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About Fearless

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    Getting Flirty

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  • Music
    Taylor Swift, Kelly Clarkson, Anthem Lights, Ed Sheeran, Demi Lovato, Kesha, Shawn Mendes
  • Interests
    Singing, writing
  • Favourite TV Show
    Game of Thrones, Supernatural, Shannara Chronicles, The Last Kingdom, Vikings
  • Favourite Film
    Avengers Age of Ultron, The Hunger Games movies, The Conjuring, Deadpool, Logan

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  1. Hi everyone! Sorry I haven’t been on here for a bit. Been too busy with The Swift Life app lol! Haven’t gotten noticed by Taylor or Taylor nation yet but it’s lots of fun! Hope everyone’s doing well!

  2. Hi! welcome to shybi! As others have said, this site is an incredible supportive place to ask for advice or just let your emotions out because we will be honest with you, obviously not rude, but we won’t sugar coat things either. In regards to keeping this from your husband, as others have said, it is your choice who you tell and when but in my opinion, even if you don’t do it anytime soon, I think you should tell him eventually because if he’s how you say, he might see you keeping this from him as lying, which could make things worse for you in the long run. That’s just how I see it but I completely get that you’re scared and confused. I realized I was bi at the beginning of this month, so my family doesn’t even know yet but my close friends do. best of luck!
  3. I think you should respect her wishes and not pursue anything relationship related any more. As much as it would be nice to be able to convince someone to feel the same way for you, it almost never works and usually ends up ruining whatever connection you had to begin with. You can’t make someone have those feelings for you. I feel that if you do that, then it’s not necessarily their natural feelings and therefore the relationship itself will probably be more difficult bc they weren’t into you to begin with until you convinced them to be. I’d rather someone like me for me without having to ‘manipulate’ them, for lack of a better word, into liking me. You just need to take time to come to terms with, and accept the fact that she’s not interested in a relationship with you. Overtime, you’ll stop thinking about it so much and feeling emotional about it. It does take time and effort from yourself to get past these feelings but it is possible. Good luck!
  4. My screen name is kinda obvious from my profile and cover photos, but I’m a huge fan of Taylor Swift and one of her albums is called Fearless.
  5. love this song! I think it’s probably my favourite off reputation not including the previously released singles. It’s such a cool melody and so awesome!
  6. Yeah I know but I just don’t know how to start that conversation because even thinking about talking about it makes me nervous. Maybe it’s because of the issues I’ve had in the past that make it awkward to talk about even though this obviously isn’t something bad. I could ask my brother to help with it though, once I’m sure I’m ready to talk about it with my parents, at least. That will make it easier, I’m pretty sure.
  7. Damn I’ve got a whole bunch of favourites lol! Top Ten would be: ”Hey, you call me up again just to break me like a promise. So casually cruel in the name of being honest.” All Too Well by Taylor Swift “Hey Stephen, I could give you fifty reasons why I should be the one you choose. All those other girls, well they’re beautiful but would they write a song for you?” Hey Stephen by Taylor Swift “And now I know why all the trees change in the fall. I know you were on my side even when I was wrong and I love you for giving me your eyes. For staying back and watching me shine and I didn’t know if you knew so I’m taking this chance to say that I had the best day with you today.” The Best Day by Taylor Swift ”You said, ‘I remember how we felt sitting by the water and everytime I look at you, it’s like the first time. I fell in love with a careless man’s careful daughter. She is the best thing that’s ever been mine.’” Mine by Taylor Swift “Time turns flames to embers. You’ll have new September’s. Every one of us has messed up too. Lives change like the weather. I hope you remember today is never too late to be brand new.” Innocent by Taylor Swift “Long Live the walls we crashed through, how the kingdom lights shined just for me and you. I was screaming Long Live all the magic we made and bring on all the pretenders, I’m not afraid. Long live all the mountains we moved, I had the time of my life fighting dragons with you. And I was screaming Long Live That Look on your face. And bring on all the pretenders. One day, we will be remembered.” Long Live by Taylor Swift “Loving him is like driving a new Maserati down a dead end street. Faster than the wind, passionate as sin, ending so suddenly.” Red by Taylor Swift “Darling, I’m a nightmare dressed like a daydream.” Blank Space by Taylor Swift “But the monsters turned out to be just trees. When The Sun came up, you were looking at me.” Out of the Woods by Taylor Swift “My castle crumbled overnight. I brought a knife to a gun fight. They took the crown, but it’s alright.” Call It What You Want by Taylor Swift yes I know they’re all Taylor Swift lyrics but she writes amazing songs lol
  8. Welcome! I think you’ll find that everyone on here is very kind and supportive, but they will also give you honest answers if you ask for advice about things, not just tell you what you want to hear. Obviously they’re not rude about it but I appreciate that they don’t sugar coat things because that almost never helps at all in the long run. so glad you’re here! I joined about a week ago, and I feel like I belong here already! in regards to other sites being sleazy, the forum moderators for this site are very very good at keeping an eye on everything and make their best efforts to provide security and comfort for everyone here. again, Welcome! Looking forward to getting to know you!
  9. When I was little, I used to think one of the songs from Shrek went “I can see why nobody loved you for all your life” but it was actually “I can’t see me loving nobody but you for all my life.” My version was so mean lol!
  10. Thank you everyone! I had changed it a bit ago but like I said, I had the privacy settings so only I could see it. Doing that, even if only I could see it, made it seem more ‘official’. So hopefully I’ll be able to officially come out over time. Like I said, it’s not that I’m scared my family or friends will disapprove of it or anything, it’s just scary talking about it aloud. In some ways, I’m hoping one of my family members sees it so that will kind of start the conversation but either way, I’ll let them know eventually. My brother knows but he’s the only one and I said I didn’t want to talk about it aloud for awhile, so I’ve just been emailing him.
  11. Hey everyone! Hope you’re all well. While I haven’t officially come out to my family, I did change the privacy setting of my Facebook “interested in” section so that men and women is visible to my friends instead of just me. Obviously nobody is likely to see it unless I highlight it on my timeline but it’s a step in the right direction at least.
  12. I’ve misheard lots of song lyrics but some of the funniest are probsbly: ”Lights are off, he’s taking off his clothes.” From style by Taylor Swift but the lyrics are actually about him taking his coat off, not his clothes but I remember being so shocked lol! another one is from the Weeknd’s Starboy, and I always think he’s singing “talking money, need to urinate” lol but pretty sure he’s talking about a hearing aid, which is definitely more likely than urinating lol.
  13. I do because I’m not looking for hookups or anything like that. If I meet a woman that I get along with really well, then I’d want an actual relationship with connection and meaning.
  14. Hi! Welcome! I realized my bisexuality about two weeks ago, so I’m very new to it as well, especially since I’ve only had one boyfriend and never had any romantic interactions with a woman. But I am attracted to women, at least a bit. This is a very supportive and wonderful group of people and I just joined last Sunday, and I already feel like I belong here. I hope you will feel the same as well!