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wolfbigrl88 last won the day on April 20

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About wolfbigrl88

  • Rank
    Net's future wife
  • Birthday 12/20/1966

Profile Information

  • Music
    Hard rock, 80's,
  • Location
    Someplace in the South and near to her heart. :)
  • Interests
    I am a mother of three kids, two of my kids don't live at home and I have the one left that lives with me. I like to do a number of things but don't have the time to do what I want to do because I'm concentrating on work and providing for my daughter.

    I enjoy outdoor activities like bike riding, horseback riding, going surfing, riding my skateboard and hope to own my own motorcycle someday.

    I'm also a musician and enjoy playing my acoustic guitar and writing music. I play drums and get to jam at a blues night every now and then. I also play bass guitar, electric guitar, and a little keyboard.

    Guess that's about it, oh and I like to golf as well and have played softball, tennis and like to shoot pool. I also enjoy watching NASCAR, baseball, football, and hockey.

    I'm in a relationship with a woman who is the love of my life. I never thought I could feel this way again and she is mending the pieces of my broken heart and putting it back together. :)Thank you net I will always love you.
  • Signature Fragrance
    C K one
  • Favourite Book
    Any well written Lesbian Romance Novel
  • Favourite TV Show
    Sons of Anarchy, Bitten, Being Human, Vampire Diaries
  • Favourite Film
    Man From Snowy River, Princess Bride, Loving Anabelle, Eddie and the Cruisers

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  1. Welcome, and you can be sure that you are definitely not alone
  2. Welcome glad you found the site and there's plenty to read here, but be warned the site is very addictive, lol.
  3. Welcome glad you found it and are enjoying the site! Lots of great information and support here.
  4. Happy Thanksgiving baby, enjoy your Turkey, I wish I was there to eat it with you. love you xx 

    1. wolfbigrl88


      Awe thanks baby the turkey was about the only good thing, oh the gravy and mac and cheese was good. I wish you were here too. Love you too beautiful xx.

  5. Just wanted to tell you that I love you so much baby can't wait to see you in just a few short months, it will have been a long 8 months by the time we are together again, but the wait is worth it because before you know it, we'll be together and won't have to count the days until we next get together. I miss you so much baby. :)

    1. ChemFem


      It's really encouraging to see so much love between established Shy's couples who are still in the honeymoon phase several years on :D

    2. wolfbigrl88


      Thanks for that and for us I don't think the honeymoon phase will ever end but can only get better once we're finally able to be together and start our lives living together as a couple.

