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  • Birthday 12/24/1980

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  1. Uh oh. This night just lot later!!!
  2. I don’t know how you could get a definitive positive diagnosis where you are. I go to a rheumatologist who deals with experimental things as well and he sent my blood off to some place in California that measures the proteins and such and determines your disease state (mild, moderate, or extreme). I was moderate at that time.
  3. @Bruna_V @kairi I think if you know your husband isn’t going to take the news well and you really want to stay with him I really see no reason to rock the boat. I’m thankful my husband has been accepting since I told him. Although we are still monogamous and intend to stay that way for now.
  4. @khichihouvan keep talking to him. He may just be scared. My very best friend gave me some great advice. She said “you’ve been dealing with this for years. He just started dealing with it. Be patient.” This is helped me a lot because I was quite shocked when I realized I was really attracted to women.
  5. I would choose to help humanity because I think that’s super sexy and near genius.
  6. This is almost my identical situation. I’m married, 38 years old, and 2 kids (boys 7 and 9). Have you talked to your husband? I’ve found talking to mine and being on here has helped me feel somewhat better and pretty damn normal.
  7. Unless your marriage was open before coming out to your spouse I do think it’s our job to constantly reassure our husbands. I know I dealt with this in my head for a few years before telling him. It’s unfair to dump it on him and say “good luck”. We’ve been talking constantly and our marriage has improved and is better than it probably ever has. At this point he is not open to me exploring with a woman but also is open to changing his mind. It’s not a forever no. I’m ok with that right now because I’m not sure I’m ready to go explore anyways.
  8. erotica

    Good thing the kids went to stay with my parents tonight. Nicely done!
  9. @Beck Does your husband know? Mine seems to be trying harder to show some of these attributes that men typically don’t show. Now that still doesn’t stop my feelings and desires to be with a woman. However it has made us feel closer and open up communication some more.
  10. I second The Ethical Slut. Me and my husband are currently reading it and it has opened up amazing discussion. I would still say so far we are wanting to keep our marriage closed but the book is making me think of the why behind that decision and it’s making it feel more like a decision and not just a social expectation.
  11. Isla Muejures, MX If you could go anywhere in world where would you go?
  12. Fixing to have sex with my husband for the 3rd time today. He’s so turned on by me being with a woman.
  13. We’ve both started ready The Ethical Slut. We haven’t made it far but so far it’s a really good read. Interesting info.
  14. @pinklotus Yes very tricky. Luckily me and my husband have a great relationship although this revelation is straining it some. We are doing our best to communicate with each other better but it is difficult when neither of us are sure of how we feel about all this. Currently I’m not seeking out to experience a woman but if something happens naturally we’ll cross that bridge.