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  1. 1. First Kiss In your dream, you rent a hotel room from 8AM to 8PM, so that whatever happens within these 12 hours takes place somewhere that's only yours for half a day, that you can leave when the spell fades away and you have to go back to not touching her. And, in your dream, you bring white wine, 'cause you don't see yourself tasting her lips without the sweet tang of her preferred drink. And you take pleasure in making her drink early in the morning, 'cause you're a teenager and she's a good girl, soon-to-be-bad. So you drink, and you smoke, so that she'll think of you when she smells the scent of cigarette, so that she'll taste it on her tongue when she kisses you. And she kisses you, you make sure she's the one to take that first -burning- step. Even though she's nervous, even though she rolls her eyes and smiles and looks away, blushing, telling you that she won't do it, she won't kiss you first; even though she challenges you into doing it instead, looking you right in the eye with warm, intense blues that would twist your insides in a knot were you not so amused, so convinced that she'll break first. Even as she playfully insists, eyes cast aside and pink coloring her cheeks, that her resolve cannot be bent, that she's too hard-headed to give-in now that you've challenged her into kissing you first. But she still kisses you first, long minutes after she could have, were she not so adorably stubborn; she still touches her lips to yours first, 'causeyou know how to get your way, you know which strings to pull for her to come to you, even if you cheated, somehow, and kissed just below her ear after trailing the tip of your nose from the crook of her neck to under her chin, making her move her head your way. And you're gloating inside, pressing a proud grin to her lips; you would be teasing her mercifully, mocking her like the teenager that she likes in you, were you not finally kissing her, her tongue slithering between your lips in search for yours. In your dream, past and present get blurred into flashes and your breath is stolen from your lungs, and you wonder how you were once able to forget how it was, to be kissing her. How you were ever able to stop, and spend months without her lips wedged between yours. And it's slow; the first kiss is so very slow it almost feels shy but you're not nervous. It all feels too good for you not to be anything but electrified yet petrified. In your dream, she's sitting on the bed and your knees are touching, enough to feel the press all the way up your spine, but you still put your hand on her thigh 'cause it's the only move you can make that doesn't make you feel like it'll all vanish up in smoke should you move too fast. You still press your lips harder into hers, still swipe your tongue over hers, a little faster, a little hungrier, 'cause she's there, she's right there and she's kissing you back, pulling away long enough to change the slant of her mouth before chasing after your lips again. And you're not scared of moving anymore. You're scared you won't be able to stop. You exhale as she bites your lip, soft and subtle, and you realize your hand is at the nape of her neck, fingertips lost in silky strands. You didn't realize your hand snaked its way there and it makes you break the kiss, 'cause this is a little too much, too fast. Your heart is racing, your cheeks are burning and you watch her face with delight as her eyes slowly flutter open, blue made darker and lips made redder. She's so pretty, so enticing, you just want to kiss her again, and you almost do but then you don't, you laugh instead, and she frowns for a second, confused, just before she smiles, and it's decadent; this gorgeous girl staring at you, the perfect picture of temptation. There's still a spark of puzzlement twinkling in the silver of blue swallowed up by blown pupils as she looks at you, but she grins, raises an eyebrow and asks a falsely-offended "What?!" And, in your dream, you commit this image to your memory, 'cause you think that, right this moment, she might be the most beautiful girl you have ever seen.
  2. What was it like? strange, exciting, awkward? All three for me I think. I’d never touched another woman until I had sex with my first girlfriend. Both naked we laid down together and after some kissing my hand moved between her legs. When touching yourself you’re focussed on the sensations it generates but when touching her I was not only aware of her reaction but also a picture of what I was touching. I moved over the contours of her protruding lips, so soft and smooth. My thumb resting against her trimmed pubes. And when I used a finger to part her lips I was surprised how wet she was. Her clit felt so petite and delicate. At some point I remember gently sliding one then two fingers into her. At the time it freaked me at little. Never thought I’d actually do that. Good memories.
  3. I've never actually been with a girl, but it's almost all I can think about! I have so many fantasies of public hook ups, oral sex, and the such. Is this only me? I need somebody to teach me/help me learn, or even just to talk to!
