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  1. I completely relate. I've been married 12 years but haven't actually told my husband. I don't hide the fact that I find women attractive but I haven't spelled it out for him. I'm too scared to say it out loud.
  2. I've never thought of it like that. This really resonates with me. Thank you.
  3. I so relate to this. I don't want to tell my husband and have it turn into another way to satisfy him. But I'm not sure that I want to cheat either. For now I settle for fantasizing...
  4. Thanks so much, Playful!
  5. I'm in the market for a quiet vibrator or sex toy. The quieter the better, but still good (obvi). Any suggestions?
  6. My #1 rule would be the Golden Rule with a twist: treat others how they want to be treated. It's about treating each other well and respecting our diversity.
  7. That sounds like the movie Trolls!
  8. You just described my life in a nutshell.
  9. I love everything about this thread!
  10. My sexuality has been so repressed since a very young age that I was pretty much asexual. And since it's "normal" to be heterosexual I just went with it, even though I didn't feel too much of an attraction. As I'm started to explore my sexuality, which has been super difficult for me to do, I'm realizing that I have always been attracted to women. Even acknowledging that I have sexual attraction, whether it's to a man or a women, is really hard for me to do.
  11. I cum so much harder when I masturbate, but maybe that's because I've never had sex with a woman...
  12. @Hungry Thank you for the great advice!
  13. @shazza21 I have not told him that. I still trying to figure out if that is what I want. Maybe the compromise is that I can date women outside of the marriage and so can he. Ugh...this is getting complicated.
  14. I can totally relate @unknown. I already feel like I'm performing for my husband when the whole time I'm thinking about being with a woman. I wouldn't mind a compromise - the occasional threesome to satisfy his needs, with enough time alone with a woman to satisfy mine.
  15. I would love to open up to my husband about my bisexuality. He would be thrilled and would immediately start pressing me for a threesome. Here's the thing...I don't want a threesome. I want the opportunity to explore my sexuality with a woman without a penis getting in the way ;). I'm worried my husband will see this as a rejection. But I don't want to be with a woman behind his back either. Sigh...