clever-username

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  1. I'm not exactly an authority on the matter (since I am a big ol' virgin in the lady lovin' arena, sadly) but I usually go by the general definition of third base being manual stimulation (fingering/handjobs). I mean I suppose you could qualify fingering as a homerun in regards to f/f sex but I feel like there would be more there then just fingering (maybe oral + fingering w/ toys maybe? I dunno) But I most definitely could be wrong because...*jazz hands and sing song voice* lady lovin' virgin!
  2. I love Mario Bros 3 (I used to play it on an website in college when I'd finish my classwork) but the first gaming system I ever really really played was a Sega Genesis our neighbor gave us. I liked it right up until it finally gave up the ghost and died. I never did get to beat that damn Sonic the Hedgehog 2...
  3. Just the general fantasies of rolling around with a curvy naked lady, with a bit of third base action as well, not to mention other things that I won't ever get to have thanks to my rural setting...so the usual....
  4. My friend and I were talking about this today and she thinks that having a long distance relationship helps strengthen communication skills and I tend to agree with her though more for the fact that it helps you get to know someone without all the distractions of being in the same room. Getting to know someone via text, messaging, etc really appeals to me since when I physically meet someone, I tend to get attached a bit quicker before I let myself get to know them so it's always a bit of a kick to the face when you realize "wait, this isn't someone I actually want to be with" and you're already in too deep. (EX: please see my ex-boyfriend who really was a nice guy but so irresponsible there's no way I could've stayed with him for the long haul). Maybe if I'd had more time to talk with him long distance before meeting him, I would've realized sooner he wasn't for me and saved us both the shitty breakup.
  5. The title says it all, I caved again and made an online dating profile :/ (Because that worked out *so* swell the last time...) This time I went more towards my geek-ish leanings and made a soulgeek profile but going from what I saw on the site, it's looking highly unlikely that anything will come of it. The site seems pretty dead. Oh well, maybe this'll shut up that nasty voice in my head that likes to remind me that my birthday is coming up and I'm still a big ol' virgin (not to mention the lowkey shame of being single that the holiday season just *loves* rubbing my nose in). Maybe with this, I can fool myself into thinking I'm doing something until that little gremlin goes away.
  6. Okay, I'm not sure if it's just my area or what but why is so damn difficult to buy cute cotton underwear lately? For years now I've been able to easily find cute pairs of underwear that aren't made of almost entirely polyester and other various materials (I can't wear the synthetic stuff). I could find cool colors and patterns, I could find cute looking ones with a bit of lace for a flirty factor. I could always find them in the style I like and that doesn't show above my jeans but now all of the sudden.... Nothing! Zip! Nada! Now the only cotton underwear I can find is briefs, briefs, and more briefs (nothing against them if they are somebody's preferred, I'm just too paranoid about my undies showing when I bend over) and to add insult to injury, they're all sooooo bland. Seriously, I saw a pack today while shopping that was white, off white, tan, dark grey, where is the whimsy in that? All the cute underwear is synthetic. There are oodles of nerdy themed underwear that I would looove to have but they just taunt me every time I go questing for the right underwear because they're all made out of polyester. I was kind of hoping it was a passing thing but I don't think that's the case. I guess I'm doomed to boring undies for the rest of eternity :/
  7. So we have a post about breasts (which is super awesome) but I don't see one for legs, anybody else appreciate a pair of lovely legs? My eyes' direct route to a pair of nice legs was actually one of the things that helped me realize I was attracted to women. There's just something so enticing about them. Especially when the lady in question is wearing a pair of thigh high socks or stocking *stares off into distance dreamily* (Interesting Fact: I now have ZZ Top's "Legs" stuck in my head thanks to writing this post....)
  8. "Take On Me" but like, the sad acoustic version from the end of Deadpool 2, so pretty but so sad
  9. Oh it probably will drive me crazy, haha especially since I only run into her often enough that I'll *maybe* remember to be more observant when we interact but it's not a sure thing. It'll probably go how it usually does, we'll talk, my brain won't function properly, then once I'm walking back to my desk I'll think "Dammit! I was supposed to pay attention!"
  10. Unfortunately that department's break times are different than mine due to what they handle. :/ I think I'm just going to have to be more alert the next time she's around and trying to have a conversation (usually we see each other in the morning when my brain isn't exactly at it's quickest)
  11. While I seem to be more visually drawn to legs (mainly thighs, for some reason my eyes immediately go for a nice thigh, especially when stockings or tall socks are involved...but I digress) touching boobs that are not my own is definitely at the top of my list of things I would really really look forward to in the event I had the chance to be with a woman. My main curiosity is what it would be like to get my lips on them.
  12. So to preface this, I have absolutely no social awareness whatsoever. I am so slow on the uptake all the time and usually don't understand what was really going on in a conversation or interaction until about twenty minutes later, if I figure it out at all, because I typically take everyone's actions at face value. ...All that aside...I'm like 90% sure one of the girls at work has been flirting with me. At my work there's this one department that I have almost no interaction with at all. I only know the people who work there by their first names, if I know them at all, and I don't think I've ever had an extended conversation with any of them. And in that department is this girl that I've only really talked to in passing and the sum of the things I know about her is her name, her department, and that her car is in the parking space next to mine most days but lately I've been getting this vibe from her when we do interact. She seems extra, I guess animated would be the word?, when we run into each other and I get the feeling she's trying to engage in a longer conversation than "Good Morning, Good Morning, Have a good day, You too" by the office fridge. Then there are things like the other morning when she literally ran over to open door (we have one that locks in the front) for me before the fingerprint scanner could let me in. I mean I'd be definitely on board with giving it a shot at seeing where it would go but the problem is I don't know anything about her. Plus there's that pesky, I have no idea if she's even into women or if she's just trying very intensely to be my friend (which would be good too, I'm always looking for more friends) and the fact that I'm not anywhere near out at work. So yeah, that was my realization of the day today.
  13. I read more fanfic than I do original work anymore. It's so much easier to find what elements you want in a story since everyone tags their work then you can filter out what you do and don't want from things like word count and rating to whether it's a slow burn or a crack fic. I use AO3 mainly for finding fics or posting my own (I write Supernatural, Check Please, and some MCU in case anybody is curious) though I do cross post to tumblr and sometimes pic up a few fic recs there.
  14. The Game of Thrones question is kind of tricky, I mean if you don't mind having the emotional rug ripped out from under you on a pretty regular basis, I'd say give it a go. The thing I love most about the show is that it always keeps you guessing, it's very very good at building suspense and surprising you. Another thing I love is the character arcs, some of these character arcs are super fantastic. If you do end up watching, I hope you like it.
  15. I love a nice voice, it's something I'm really into. Someone who's funny and either is a bit weird like me or doesn't mind my weird, haha...and nice legs are always a plus