  4. Hi everyone, This is the first time I have ever come somewhere like this! Im 42, look and feel younger and really, really want to find a safe way to know if my fantasies are what I want in my reality. I promised myself many years ago that I will have an experience with another woman but it just hasn't happened. OH knows, he is the only person I have ever told and of course he thinks it's s huge turn on and would live to be part of it. I don't know how I feel about thatwould like the reassurance of his company, but this is something I want for me. I have no desire to see him with another woman, I would enjoy having him watch me though. I have no idea how to meet someone. I confess I don't want a full emotional attachment because I don't want my relationship to suffer or be compromised in any way. I just want to experience sex with a woman. Maybe go that far, I don't know! Is this too much to ask of him and of the woman in my imagination? I really feel this is something to take gently, something I want and would live to have him see. I would enjoy it turning him on, but it has to be at my pace. Thoughts? X
  5. Wow...where to start. It's been an emotional rollercoaster ever since my bff and I decided to make this happen. If you haven't been following my story, my blogs will give you some back story if your confused. I've been wanting this for a long time, so this is huge for me. So anyway...here goes... So you all know my best friend and I planned this a couple months ago or so. She would come here to VA(she lives in PA) and she would spend 5 days here, one of those days we would spend at a hotel together. So this past Friday I drove and picked her up, we came back to VA the same day. The first night my brother hung with us. We had some drinks, conversated and had a great time socializing. The next day Saturday we went to my dads house and had dinner, drinks and games with him and his wife and all my siblings. That night all my siblings came back to my house where we continued the party with more drinking and talking. All the while my mind is overcome with excitement and nervousness about THE DAY...the next day, Sunday. We woke up Sunday, it was a beautiful day, the sun was shining. We packed our overnight bags, showered and then went to the store and stocked up on champagne, wine, water and snacks to bring with us to the hotel. I said goodbye to my husband and we headed out. The hotel is about 30 mins away from my house in a very charming Old Towne looking part of the city. We pull up to the hotel just in time for check in. The valet takes the car, and we load our bags for the bellboy to take and make our way in to check in. We check in, get our room keys and head up. The room was beautiful, I'd never been in a single bed room there before, so it was new to me too. She was in love with it. We immediately start taking pictures and unpacking our stuff. After that, first order of business was to get lunch and coffee. We went to one of my favorite Belgian cafes and talked. After our lunch, we decided to head to an H&M across the street to get some shopping in. We walked over, sun shining, took our time, tried on outfits, and left with a couple of items. We decided to take our bags back to the hotel room and have a drink before walking over to the harbor to look and the water and the boats. We got a little buzz going and started walking over. I realized I had never heard her story about how she realized she was bisexual and her own journey with this....when she started getting into women, I had just had a baby and was living 4 hours away..so we just had never talked about that. So we went and sat down by the water which had a beautiful view of the bridge and city across the water and both told eachother our stories of self discovery. Oddly enough our stories were similiar. In that moment I felt like I was getting to know her all over again. I've known her for so long, but since we live so far away from eachother, there were just so many things we never got to say and talk about it. It was a wonderful bonding moment. After much talking and taking pictures, we decided to head back to the hotel for more drinking, get dolled up and then go for dinner. As we walked we talked about what we felt this experience would do for our friendship. She told me she was worried that what if we do this and we start to get feelings for eachother. We both knew it was a possibility, but we are pretty level headed logical girls, and we knew that more then anything it would only strengthen our friendship and be a beautiful experience to share together. We got back to the hotel room and started drinking champagne and just sat and talked about various things. Our goals in life, our growth as people over the years. I was so happy how well she and her husband have been doing...they've had a tough time, and she's had a tough unconventional life, but things are getting better. We started getting more and more buzzed and giggly. I sat on the bed and I talked to her as she stood infront of me. She was getting ready to walk over to grab her glass, but I grabbed her arm and said "I think we should consumate our decision by having alittle make out session". She got a devilish grin on her face and pushed me back on the bed, climbed ontop of me and we started making out. My hands exploring her body alittle. It felt so amazing and hot. After a couple minutes, we giggled and realized oh my god it was getting late and needed to start getting ready for dinner. So after we made out, I think we both felt even better and relaxed about the night to come. We tried on outfits and got dressed, did our make up and took some hot selfies of us kissing. I will be looking at those pictures for a long time to come lol... We went to dinner, stopping along the way to listen to and make a quick conversation with a musician playing music on the sidewalk. Went to dinner, ate, had a delicious margarita and then it was time to head back to the hotel for the night. Now to be honest, I don't even completely remember HOW we started, it all was just a blur of excitment. We had the tv on and before I knew it I was ontop of her on the bed. We were making out passionately as I soaked in every second. Next thing I know our clothes are off, and all we had on was our little thongs. Im still ontop kissing her, then eagerly made my way to her breasts. I loved them. Just having them in my mouth and feeling her nipple piercings on my tongue just felt so sexy. She took off her underwear and I took mine off. I made my way down to her pussy, and OH MY GOD, if there was any such thing as a perfect pussy...she has it. Just everything about it was beautiful. Soft, shaved, plump lips, with her little hood piercing. Soon as my mouth made contact with her, I just knew I could live down there forever. Just crazy beautiful. She was moaning alot which was the best thing I've ever heard. Even her moans were perfect, lol. She got ontop of me after awhile and started sucking on my breasts, and made her way down on me. Of course by then I'm moaning and in heaven enjoying every moment. She started fingering me alittle, and then spent some more time down there before coming up ontop of me to make out some more. All of a sudden I hear her ask "what gets you off?" I said "this", and laughed. Then asked her what gets her off, of which she smiled a little and said "everything". We kept at it for awhile longer as she fingered me some more, then needed a break. We drank some gatorade and she layed next to me naked. Then we both just put our pj tops on with our thongs. At that point I was already craving her body again, so after we layed down for a bit and started talking, I sat ontop of her and we continued to talk. I needed to taste her again, to kiss her, to feel her breasts in my mouth again. So I smiled and said "I'm not trying to have sex with you again, I just want to do this", and I leaned down and started kissing her again. We started kissing passionately again, and I pulled her shirt down just enough to suck on her breasts again. She started moaning again and pulled her panties down. So I went back down and she was wet. She tasted so good. At this point I hadn't fingered her yet, so I slowly put a finger in paying attention to her response. She moaned and I started fingering her gently. She took my hand and made me finger her deeper and faster. I don't even remember how the transition happened, but at some point we started tribbing. I was on top, and it was no effort at all. I'd never done that before, but it came so naturally. After that it was just more kissing, fingering and more everything until we finally tired ourselves out. We put our shirts back on and layed next to eachother. I got my phone and lifted it up and said "after sex selfie!" and took a picture as we laughed. We put the tv on and fell asleep. The next morning we were tired, but felt amazing. We wanted to make sure we had time to get breakfast before check out. So we chatted and got ready once we were finally able to drag ourselves out of bed. Walked to another favorite place of mine, occasionally laughing as we rehashed some of the details from the night before. We ate, went back to the hotel to pack and check out. It was just an incredible time. Monday and Tuesday we kind of just spent at my house, drinking wine, talking more. We cuddled for a bit watching tv one night. I kissed her spontaneously one night as we ate dinner on the couch which just made her smile and she put her thai food down as she said "screw the thai, now I'm distracted" and leaned in and kissed me back as she said "awe you are too adorable". I can't accurately describe what a magical time we had. It couldn't have been any more perfect. Yesterday I had to drive her back, and we certainly made the most of the night, because I was staying over before coming back today. We unfortunetly didn't get to have sex again...just too many people around, BUT we did get friends together, got drinks at the casino in PA before heading to a strip club. I've mentioned before she used to be a stripper for a couple years, so we get there and all start drinking and having a good time. After being there awhile, a friend of ours wanted to go on stage and dance and convinced her to do it too! She was nervous, and I'd never seen her dance before. But OH MY GOD she rocked that sh*t! I was shocked at how good she was. I loved getting to see her naked body again. So sexy and it turned me on even more, I really wanted to have her again at that moment lol. It was seriously the best way to wrap up an AMAZING week. We both said how happy we were and we felt so much closer and that it was an awesome experience for us both. I'm still in a daze from it all, and I'm so happy. For the first time I was really sad to part ways with her. I've done it a million times after visits, but this time it was different. It was hard to leave her. I will forever feel blessed to have had the opportunity to have such an amazing, sexy, fun experience with such an amazing person.
