BiTriMama

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About BiTriMama

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    Ladylike as Fuck
  • Birthday 03/03/1980

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    California
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    Triathlon, hiking, backpacking, camping, surfing, the outdoors in general, furthering my education, running, trail running, skiing, travel
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    Swingers, Sideways, Kissing Jessica Stein

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  1. 69% lesbian (no omen there...) 31% bisexual
  2. Welcome to the site! If you haven't already, be sure to visit How Our Forum Works, including the rules. Glad to have you here!
  3. It takes a concerted effort, but it needs to be done for your own sanity. I realize you work together, but can you reduce your time together at all while you deal with your feelings? I think most of us have pined after someone we can't have for whatever reason. It takes work, but you CAN work past it.
  4. I'm one of those pain in the ass people who doesn't have one thing that works consistently. But I have a few things that generally work for me.
  5. YASSS. I am so bad about running shoes. But they need to be in a rotation, right?
  6. You ought to check out Dan Savage, who coined the term "monogamish" to describe people like yourself, who aren't 100% monogamous, but aren't exactly open or poly either.
  7. Our version of MEC in the US is REI, and it's very similar. I actually used to work there. Browsing is DANGEROUS.
  8. Welcome! This is a great site for support, and I think many women here can relate to the struggle of finding a woman while you're married. If you two haven't yet, I would recommend reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Eaton. Be sure to check out the site rules in How Our Forum Works. That forum will give you some guidance to help maximize your experience here.
  9. I'm friends with a woman I had a crush on. Eventually I realized it wasn't going to happen, and over time, it got easier to be around her. Now she's dating a really great woman who I also hang out with.
  10. Welcome! I have to agree that's a raw deal for you. Have you guys ever read The Ethical Slut? It might be helpful for you both.
  11. Long time, no see! Welcome back!
  12. I think it has to do with your IP address. @la-femme could probably speak to it better than I could.
  13. Hahahahahahahaha! There's only one way to find out my little tricks... What I meant about the usual stuff was that there were certain moves she tended to like, but some days, not a single one of those would work, even initially, leaving me to sift through my bag of tricks and then start from scratch. There are a lot of options to do with the clit, as well as with hands and fingers while you're at it! So much woman to enjoy!
  14. I find it really is all about paying attention to her signals. Is she getting wetter? How does she sound? How is her body moving? Is her clit getting more swollen? Her vagina getting more open and receptive? I've also found that the same woman may not like the same thing twice! Sometimes I'd have to start from scratch after going through all the usual stuff that worked! But 99% of the time we'd find something that she liked. The first time, I remember that she wasn't particularly good at performing, but I loved performing it on her. She was definitely into whatever I was doing. As for the porn, check out my thread about porn with women who actually sleep with women. I HATE seeing long nails and male-centric GOG porn. I'd rather see a woman actually enjoying herself. Frankly, most of what I do you wouldn't be able to see from a camera.
  15. Hey stranger!  Good to see you in the forums again!  Welcome back! :)