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Gemini82 last won the day on November 23 2017

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About Gemini82

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  1. I’m in a similar boat…my feelings of attraction towards women are getting stronger, and in turn, weaker towards my husband. Sex isn’t enjoyable most of the time, I’m just going through the motions; my body is saying ‘no’ too. Yet I don’t want to break up our marriage and family life - we have so much as a unit. No answers from me I’m afraid, but do know that you’re not alone!
  2. Wow, what an intense dream. I can only imagine how you’re feeling from it.
  3. Totally your call - you didn’t tell her at the time, so perhaps your gut feeling (and the right decision for you) is to keep quiet.
  4. Welcome to the site! A great place to be in your situation, which is similar to many here. What you’ve gone through is what I worry about - scratching the itch but wanting more!
  5. Maybe she’s been thinking how you now think of her hugs, knowing she’s bisexual? The friend I told, I felt a bit like that for a while m, especially with kisses on the end of text messages! But it soon passed. Why were you careful not to let it slip about your sexuality? I don’t want that to come across as harsh, just interested!
  6. We don’t do much now, but I like that it exists - fun for relationships in early stages and good for those whose partners aren’t very vocal with their love (that would be my brother in law, Valentine’s Day gives him the nudge to do and say something nice)!
  7. I’ve tried…feel like I’m continuously saying ‘gentle’ and ‘slowly’ and it made him annoyed :o( I’ll have to try again!
  8. Giving. Sometimes I get the giggles when hubby goes down there and I can’t relax into it. I feel bad saying it, but his oral skills could be better!
  9. I’ve just looked…Series 1 and 2 are available on All4. It’s a bit cringeworthy!
  10. @Violetta that makes absolute sense, and similar to the start with my husband. There’s another programme called ‘Naked Attraction’ where they choose their date on physical attributes - most of the dates go terribly!
  11. For me - no, I didn’t have a spark straight away with my husband. We had a drunken kiss one night and swapped numbers and then he didn’t leave me alone (he persevered rather than being stalkerish)! He told me he loved me way too soon, but I eventually fell totally and utterly in love with him. It just took time.
  12. I’ve just been watching ‘First Dates’ (a dating show on Channel 4 in the UK where people are matched for blind dates) and once again I feel disappointed… A lot of the people end their date with ‘no, I just didn’t feel that spark’ and choose not to see the other person again. I can’t help feeling that sometimes it takes more than just one date (that’s being filmed!) to find that spark. So, with a significant other, did you have ‘that spark’ straight away?
  13. I told a friend a while back simply because the conversation was linked (like yours was) and because it validated my sexuality! Having been with only my husband for 13 years, no matter what I feel inside, on the outside it looks like I’m straight. It was good to share it and it’s been brilliant being open on this site too. It could be similar reasons as to why your friend shared. Does she know that you’re bi too?
  14. It’s hair dye time! 

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    2. Gemini82


      Blonde. Much lighter than usual - eek! 

    3. Gemini3


      I'm sure it would look good on you.  But it's scary to change color even just a shade.

    4. Gemini82


      Aah, thank you. Hopefully I’ll get used to it in a few days. We’re off to the sunshine next week so I thought it would be nice to go a bit lighter!

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