  6. I noticed there was a thread on what people want from sex. Many said foreplay. So the question is what more do you want from foreplay? Also will probably have sex for the first time with anyone when my gf comes and visits from overseas. Its also her first time. I want to make sure it is the perfect experience for her. We would have known each other for 9 months then. What did u wish u had more of in your first time or first time with a woman? The rest below was what my idea of foreplay is from what ive read online and what females like. Since ive never had sex with male/female this is theoretical knowledge i hope to apply in 3 months when my gf comes over. It will be the first time for both of us. We have had phone and online sex but not met yet. She likes and responds to what i say on the phone. I dont know if this belongs in this sectiom or the fantasy thread. It is what i hope to make the first time.for her. ********* We have had phone sex, online sex etc in our 6 month relationship but i feel like real life might be a bit different. We are both from sheltered south asian families so this will be our first everything together including first kiss as embarrassing as it sounds. I am of indian Hindu background and she is of bangladeshi Muslim.background but lived in UK all her life. . Its been hard to come to terms with our sexual orientations. I never thought i would explore this side till i met her. In our 6 months so far we have not had any f issues. Our main issues will be intolerance and homophobia from the outside world. She is coming at a time when i have a work placement in a rural area away from.my family and friends so we can just be together and forget the outside world. Even when my family later encouraged to find a bf i never found someone i had enough emotional connection with to kiss. The guys i met online never had that emotional connection i have with my gf. I am hoping our first time to be a day together. As in the experience should last for a day at least. She asked me what lingerie i like for her so i told her the type and colour with garters so will request her to wear it on that day. I feel like i dont want to rush things so my idea of foreplay is going to be long. 1. Spend a day doing fun and adventurous activities she likes such as hiking and in between getting time for kissing. 2. First kiss as the sun sets on the beach and the waves gently caress our partially naked legs. Then going for a long walk along the beach while holding hands and caressing each other. 3. Candlelight dinner by the beach. Plus use of food as a tool to enhance intimacy. Whipped cream, melted chocolate, blindfolding her while she guesses the exotic fruits i eat off her body. https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/gmp2736/food-sex/&ved=2ahUKEwjP0fv2luDYAhXHULwKHdICAoAQFjADegQIDxAB&usg=AOvVaw0Ss4LbINrd7Jwe_aqS9Js4&cf=1 4. Then heading to our romantically set out beach cabin with candlelight, rose petals and her favourite flowers. Her favourite flowers and music playing. She likes the song "love is in the air" and symphony. Or boyz2men "i'll make love to you." So hoping to slow dance while kissing her neck. We plan to go to these rainbow dance classes together where same sex couples and others can dance. I want to be able to do those dipping kisses. 5. Kissing and caressing her entire body from.top to toe while she is clothed. Undressing her bit by bit and kissing the freshly exposed skin from her upper chest, shoulders, cleavage, upper arms, arm pits and abdomen. Unhooking her bra then caressing/kissing her back. Taking a strap off an arm caressing/kissing the arm then doing the same on the other side. Likewise she can do the same to me. 6. Showering together so we can soap each other and kiss under the water 7. Or being in a bathtub together with rose petals in the water surrounded by candlelight. Feeding each other fruits and champagne. Telling her how lucky i am to know her and sharing poems we have written to each other over the 9 months. 7.5 with the skin being the largest sex organ with number of nerve endings ot definitely needs focus. Like smooth satin gliding over surface i will touch her gently and slowly with the tip of my middle finger over her shoulders, jaw, cheekbones, neck, arm, legs, feet, buttock, back of knees and sides. Then would run my fingertips over her body in wavy strokes. Using the heel of my palm i would use gliding and long strokes all over her body to relax her and more responsive. 8. A whole body massage from her feet, ankles, soles of her foot up her legs while using her favourite massage oil. Possibly also a feather or rose petal. Stroking and caressing her legs and feet. I feel like feet often get neglected and should be given extra attention. Then going from her fingers, up her hands and arms. Before i massage her scalp, face, neck, shoulders and back. At the end would be breast, nipples, knee, inner thighs and vaginal/clitoral massage with her permission. Hopefully i can help her have a few orgasms before we even start oral. On the phone when i talk about kissing/nibbling/sucking body parts she does orgasm. https://www.livestrong.com/article/35692-give-sensual-full-body-massage/ https://consciouslifenews.com/bring-woman-orgasm-tantric-clitoral-massage/11123208/ https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DgWZ2hBNE3W8&ved=2ahUKEwjdvK_HouDYAhWMi5QKHdSUD6wQFjAGegQICRAB&usg=AOvVaw0g1Ri4fzz_iUMAoYkQ8w0e Side effect of long distance relationships you end up having a good imagination and doing a lot of research while u are away from the person. The following parts are inspires from betterloverseminar a subcontinental sex ed column. 