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About pinklotus

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    I like pretty much all genres but I'm kind of stuck on 90s grunge. Favorite singer: Fiona Apple
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    movies, television, erotica (writing and reading it!), and art

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  1. I just finished Insatiable. Hilarious show that touches on nearly every controversial topic you can think of, including bisexuality and polyamory.
  2. welcome @artpsych!
  3. Welcome @Turquoise Love! I'm sure you've seen by now that there are lots of people with different situations and questions, so no doubt you'll find someone to relate to. There is a wealth of information here, so enjoy and see you around the forums!
  4. I cannot figure out where to stream this in the US. it's not on Netflix.
  5. Some people are just so judgemental. I knew a girl like that, who talked major, I mean major smack about same-sex encounters claiming religion etc. She felt that a monogamous same sex couple was wrong but straight promiscuity was totally fine. But guess who was the first person to spread her legs when she was drunk and her bi friend just happened to be around with no witnesses? I think many people like that are repressed and are seeking validation from others in an attempt to convince themselves they don't have those feelings or prevent themselves from acting on them. .
  6. Hi and welcome to the site! Your situation sounds very similar to mine with the exception of the relationship part, but the discovery and the marriage part. Anyway, welcome, hope you're enjoying the place so far!
  7. Welcome to the site @Curitee!
  8. welcome back!
  9. How is this really just now getting on my radar? I Netflix all the time. Oh well, now I have a new show to binge!
  10. The first time i went down on a girl i literally thought i had no clue what i was doing, but it turned out ok. If you're nervous about it, perhaps you can be open with her and she'll help guide you to do what she likes.
  11. In my limited view, it's as prominent as it is in any type of relationships across the board in some variation of the lifestyle.
  12. I have to agree with this. A lot.
  13. @gwnanc totally. & That's the thing about sexuality and sexual experiences. What works for some may not work for others. Some people don't require intimacy as part of their sexual experience whereas others do. As with anything, compatibility is key as tastes vary as widely for this as they do for food.
  14. I actually like threesomes, but would prefer if everyone was involved, rather than someone just watching me with someone else. Although, I have been in a situation sort of like that with the difference being that i was intimate with her while he was intimate with her because i didn't want to be with him, but that was my choice. As with anything, everyone has different preferences for involvement. Nothing wrong with it in any case.
  15. The only thing I can say, in the most completely objective context, is that it sounds to me that you are echoing his concern as well. you say know that you won't fall in love or harm your marriage, so isn't it equally possible that he won't either? I'm not suggesting that you should have to include him in your experiences with other women, but it definitely sounds like you two are not on the same page and if you choose to keep seeing her under these circumstances, until he is ok with it, it will affect your relationship negatively.