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BiTriMama last won the day on May 25

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About BiTriMama

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    Ladylike as Fuck
  • Birthday 03/03/1980

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    Triathlon, hiking, backpacking, camping, surfing, the outdoors in general, furthering my education, running, trail running, skiing, travel
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    Swingers, Sideways, Kissing Jessica Stein

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  1. Congrats!

    1. BiTriMama


      Thank you!  I'm super excited to get moved in!

  2. Welcome to the site! What do you mean by the "lifestyle"? Can you clarify?
  3. Welcome to the site! I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a divorce, but sometimes it's for the best. Do you live in an area that's super conservative? How is your family about LGBT issues? If you are somewhere where it's hard to be out, can you move? I don't think you need to jump out of the closet right away. Go slow, but push yourself a little more out, then a little more, and so forth. Keep telling people, and experiment to find what works best for you. Also look up any LGBT resources in your area, including support groups and meet up groups. You never know what might be out there for you. Good luck!!
  4. EEEEK, I got approved for my new apartment today!  Super excited!! :drinks:

    1. JazzyJess21
    2. Nidalaeh
    3. Rocker83


      Fantastic! I hope you're very happy there x

  5. Enjoy!
  6. 69% lesbian (no omen there...) 31% bisexual
  7. Welcome to the site! If you haven't already, be sure to visit How Our Forum Works, including the rules. Glad to have you here!
  8. It takes a concerted effort, but it needs to be done for your own sanity. I realize you work together, but can you reduce your time together at all while you deal with your feelings? I think most of us have pined after someone we can't have for whatever reason. It takes work, but you CAN work past it.
  9. I'm one of those pain in the ass people who doesn't have one thing that works consistently. But I have a few things that generally work for me.
  10. YASSS. I am so bad about running shoes. But they need to be in a rotation, right?
  11. You ought to check out Dan Savage, who coined the term "monogamish" to describe people like yourself, who aren't 100% monogamous, but aren't exactly open or poly either.
  12. Our version of MEC in the US is REI, and it's very similar. I actually used to work there. Browsing is DANGEROUS.
  13. Welcome! This is a great site for support, and I think many women here can relate to the struggle of finding a woman while you're married. If you two haven't yet, I would recommend reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Eaton. Be sure to check out the site rules in How Our Forum Works. That forum will give you some guidance to help maximize your experience here.
  14. I'm friends with a woman I had a crush on. Eventually I realized it wasn't going to happen, and over time, it got easier to be around her. Now she's dating a really great woman who I also hang out with.
  15. Welcome! I have to agree that's a raw deal for you. Have you guys ever read The Ethical Slut? It might be helpful for you both.