8. Whole body foreplay - running my fingers through her hair, kissing her forehead, eyebrows, eyes, cheeks, jawline, caressing her shoulders, fondling her ear lobes caressing her neck, stroking sides of arms, stroking back, fondling her buttocks, kissing her abdomen, stroking her inner thighs, nibbling her calves, licking and kissing the back of her knees, nibbling back of her neck, licking her armpits, sucking her ear lobes, nibbling undersides of her breasts, then covering her back with soft kisses and nibbling. Contrasting hot and cold sensations by first having something hot then kissing her then having an ice cube in my mouth for fee seconds then kissing her. Then to kiss her lips. But to gently move any hair out of her face so i can see all of her face. Holding her head and neck in my hands while kissing. Then when kissing would caress her face, up and down her back, her side,with fingers through her hair, her ear lobes, thighs and her arms, Then would hold her waist tight while kissing her mouth. https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://stylesatlife.com/articles/different-types-of-kisses/&ved=0ahUKEwjy0vX2sODYAhVFlJQKHcg5BB8QFghGMAQ&usg=AOvVaw1zU36oYWMCwolfk0il7J1M breasts and her vulva at the end. Erogenous zones including the lesser known ones. Making sure to kiss, nibble, lick areas as appropriate. https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/the-lesser-known-erogenous-zones-and-how-to-find-them-10419267.html&ved=0ahUKEwj47rzeseDYAhUEE7wKHaivCssQFggyMAI&usg=AOvVaw2lFaSgHgGu80kwnavu0AlY 9. Focusing on the breasts From the base of the breast i plan to kiss, nibble and lick till i complete a circular round. Then to go up an inch higher and do the same in circular motions up to the areola to increase anticipation which can be a turn on. Then i would kiss the circular patch of the areola with the tip of my tongue. Finally would lick the nipple then lightly blow on it causing contrasting sensations of heat/moisture and then cooling sensation. Then would lower my mouth to cover her nipples with the moist warmth of the mouth with my tongue flicking around it internally. While taking the nipple in my mouth would lick, suck and use ny tongue around it while kneading her breast. Then would lick honey off from all over her breast with the flat of my tongue. While my mouth is on her breast i would gently squeeze one hand and fondle the breast with the other hand. Making sure i get feedback and letting her know how much i enjoy it. Not missing the areas between, under and around the breast. 10. Oral I will let her know im hungry and hoping for a meal only she can provide me.. Following a path kissing, licking, nuzzling down from her breasts, abdomen, knees, inner thighs etx Would want to kiss, nibble with my lips and lick my way from her inner thighs to her vulva Would then kiss and lick the area around the vulva. Then lick from the bottom of her vagina to the clitoris. Licking the outer lips with my tongue then nibbling. Then would move my tongue to lick her inner lips then the opening of her vagina circling around it, inserting my tongue inside moving it up, down and around. Then follow with a finger or 2. After she is fully aroused would lick her clitoris. Licking the underside of the clitoris and then the sides before direct stimulation on the clitoral hood when she is fully aroused. I will have my mouth on her vulva and then flick by her clitoris every 10 seconds. Once aroused i will suck her clitoris into my mouth and then rapidly flick it with my tongue internally. Going slowly with the speed of it. I will let her know how much i love giving her oral, there is no hurry and how much i want to enjoy each moment and how much i love the aroma and taste of her & ask for feedback regarding whether it is too intense or where she wants me to be. 11. Fingers Trim fingertips gently teasing from the vulva, to the inner thighs, her pubis to the perineum(area between vagina to anus) Would probably need decent amount of lubrication as would she. You can never have too much lubrication. Oral sex and insertion of 2 fingers etc Mixture of oral and fingers. 12. Tribbing and scissoring if she is ok with it and will maybe leave other fancy positions, any toys ot strap on etc to future love sessions if she is interested https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://sex.sofeminine.co.uk/relationships/album961435/lesbian-kama-sutra-100-sex-positions-for-women-0.html&ved=2ahUKEwj0kIfSreDYAhUMgbwKHaqoB0wQFjAAegQIEBAB&usg=AOvVaw2V4bGgR55X1jL81CiB3uXZ 13. Cuddles and holding her after and telling her what she means to me and how lucky i am to know her and to have her be my soulmate in life 14.. Breakfast in bed with use of food in a sensual way like above. I guess it may seem like im putting pressure on myself but i want her to have a magical time. Apart from myself and my ideas i dont have much in the way of experience to offer her. But i do have a lot of enthusiasm. If there are any romantic movie sterotypes ive forgotten please let me know. My gf is a romantic like me so we're both into cheesy activities. I will bring up these ideas with her but i want some elements to be a surprise. My question is what more you would have liked in foreplay for your first time? And also want to give hope to the long distance couples out there. People say it wont work but if you have love, commitment and a pathway for your relationship no distance can create distanve between 2 hearts. I never thought living in Australia i would fall in love with a british girl with a hot accent who would love me enough to think about moving permanently but i have. My gf is aware of me posting stuff online about our relationship and she is ok with it. Any other romantic suggestions are welcome. Cant discuss this with too many of my friends.
