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About Apsalar15

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    Big Tease
  • Birthday October 15

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  • Music
    Metal, rock, synthwave
  • Location
    Devon, UK
  • Interests
    Gaming, binge watching shows. Reading (total fantasy geek), listening to music when I get chance. Seems my new hobby is making friends with other bi chicks :D
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    Ghost, although I haven't had any for ages.
  • Favourite Book
    Malazan book of the fallen, The Dark Tower, American Gods, Harry Potter...loads of others
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    Stranger Things, Back Sails, Game of Thrones, Penny Dreadful, American Gods, The Walking Dead, OITNB
  • Favourite Film
    Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Fantastic Beasts etc.

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  1. Oh don't worry ladies I'm not forcing a single thing. Was mostly just curious as to whether anything particular got you going that was recommended to try!
  2. Ladies! Our lady is staying with us for 2 weeks and I thought it might be fun to ask a group of like-minded women what kind of thing they might like another woman to do to/with them... Bear in mind there's a man in the mix so any mff tips are appreciated as well but I'm thinking more specifically about what I can do for her to make her think I'm a sex goddess :"D So... Thinking caps on and let your imagination run wild girls. I'll be waiting
  3. Only a few hours until she walks through my door again <3

    1. Ice


      Tell her I say hello! Enjoy love! <3

  4. What I wouldn't give to be a straight dude sometimes. FML 

  5. <3 

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    2. Ice


      Ppffttt I thought u were on the phone with her. Waited and crying at the corner for your reply. 

    3. Apsalar15
    4. Ice
  6. Today was good. Got out of the house with the kids, the man sent me a picture of him looking particularly hot, enjoyed chatting lots to a friend and had a good flirt with my girl. Then a big ol' gay double rainbow appeared, which I'm taking as a sign :D

  7. Thanks ladies!! <3 @tnmom yes it's couple but with a "th" sound. The other word is triad, which is cool and all but does make us sound like a gang haha! We're taking it one day at a time but she seems just as invested in it as we are so I'm feeling optimistic.
  8. Thank you so much @Sithandra I guess I just mean I feel super lucky that the risk we took paid off. I was terrified. But I put so much thought into the entire thing before telling her and since then it's been a lot of talking and working through things. It will take work and dedication but she's worth it
  9. Haha @Amethyst753 thank you it does feel a bit like winning a jackpot! We're all feeling very lucky I think.
  10. Hey girls, been a while since I posted anything on here, but... ...it seems I have achieved the impossible A couple of weeks ago, myself and my fiance confessed to one of my oldest and best friends that we had feelings for her. Especially from my side - there had always been a little something between us but I never really knew what it was or what to do with it. There's been lots of confusion, a couple of freak outs and loooooads of communication but it would seem that she's officially our girlfriend <3 I still can't quite believe it! I'm totally smitten with her and it's been amazing getting to know her in this whole new way, it was a challenge to go from friends to more but I'm so glad it's happening. Sadly we live 220 miles apart at the moment so now I'm missing her like hell, but it'll be worth it to see her again. The vibe between the three of us is amazing and we seem compatible in so many ways ;) Can't believe my luck!! So ladies, you never know what could happen
  11. I miss her :(

    1. Ice


      Hugs. She'll be back before you know it :)

    2. Apsalar15


      Yeah it's not long. Just can't believe how much I miss her already. Ridiculous really lol

  12. Get out of it yooooou
  13. I'm bored, so - 1) I've had pretty much everything pierced 2) I've never broken a bone 3) I was born in South Africa 4) I'm dipping my toes into polyamory 5) I should've done well at college and gone to University. I didn't and will probably always regret it.
  14. I am haunting your dreams,
    conducting these fevers
    from a distance,
    a distance that leaves me weeping,
    and storming,
    and bereft.

    1. HerbanOrla


      This is really very beautiful! 

    2. Apsalar15


      I can't take credit I'm afraid. It's from a poem called Yearn On by Katie Donovan, brilliant poet :)

  15. I've recently had to suck it up and be really honest with one of my oldest and best friends about my feelings for her. One of the scariest things I've ever done! But she's still here, still loves me. And although nothing's officially happened, it appears to be moving in the right direction, just very slowly. I think particularly with women, honesty really is the best policy. Good luck!