  6. Welcome and glad you've discovered us. This is a great place for support and to learn more about your feelings and it's great to realize that you're not weird and definitely are not alone. Enjoy!
  7. Welcome and glad you found us here! This is a great place to find support just check out How This Forum Works for more info on the site. It is well modified here and is a safe place to learn more about your feelings. It is a support site, not a dating site but if you're looking to find friends who are like-minded, this is the place for that. Some find more than friends on here, like me and it does happen sometimes, but in general this is a place to learn and discover and talk about your feelings where you don't have to worry about pervy men or things you find on those sites. I'm glad they developed this site the way that they did and that it's free and not a dating site. Women need a safe place to go to talk about their feelings and this site has been a huge help to so many women. Hope you enjoy it as much as myself and so many others have.
  8. Welcome to the site. Communication is the key with your husband and as long as you are both open and honest with each other, there's no telling what lies ahead for you. Enjoy the site and take a look around, there's a lot of great advice and information here. Glad you found us.
  9. Welcome to the site, this is a great place to learn more about your feelings. Take some time to read the forums and get to know the site. This is a safe place to talk about your feelings, hopefully you'll discover things that will help you understand yourself better and become more comfortable realizing that you're not alone.
  10. Communication is the key here. You have to be able to talk about this with him and with her. The only way you're going to be able to work this out is talk to both of them, not at the same time of course, lol. You have to tell him that you love him very much, if you do, and tell him you are also in love with a woman, but until you talk to her as well you won't know how she feels. If she wants you to herself, that may be difficult since you have a family. It seems that a lot of us that are on this site have been where you are. I too was married when I discovered that I had feelings for a woman. My first ex-husband even accused me of having feelings for her but I just down-played it, when in reality he was right. Then in my second marriage I started coming back onto this site after discovering this site when I was divorced the first time. The woman I described that I met when I was married to my first ex became a very good friend and without realizing it, I developed feelings for her, and she had feelings for me too but not like that and I misinterpreted her feelings for me. We worked it out, but she was only ever a good friend and nothing ever happened. I didn't get involved with a woman until after my first divorce, before I married my second ex. I didn't have a full-on experience with that woman, but after I was married for over a year, I started coming back on to this site. Then eventually my second ex accused me of cheating on him just by being on here. When he left me I met a woman on here and we had a long distance relationship for eleven months. I took a break after that because of pressure from family, mainly my mother who's very religious to "get back to" my religious roots. Well that lasted a month, lol. You can't change who you are or your preference once you've discovered that part of yourself. I met another woman on here and was involved long distance again and never met her face to face either for about five months, then I realized she was a fake and ended it. Finally I met the love of my life on here shortly after that break up from the fake woman who lied about her situation. I have been with netballer1973 or as I like to call her Netty for short now a little over three years. She has been to visit me here quite a few times, she lives in Scotland. What you need to ask yourself is : Do I have room in my life to make it work with being in love with 2 people and will my husband be able to handle it? Or after talking to your husband will he ask you to not see her anymore and if he does, will you be able to handle that? It's a very hard place to be in but communication is the key here. If you explain to both him and to her that you have no intentions of leaving him for her and to her that you will not leave your husband but that you have to work some things out, it's the only thing you can do right now. There is a way to do it but both parties have to be willing to be flexible and giving of their time so you can make room for both of them. I hope it works out for the best for you.
  11. Welcome to the site and I thought I could just turn those feelings off as well, but I failed and I'm glad I didn't turn them off because then I wouldn't be with the love of my life. You'll just have to figure out how you're going to communicate this to your husband without upsetting or offending him.
  12. You're not alone. I think the feelings for women or I should say the attraction to women was discovered after I became close to a woman I met at church, of all places. We got really close really quickly but it was only after we had become friends that I felt I had feelings or an attraction to her. For me, it's more about the total connection, not just sex. It's not unusual at all for you to discover this about yourself after having an experience with a woman, it does however lead to some confusion until you can figure things out more. The more research you do, the better informed you'll be and able to decide if you may or may not be bisexual. When you're not in a relationship with a woman that could all change and you might find that you still want to be with a man but also like being with a woman. It all just depends on what you figure out that works for you. I didn't find this sight until I had my first kiss from a woman and had developed feelings for her. We were together for about two weeks and after that, I realized even more that I did like kissing her and being with her, but all we did was kissed and we cuddled but that's about it. If it hadn't been for her then I might not have discovered shys and ultimately found the love of my life. So you just have to read more and educate yourself and then figure out what it is exactly that you want.
  13. It's difficult to gauge in your situation. Eye contact is something that people do when they communicate, however not all eye contact is the same. You might be picking up on something with her, but there's no way of knowing for sure unless you get into a conversation with her. Maybe keep the conversation light and talk about school or mention the fact that something is distracting you from keeping focused on your studies but you can't quite put your finger on what that is? If you're doing well in the class then there's no reason for her to think anything of it, but you might be able to just talk to her. It doesn't hurt to just talk and by talking you may get an insight into her thinking as a teacher. She may not even be aware of the dynamics of a female female crush or maybe she does know, but there has to be a way that you can breach the subject with her so my advice is to give it a try and see what happens. The worst that can happen is she just flat out tells you that she's not into girls or maybe she's been getting curious about girls. All you can do is ask or talk to her.
  14. Wolfie hope your enjoying your days off.. Lucky you I get a week off the week of Thankgiving I can't wait.. I need a break from the kiddos .. :-)

    1. wolfbigrl88


      It bounces from week to week, like next week I'll be working with only 2 days off. I do enjoy it when I get three days off in a row, but my paycheck suffers. I get to spend more time with netty when I'm not working though :). Hope all is well with you, have a great day!

  15. Love you beautiful can't wait til we can just be together and roll over and look at each other face to face instead of at a small screen on skype. 

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    2. wolfbigrl88


      It will be nice to finally be together and go places and be seen together and yes get on each other's nerves so we would both long for those skype days, however once I'm with you I won't ever want to be apart again. I love you so much baby and can't wait for us to begin our lives together as a couple. xx

    3. netballer1973


      I love you so much baby and I can't wait for our life together to start xx 

    4. wolfbigrl88


      In just a little less than two years we will be together :) Love you beautiful xxxxx.