  7. My gf lives in the UK and im from Australia. We have had phone sex, online sex etc in our 6 month relationship but i feel like real life might be a bit different. We are both from sheltered south asian families so this will be our first everything together including first kiss as embarrassing as it sounds. I am of Hindu background and she is of Muslim.background but lived in UK all her life. . Its been hard to come to terms with our sexual orientations. I never thought i would explore this side till i met her. In our 6 months so far we have not had any issues. Our main issues will be intolerance and homophobia from the outside world. She is coming at a time when i have a work placement in a rural area away from.my family and friends so we can just be together and forget the outside world. Even when my family later encouraged to find a bf i never found someone i had enough emotional connection with to kiss. The guys i met online never had that emotional connection i have with my gf. I am hoping our first time to be a day together. As in the experience should last for a day at least. She asked me what lingerie i like for her so i told her the type and colour with garters so will request her to wear it on that day. I feel like i dont want to rush things so my idea of foreplay is going to be long. 1. Spend a day doing fun and adventurous activities she likes such as hiking and in between getting time for kissing. 2. First kiss as the sun sets on the beach and the waves gently caress our partially naked legs. Then going for a long walk along the beach while holding hands and caressing each other. 3. Candlelight dinner by the beach. Plus use of food as a tool to enhance intimacy. Whipped cream, melted chocolate, blindfolding her while she guesses the exotic fruits i eat off her body. https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/gmp2736/food-sex/&ved=2ahUKEwjP0fv2luDYAhXHULwKHdICAoAQFjADegQIDxAB&usg=AOvVaw0Ss4LbINrd7Jwe_aqS9Js4&cf=1 4. Then heading to our romantically set out beach cabin with candlelight, rose petals and her favourite flowers. Her favourite flowers and music playing. She likes the song "love is in the air" and symphony. Or boyz2men "i'll make love to you." So hoping to slow dance while kissing her neck. We plan to go to these rainbow dance classes together where same sex couples and others can dance. I want to be able to do those dipping kisses. 5. Kissing and caressing her entire body from.top to toe while she is clothed. Undressing her bit by bit and kissing the freshly exposed skin from her upper chest, shoulders, cleavage, upper arms, arm pits and abdomen. Unhooking her bra then caressing/kissing her back. Taking a strap off an arm caressing/kissing the arm then doing the same on the other side. Likewise she can do the same to me. 6. Showering together so we can soap each other and kiss under the water 7. Or being in a bathtub together with rose petals in the water surrounded by candlelight. Feeding each other fruits and champagne. Telling her how lucky i am to know her and sharing poems we have written to each other over the 9 months. 7.5 with the skin being the largest sex organ with number of nerve endings ot definitely needs focus. Like smooth satin gliding over surface i will touch her gently and slowly with the tip of my middle finger over her shoulders, jaw, cheekbones, neck, arm, legs, feet, buttock, back of knees and sides. Then would run my fingertips over her body in wavy strokes. Using the heel of my palm i would use gliding and long strokes all over her body to relax her and more responsive. 8. A whole body massage from her feet, ankles, soles of her foot up her legs while using her favourite massage oil. Possibly also a feather or rose petal. Stroking and caressing her legs and feet. I feel like feet often get neglected and should be given extra attention. Then going from her fingers, up her hands and arms. Before i massage her scalp, face, neck, shoulders and back. At the end would be breast, nipples, knee, inner thighs and vaginal/clitoral massage with her permission. Hopefully i can help her have a few orgasms before we even start oral. On the phone when i talk about kissing/nibbling/sucking body parts she does orgasm. https://www.livestrong.com/article/35692-give-sensual-full-body-massage/ https://consciouslifenews.com/bring-woman-orgasm-tantric-clitoral-massage/11123208/ https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DgWZ2hBNE3W8&ved=2ahUKEwjdvK_HouDYAhWMi5QKHdSUD6wQFjAGegQICRAB&usg=AOvVaw0g1Ri4fzz_iUMAoYkQ8w0e Side effect of long distance relationships you end up having a good imagination and doing a lot of research while u are away from the person. The following parts are inspires from betterloverseminar a subcontinental sex ed column. 8. Whole body foreplay - running my fingers through her hair, kissing her forehead, eyebrows, eyes, cheeks, jawline, caressing her shoulders, fondling her ear lobes caressing her neck, stroking sides of arms, stroking back, fondling her buttocks, kissing her abdomen, stroking her inner thighs, nibbling her calves, licking and kissing the back of her knees, nibbling back of her neck, licking her armpits, sucking her ear lobes, nibbling undersides of her breasts, then covering her back with soft kisses and nibbling. Contrasting hot and cold sensations by first having something hot then kissing her then having an ice cube in my mouth for fee seconds then kissing her. Then to kiss her lips. But to gently move any hair out of her face so i can see all of her face. Holding her head and neck in my hands while kissing. Then when kissing would caress her face, up and down her back, her side,with fingers through her hair, her ear lobes, thighs and her arms, Then would hold her waist tight while kissing her mouth. https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://stylesatlife.com/articles/different-types-of-kisses/&ved=0ahUKEwjy0vX2sODYAhVFlJQKHcg5BB8QFghGMAQ&usg=AOvVaw1zU36oYWMCwolfk0il7J1M breasts and her vulva at the end. Erogenous zones including the lesser known ones. Making sure to kiss, nibble, lick areas as appropriate. https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/the-lesser-known-erogenous-zones-and-how-to-find-them-10419267.html&ved=0ahUKEwj47rzeseDYAhUEE7wKHaivCssQFggyMAI&usg=AOvVaw2lFaSgHgGu80kwnavu0AlY 9. Focusing on the breasts From the base of the breast i plan to kiss, nibble and lick till i complete a circular round. Then to go up an inch higher and do the same in circular motions up to the areola to increase anticipation which can be a turn on. Then i would kiss the circular patch of the areola with the tip of my tongue. Finally would lick the nipple then lightly blow on it causing contrasting sensations of heat/moisture and then cooling sensation. Then would lower my mouth to cover her nipples with the moist warmth of the mouth with my tongue flicking around it internally. While taking the nipple in my mouth would lick, suck and use ny tongue around it while kneading her breast. Then would lick honey off from all over her breast with the flat of my tongue. While my mouth is on her breast i would gently squeeze one hand and fondle the breast with the other hand. Making sure i get feedback and letting her know how much i enjoy it. Not missing the areas between, under and around the breast. 