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wolfbigrl88 last won the day on April 12 2018

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About wolfbigrl88

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    Net's future wife
  • Birthday 12/20/1966

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    Hard rock, 80's,
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    Not where I want to be but am for the time being
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    C K one
  • Favourite Book
    Any well written Lesbian Romance Novel
  • Favourite TV Show
    Sons of Anarchy, Bitten, Being Human, Vampire Diaries
  • Favourite Film
    Man From Snowy River, Princess Bride, Loving Anabelle, Eddie and the Cruisers

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  1. I love you baby, can’t wait to see you and marry you xx

    1. wolfbigrl88


      Well we did it baby, we got married. Can we please just try to not get into barneys over money and other things?

       I love you so much and wish I was there to help you. You are now my wife and we will walk down this road together now and we won't have to do it alone.

      Wish I could just pack up and be there tomorrow but you and I both know that's not possible at the moment.


    2. widesargassosea


      Congratulations Net and Wolfie. You ladies are fantastic.  

  2. wolfbigrl88

    Shybi Book Club

    J.A. Armstrong has some great series books. The one that I like the best is about a woman who's an architect who meets a woman who's much older and she's a senator. Their romance builds as you read the series and the senator's career builds as well. It's a great book series. Kindle unlimited is 9.99 a month on Amazon and is well worth the price as there is a great selection of any type of book you might like to read even if it's not les fic.
  3. wolfbigrl88

    Shybi Book Club

    Well Netty and I like to read books in the Kindle unlimited collection, however there are a few books that we've paid for as well. There are a few authors that we both like. J.A. Armstrong has some great books out. She's the one that comes to mind at the moment. She's written some great series books. Another one is Harper Bliss, she also has some great stories. Kindle unlimited offers quite a variety of lesbian fiction. I've gotten addicted to reading them now so sometimes it's hard for me to get to sleep because I want to finish the book. Maybe if you find some of these books and read them we could talk about the stories and what we liked about the characters?
  4. wolfbigrl88

    Weight Doesn't Matter Or Does It?

    Thanks for you comment. Yes my sister's husband doesn't like a fat woman and it shows, she looks borderline anorexic and she doesn't really look happy, but he does treat her well and they have plenty of money so guess that makes it all right. As for my ex, well he likes what he likes and to each his own. As I said in the original post I have a good woman and she loves me just the way that I am and I love her we don't focus on that part of ourselves, although we do both agree that we could lose a few pounds, lol. Soon she will be my wife and we'll be together next year when I move over there so it'll be easier when we're together to encourage each other to get a little bit better in shape.
  5. wolfbigrl88

    It's not ever enough

    The title should be enough of a description of what I'm going to write, but I will expound on the meaning behind the title. Yesterday I took her to the airport after having ten wonderful blissful days together. It's never enough time together to satisfy both of our longings and need for each other. In just 3 short months we will say our vows and become each other's wife. Before that milestone happens, my youngest will graduate high school. She will be the last one and then it's off to bigger and brighter things for her future. It's only been a day and I'm an emotional basket case. Every time we have to say good-bye, the part of me that I need to be with gets ripped away again. The only thing that will heal this wound that gets reopened every time we have to part is for us to be together forever. Don't get me wrong I know we will have some struggles along the way, but every couple does. It's what strengthens and builds a strong relationship. We have been doing this now for four and a half years. We've done well and long may our relationship last. Once we are married however we won't be able to be together yet. I still have to come home and work for another half a year or more until I can make enough to have some money to take with me when I move over there next year. Life will be much different than what I've been used to in the U.S. when I move over to the U.K. and there will be adjustments that will have to be made. I won't be coming back home after two weeks once I move over there I will be there. It's a huge change for me. My family will be here in the U.S. and my kids will all be here in the U.S. and I will have to get a job and still be sending money home to help out my youngest while she's going through college and figuring out her next path in life. I'm looking forward to beginning our lives together as a couple. Waking up to each other, having disagreements and laughing about them later, being woken up by a cat sitting on my stomach or a dog trying to nudge me off the bed. I've already settled it that I will be the one to clean up the mess after meals are made because I'm shit in the kitchen but have better talents utilized elsewhere. I like where our house is and I love the location. There are scenic views all around and a famous person buried in the graveyard that's across the street. So cool to be living there. I'm looking forward to cooler summers because I've lived in the heat all my life. I prefer cooler weather. I mean don't get me wrong, I'll miss the pool and swimming but I won't miss the heat and humidity. I'd rather be a little bit chilly than sweaty and hot all the time. I have the air on right now because it's a little warm outside. I'm looking forward to going on walks with her and the dog and adjusting to being a step-mom to her daughter. I will miss my little space that I spend most of my time in here in my bedroom, but we'll sort things out and make a space for me so that I will feel comfortable. Just to clarify I will feel comfortable anyhow because we will finally have our home and be together in one place. Hopefully everything will come together and on our date in July we'll be saying I DO. I may get a chance to see her again in October but if not it will be another 6 months after we say I Do that I will see her again. My heart is aching and longing for her tonight as I write this and watch her sleeping.
  6. wolfbigrl88

