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MarriedBi

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About MarriedBi

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    French Kisser
  • Birthday 12/24/1980

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    Imagine Dragons- Walking The Wire
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    Oklahoma
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    Enjoying life
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    Currently- The Detour

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  1. MarriedBi

    Scissors

    I’ll volunteer!!!!
  2. Let’s be honest most men are dopes. I love my husband and he’s pretty in tune to my needs. This statement hit me in the wrong spot. If you didn’t know you needed those things how would your husband know? Marriage is work. No matter the genders. New always feels better than old. It doesn’t mean it’s actually better. I don’t have a good solution to any of these problems but it’s important to respect each other’s wishes and fears. And the only way to come out on the other side in a happy place for all is to communicate endlessly. Maybe you end up together or not.
  3. I think some husbands think a threesome will be fun until they think about the dynamics. Especially those of us who have never had the experience of being with a woman.
  4. My point was that I believe in humanity and I believe even if this admin tries to take away rights Americans will fight for everybody.
  5. I will say I do think you are overreacting. But for a different reason. I think the current administration could absolutely attempt to return our entire society to the 60s/70s era. The reason I do not think it will happen is because the vast majority of Americans are for LGBTQ rights. Even if it’s closeted. I live in a very small rural Christian middle of America town and people being openly gay isn’t an issue. So my hope is conservatives and liberals will eventually come together and protect all the rights everybody has fought for. Women’s, Gay, Minority.
  6. MarriedBi

    Scissors

    Uh oh. This night just lot later!!!
  7. MarriedBi

    Illness

    I don’t know how you could get a definitive positive diagnosis where you are. I go to a rheumatologist who deals with experimental things as well and he sent my blood off to some place in California that measures the proteins and such and determines your disease state (mild, moderate, or extreme). I was moderate at that time.
  8. @Bruna_V @kairi I think if you know your husband isn’t going to take the news well and you really want to stay with him I really see no reason to rock the boat. I’m thankful my husband has been accepting since I told him. Although we are still monogamous and intend to stay that way for now.
  9. @khichihouvan keep talking to him. He may just be scared. My very best friend gave me some great advice. She said “you’ve been dealing with this for years. He just started dealing with it. Be patient.” This is helped me a lot because I was quite shocked when I realized I was really attracted to women.
  10. I would choose to help humanity because I think that’s super sexy and near genius.
  11. MarriedBi

    Somethings missing..............

    This is almost my identical situation. I’m married, 38 years old, and 2 kids (boys 7 and 9). Have you talked to your husband? I’ve found talking to mine and being on here has helped me feel somewhat better and pretty damn normal.
  12. Unless your marriage was open before coming out to your spouse I do think it’s our job to constantly reassure our husbands. I know I dealt with this in my head for a few years before telling him. It’s unfair to dump it on him and say “good luck”. We’ve been talking constantly and our marriage has improved and is better than it probably ever has. At this point he is not open to me exploring with a woman but also is open to changing his mind. It’s not a forever no. I’m ok with that right now because I’m not sure I’m ready to go explore anyways.
  13. MarriedBi

    BFFWB: A Slow Burn

    Good thing the kids went to stay with my parents tonight. Nicely done!
  14. MarriedBi

    My theory

    @Beck Does your husband know? Mine seems to be trying harder to show some of these attributes that men typically don’t show. Now that still doesn’t stop my feelings and desires to be with a woman. However it has made us feel closer and open up communication some more.
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