10. Oral I will let her know im hungry and hoping for a meal only she can provide me.. Following a path kissing, licking, nuzzling down from her breasts, abdomen, knees, inner thighs etx Would want to kiss, nibble with my lips and lick my way from her inner thighs to her vulva Would then kiss and lick the area around the vulva. Then lick from the bottom of her vagina to the clitoris. Licking the outer lips with my tongue then nibbling. Then would move my tongue to lick her inner lips then the opening of her vagina circling around it, inserting my tongue inside moving it up, down and around. Then follow with a finger or 2. After she is fully aroused would lick her clitoris. Licking the underside of the clitoris and then the sides before direct stimulation on the clitoral hood when she is fully aroused. I will have my mouth on her vulva and then flick by her clitoris every 10 seconds. Once aroused i will suck her clitoris into my mouth and then rapidly flick it with my tongue internally. Going slowly with the speed of it. I will let her know how much i love giving her oral, there is no hurry and how much i want to enjoy each moment and how much i love the aroma and taste of her & ask for feedback regarding whether it is too intense or where she wants me to be. 11. Fingers Trim fingertips gently teasing from the vulva, to the inner thighs, her pubis to the perineum(area between vagina to anus) Would probably need decent amount of lubrication as would she. You can never have too much lubrication. Oral sex and insertion of 2 fingers etc Mixture of oral and fingers. 12. Tribbing and scissoring if she is ok with it and will maybe leave other fancy positions, any toys ot strap on etc to future love sessions if she is interested https://www.google.com.au/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://sex.sofeminine.co.uk/relationships/album961435/lesbian-kama-sutra-100-sex-positions-for-women-0.html&ved=2ahUKEwj0kIfSreDYAhUMgbwKHaqoB0wQFjAAegQIEBAB&usg=AOvVaw2V4bGgR55X1jL81CiB3uXZ 13. Cuddles and holding her after and telling her what she means to me and how lucky i am to know her and to have her be my soulmate in life 14.. Breakfast in bed with use of food in a sensual way like above. I guess it may seem like im putting pressure on myself but i want her to have a magical time. Apart from myself and my ideas i dont have much in the way of experience to offer her. But i do have a lot of enthusiasm. If there are any romantic movie sterotypes ive forgotten please let me know. My gf is a romantic like me so we're both into cheesy activities. I will bring up these ideas with her but i want some elements to be a surprise. My question is what more you would have liked in foreplay for your first time? And also want to give hope to the long distance couples out there. People say it wont work but if you have love, commitment and a pathway for your relationship no distance can create distanve between 2 hearts. I never thought living in Australia i would fall in love with a british girl with a hot accent who would love me enough to think about moving permanently but i have. My gf is aware of me posting stuff online about our relationship and she is ok with it. Any other romantic suggestions are welcome. Cant discuss this with too many of my friends.
  8. Hey Ya'll Ok, so I've been struggling with accepting this. I imagine that what I have to say isn't unique but I definitely need some help. I'm from SF, I'm active in church, 22, musician....and I'm bi, there I said it. No surprises here considering I'm on shybi. I just wanted to get suggestions, advice, tips, a little tlc because I'm new to all of this. I sort of separated my questions so you can respond to what you wish. Acceptance/Coming out So far I've only come out to 3 of my friends whom all identify as either straight or questioning asexuals. All 3 of them were so cool about it and don't treat me any differently, it's so refreshing. I'd like to come out to my family but as much as I know they love me, I know even my attraction with no action would be wrong to them. They'd see me as a completely different person and I don't know if I can handle that. Advice for Christian bi's growing up in Christian families? I have a group of friends who are a mixed bunch in race, sexuality, gender and I know they wouldn't care much. I'm afraid that my reputation as a Christian would now somehow be tainted by the fact that I'm attracted to more than just men. The thought terrifies me of overwhelming rejection, I've seen every gay, or lesbian family member be in one way or another ostracized or made fun of. I literally just want to be the same me and date whomever I'm attracted to. Why the heck is that so wrong? Dating: Ok, now for the good stuff lol. I've never dated, I'm a virgin, never even had my first kiss. I'm talking to a really awesome person on okcupid and have been getting a lot of mutual likes from other women as well. More for what I can say in real life (or I'm just oblivious?) I really want to ask this girl out but one, I'm terrified. So, help? My fears and concerns are this; What if I'm outed by someone that I know while on a date, is it fair to the other person to date them when you're not completely out, what if there's no physical attraction upon meeting each other (ahhh), what if she's turned off by my inexperience, what are some good first date ideas, what are some good rules of thumb for dating women, how do you know if a girl is into you? First kiss tips? These are all questions that I'd ask my siblings, since they don't know about this shybi part of me, well I guess ya'll are my tentative shybi siblings. So please teach me your ways lol. That's all for now, lol send help, Baby bi signing out -UnicornKween
  9. Lost my girl virginity to the last chick I had met a drive-in movie theater. We arranged to meet at a hotel room about 1.5 hours away from me (half-way to each other). I haven't booked a hotel room by myself in over 15 years and I had been so sheltered, that my ex-husband did all the driving out-of-town. Driving from Palm Springs to the Inland Empire is very different. Night and day. From dry, barren desert to a lovely, lush span of swaying green landscape amid the chaos of traffic-jammed highways. I spend the entire day running around, somewhat anxious, yet determined. My job is to leave the desert and check into the room as soon as possible, but various appointments and errands keep my lagging behind. My last errand is running into the mall and finding Spencer's to buy a vibrator. Out of the many options, I settle on something called a "mini-rabbit." It's for her. Heading to the cashier, she glances at me and jumps in delight, "Ohhh, you got a good one!" and rings me up. I leave quickly, eager to get on my way, goodie bag in hand, it's contents shielded by a thick white cellophane. I leave the desert later than expected, the west-bound traffic clogged with others rushing home from work. She calls and texts, asking me if I'd like her to bring some tequila and I leave those details up to her. I get to the hotel quicker than I had anticipated; checking in, the young man at the front desk is pleasant and flirts with me. Having been married for over a decade and now into women, it takes me aback when a man pays me attention in that manner. I park my car, gather my belongings and head to the second floor and room #212. Opening the door, I find that I have a balcony view of the atrium. I've been to this very hotel many times with my ex, but have never been given this type of room before and