    Captain Marvel's Sexuality

    Hollywood is still Hollywood no matter what angle you look at it, however they are becoming a little less reserved in their portrayal of predominantly gay characters. Although they won't come right out and say that they're gay, you just get that vibe, especially when certain looks or things are done or said. I know from my own experience with my family, mainly my sister, that she will be very outraged if they do just flat out make a film with a lesbian theme or even implied lesbian theme. She would be very upset and would let the world know about it. Unfortunately where we live here in the south in what they call the "bible" belt, there's still a lot of homophobia and people treat it like it's some kind of disease that's going to infect them if they hang around it too long. Anyhow I'm glad to see that they are moving towards putting more bisexual or lesbian characters in the films and television shows that are being released now. I hope that it helps to change the mentality of those that are so homophobic.
  7. Hello Wolfie thought I'd stop by and say hello and hope all is well.. :-) 

    1. wolfbigrl88


      All is well, netty is here with me until Thursday.

    2. SimplyTrouble


      How awesome.. enjoy each other.. so happy for u both.. :-)

  8. I agree with you about not having your socks blown off, however you just haven't met the right woman yet, and you may never. When you have the connection with a woman where you connect on all levels the times of having sex will be a different experience for you. I was married for 20 years to one man, the father of my children, and 3 and a half years to another man. I had great sex with both of them, but it was a different experience than what I've had with my soon to be wife. When you experience mind blowing sex or earth shattering sex, you'll know it because you go to a whole different place in your mind and in your body. Sometimes it just takes time to find the right person. I myself am a one person person so I didn't do the sleeping around thing before I found netty. Once her and I started talking it was an instantaneous connection. We've been together since the first time we met here and talked in the chat room.
  9. I agree with Bendetta on this one. Fantasy is never the same as reality, that's why it's called fantasy. I think in order to have the mind blowing sex you've been told about and read about, you need to have a connection and chemistry with the person you're with. You have a connection with your husband so it's satisfying like it should be. The reason why my first experience with a woman went so well is because we had that connection and that chemistry. I wasn't sure how it would go for me the first time but it was amazing and I wrote about that experience in my blog. Some women can have great first time sexual experiences with other women and not have that connection, especially if it's just sex to them, but that's not the norm. Hope this helps
  10. I'm 52 and enjoying my age.
  11. wolfbigrl88

    What made you Curious

    A few years after my divorce from my first ex I went out with a group of people, mostly girls and one of them cornered me in a bathroom stall and started making out with me. It was from that point on that I really dove into my curiosity and it's when I discovered this site. I have had feelings off and on for close friends of mine and after thinking about my younger years and growing up, I'd have to say all the signs were there I just didn't pick up on them.
  12. wolfbigrl88

    Slightly nervous new person saying hello!

    Welcome to shys and take some time to have a look around. There's a lot of great info here and yes there are a lot of us in similar or the same boat. Enjoy!
  13. wolfbigrl88

    Hi, I'm new here.

    You're welcome.
  14. wolfbigrl88

    Just saying HI!

  15. Welcome back!