that is to NOT LISTEN TO IT. First, you need to focus on the present and the future, not the past. And that means that staring today, you live for future. Yo live for you. And maybe you can't triumph over the dark voice alone. maybe you need to talk to a counselor of some sort. Because this kind of trauma is way beyond an internet board. First, you need to work on your own physical and emotional health. Take care of yourself. when I say watch what you eat and exercise, it's not because I'm trying to make you feel bad about your weight. (But if you have an eating disorder, seek help. Other people have eating disorders and have found help and solutions. You are not alone.) It's because you need to take care of your body. You need your energy, you need your strength. When you're fatigued and run down, it's easier to give in tie that dark voice. Star setting goals for your health, your wellness, your appearance. set goals that are achievable, because achieving them will prove to you that your dark voice is wrong. Remember, you have survived. Now to prevail. Work on goals in your life. Talk to others. Be with others. I don't just mean online. Be out in the real world. Take up hobbies. Get active. be with people. You can't change the past, but you don't have to live in it. Don't give the people who hurt you power over your life. You have the power now. Take it, seize, it, and start building a better future. And if right now that seems impossible, remember that you were strong enough to survive to be here. And where you go from here is up to you.
  8. OK, so I'll try to come up with definitions for labels that may or may not have any actual usefulness Bicurious = She feels an attraction that she hasn't acted on, and may not have acknowledged even to herself. Maybe bicurious is really curiosity about self. Are these feelings real, and what do they mean about her as a person, and who she really is. Bisexual = She's at least partly answered the questions about her feelings, whether she acts on them or not.
  9. Be careful what you wish for. .
  10. Additional details.....Hmmmmm That almost belongs under the thread for stories The sounds she makes...grunting, sobbing, whimpering, moaning, panting The expressions....Shock, wonder, pleading, surprise...fear, when she wonders of she can really take when she discovers that she can Tugging at the ropes, because she wonders if she can get loose, and needs to know that she can't, and straining at the ropes when the intensity overwhelms her. That better?
  11. I'm going to go along with ChemFem on this. Invite her out.. Spend time with her. Find out how she feels. I know it's easy for me to sit here and tell you to take a chance, but remember that it always means risk. I know that's hard, but this sounds promising. Take a chance.
  12. Definitely Dom. I love to see, and hear her reactions to what I do. I love the sounds she makes, the expressions on her face, the way she thrashes, and bucks,
  13. You are allowed to look at whomever you please and think whatever filthy thoughts you want while doing so. But I wouldn't do it in a way that makes the other person uncomfortable, because that's gauche,a and I would know the age of consent laws in my jurisdiction and keep them wholly.
  14. From foreplay? Passion Intensity. .A desire for more.A letting go of mundane concerns and an unselfconcious focus on pleasure. Mine and hers. And a part of me wants desperation. Her desperation for me to continue.
  15. Eau De Gentian Blanche by Hermes Byredo Black saffron Aesop Marrakech Intense