opening the sliding glass door, my view is of the vast lobby and the hustle and bustle of the bar and restaurant, lit up in bright lights. For the first time in memory, I go to the ice machine alone. This was my ex-husband's job for the past 15 years: I'd get the hotel room ready by unpacking our belongings, turning on the A/C and TV, and closing the blinds. He'd get the ice bucket ready and upon his return, poor each of us a drink. Such was our routine. I'm pleased with this newfound independence which may seem trivial to some, but means worlds to me. I call my ex via FaceTime, he's ecstatic and takes a tour of the room with me. A short six months ago, I would have never imagined a scenario like this. Twenty minutes later, having stopped at the store for tequila, soft drinks, and snacks, she knocks on the door. Although I've seen her recently, as she strides through the room, I'm a little shy to touch her. She takes on the role of the former man in my life, making us drinks. We say "Cheers!" and clink glasses. Sitting at the desk facing away from me, I rub her shoulders and kiss her neck. Eventually we lie down and turn on the TV to talk. She doesn't want to rush, but we end up getting physically rather quickly. I kiss her, holding her face in my hands. I move her hair and kiss her neck softly and gently. She moans as I work my way up to her ear as I trace circles around her cleavage with my fingertips. Pulling down her bra, I massage her breasts and feel her erect nipples in between my fingertips. She's very pretty; all of 5'2" and guessing about 120 pounds, I find myself a little insecure when I'm reminded how flat her stomach is. She's feminine with layered jet black hair. Her tanned skin a healthy glow as the light bounces off her c-cup breasts. Olive shaped eyes clad with masacara and eyeliner stare down down at me as I kiss her breasts and around her nipples, waiting to hear rhythmic moan before I take them in my mouth to lick and suck on them. She's a mix of aggression, dominance, and hesistancy. She takes charge when it comes to me, but can't articulate what she wants when it comes to herself. She peels off all of her clothes and I do the same.
  10. I thought it might be fun to write a continuing story together. Each writer follows up the previous to continue the story. If you all like the idea, let's see where it goes! "I can't love you, you know." Her eyes were cold... frigid glacial lakes... where only moments before they had burned like ice on fire. I had never felt the softness of a woman's touch... and Ana's fingers had played my body like a virtuoso stroking a much loved instrument. The heat between my legs still smoldered... the spasms barely subsiding from the tongue tickles to which Ana had subjected my dripping pussy. My nipples still felt the brutally delicious sting of her teeth nipping and teasing, and I shivered at the thought of what had come next... her perfectly manicured fingers- nails clipped short, but oh so exquisitely groomed- buried deep inside of me, working me to a frenzy as her tongue worked its salacious magic. I pulled the sheet across my nakedness, suddenly shy. I had expected a "talk." After all... we worked closely with each other... and there were still two days left in this conference which had so conveniently thrown us together. I had only just come to terms with my attraction to her... and now my fantasy had come true. But this? How could she have been so needy... so overwhelming... and then suddenly turned so cold? I reached my hand to touch her face... and she was suddenly soft again. Her eyes closed... and she sighed as if all the weight of the world rested on her fragile shoulders. I leaned in... the sheet still pulled over my aching body... and softly kissed her cheek. I realized then that this time it was my eyes that were beginning to blaze with the same fire that had so recently consumed this lovely delicate girl.
  11. So I'm a curious about ..well... sex duh. but more then what it feels like, its how do first timers like me find someone willing to give it a go thats my problem.
  12. Would you prefer to lose your girlginity with an experienced woman or with someone having sex with a woman for the first time too?
  13. Over the weekend, my fiancee and I went to a strip club for the first time. It wasn't a new experience for him (well going with a female was, but not the strip club experience itself). For me, it was the first time ever. It was my idea to go. When we first got there, I was really uncomfortable, just not really sure what to make of it all. After a few drinks, I started to loosen up a bit. He kept insisting that I should get a dance to get the full experience. I wasn't ready until about 5 drinks in and when it was almost the end of the night. One of the dancers had come over and was talking to us checking in to see how our night was going and as she was leaving, she grazed her hand across my shoulders and that was all it took and I was ready for him to approach one of the dancers for the dance. I am really shy by nature so there was just no way I could do it lol. He was standing there talking to the one that I had noticed the most, explaining to her that it was my first time there and if she would grace me with my first dance. She told him that she could definitely take care of me and came walking over, grabbed me by the hand and pulled me to the couch at the other end of the bar. It was a little more private there. My fiancee stayed back at the table and ended up taking a bathroom break and then getting me another drink while I was getting the dance. The dancer first asked me what I was comfortable with and I explained to her that since I hadn't done anything like that before, I wasn't sure so she could just do what she does. She told me that she was taking off the remainder of her clothing (which wasn''t much since it was a nude club) and that I was going to get one of her best dances. She started dancing and I didn't think anything of it aside from enjoying it until I feel her grab my hands and put them on her boobs and hear her telling me that touching is sometimes encouraged. Then I felt her hands on my boobs and she made a comment about how mine are bigger than hers. We ended up joking about it when I told her oh it's mostly the bra and she laughed and said hers is the same way under her clothes lol. She seemed to get really close, so close that I could have easily done what I was wanting to by that time. Once the dance was done, she wanted to do like a double high five and made the comment that we did good lol. She never even asked for the money for the dance so I offered it up before walking away. The fiancee thinks that she may have had some interest because of the way things went. Either way, it was a blast! It actually cleared up a lot of my curiousity and my fiancee said that since then, it's like a weight has been lifted off me and my confidence level seems higher now. It definitely was something that has me wanting to go back just to get out and have some fun. And my fiancee seemed to really like the after effect lol. I halfway expected him to be looking at all the women and me getting a little irritated with it but it turned out that he hardly ever took his eyes off of me, he just watched how I reacted to everything. And I wasn't phased at all with them hanging on him when they did. Definitely a fun experience that I am so glad I decided to have!
  14. Last year, close to the end of summer I believe, I finally opened up and admitted to my husband that I wanted to try being with a woman. There is, naturally, a lot of leading up to and back forth about that particular conversation. Since all that conversation ultimately lead to his being okay with the idea of me exploring the side of me that appreciates women, I have on a couple of occasions actually put myself out there a little bit and tried to find someone. The first time I met a woman, she was looking for an emotional connection. I don't know about relationship, but she definitely wanted to spend more time getting to know one another and feeding into the emotional connection and the physical chemistry. That was fine with me, I wasn't really sure what I was looking for anyways, being my first real "try" at anything like this. Me and this girl did meet, and there was chemistry, but we did not end up "hooking up". No big deal at all. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago and I decided I was ready to try again, so I put myself out there and quickly found someone. This experience was very different from the first though. We asked each other a few basic questions, we exchanged a few pictures,and she immediately started talking about meeting, first in public but then immediately going o her place afterwards. I was a little taken aback that she was willing to move so fast, but it occurred to me the only thing I had to gauge it against was the rate at which the first girl I met wanted to move. So I want to know what you ladies think. Do you know right away if you want to sleep with someone? Do you prefer a buildup, or friendship? How easy is it for you to meet some one new and sleep with them immediately after? I know I'm reading way too much into this, but I just want to hear how other women set their expectations and get a general consensus. For full disclosure purposes I am a married woman who when reaching out, I specify that I'm looking for a married or committed equivalent individual. Someone who has a primary relationship and is happy, but maybe just looking for a little fun with someone else, which is my situation at the moment. So it's all very clear up front, which is why I'm so nervous and full of questions about how quickly things should move after establishing the important stuff.
  15. A couple of years ago, my employer sent me to a several month long training program out of state. I was set up in an apartment and away from all of my usual day-to-day responsibilities. No husband, no kids, it was like being single again. No one but myself to manage. The first day of the training, I noticed there was only one other black female in the class. During one of the breaks, I spoke to several people but made a point of introducing myself to her. She was very matter of fact and not particularly warm. At that point tho, I was just being polite, nothing else. Throughout the course of the training we became closer and closer. It started with having dinner after class, then hanging out on weekends, then staying the night at her apartment, then sharing the same bed on those sleepovers. It was a real slow gradual progression. At some point in all this, I realized I was wildly attracted to her. And, it didn't help that by week 3-4, I was horny as hell (this can not be overstated). It got so bad, my body responded whenever I was in her presence - I was wet all the damn time. She dropped some very subtle hints that she might be attracted to women but she also talked about old boyfriends and current male crushes so I was really confused. As time passed, she hinted a little more, but I wasn't sure. And, I was trying to fight against my desire. Which is really funny, because every night I fantasized about touching her. In class, I would try to avoid looking at her because I felt like she would see it in my face. I was coming unglued. After months together, we were down to 3 days left of training. After class, she texted me to ask if I would help her color and twist her hair. I said of course. Then she asked if I wanted her to pack a bag to spend the night. Uh...are you kidding me! She came to my apartment. After the hair beautification was over, we sat on the sofa "watching" TV. I was coming out of my skin. I just couldn't fight it anymore. I looked at her and asked "do you feel an attraction here?" (smooth right lol) She very simply said "yes." That was all it took. Until that moment, I had never done more than kiss a girl. But I was touching her like I've made love to women my whole life. It felt so natural to me. Maybe because I had fantasized about it for months, I don't know. We were kissing, caressing, touching and loving into the wee hours of the morning. The experience of making her climax was like a drug, I had to have it. That sweet sound replayed in my head like a looped recording. You haven't lived until you've made a woman moan "don't stop," and then cum for you. We enjoyed each other for the next 2 days. Pure. Joy. Then, the training ended and we had to return to our "real" lives. Now that's when it all started to fall apart...
  16. Here is the my first true sexual encounter with an amazing woman. I changed name & location for respect/privacy purposes. I shared it a little bit ago but didn't post it in the initial thread. Too good so I'm sharing again for those who haven't read it before: Today was the first time of my true sexual encounter with a woman. Life changing/ eye opening. Something I’ve been told is forbidden, wrong, despite what I’ve always felt into my core. Writing it down as I don’t want to forget a thing, hopefully it’s all accurate for the most part. My mind is blown, to put it simply. To intimate with a woman is indescribable. Even recalling yesterday’s events makes me want it even more. Almost like a drug, she made me feel so alive and free. Breaking the chains that bound me for decades….it’s like the song lyrics “from your lips she drew the hallelujah” by Rufus Wainwright. We meet through bi-cupid. I had my doubts in my head that I was being played yet my heart was telling me another story. It’s real. I am choosing my heart over my mind. Is what I told myself as I made the hour drive to a location to meet her. I believe my mind has steered me astray from my true self for so many years. And that is my bi-sexuality, natural attraction for woman She was already standing at the front entrance as she got there about 45 minute before I did. My heart skipped a beat as I realized she was actually standing in front of me. As seen in her pictures shared but to see her in person, to hear her speak was just amazing. Stumbling over words, shaking hands, fluctuating voice, and I’m sure my eyes got bigger (as I’m told they are a dead giveaway when excited or angered) We went into the hotel lobby, sat down as we nervously chatted deciding what to. Both of us hadn’t really eaten that much that day, so we thought about going to a restaurant close by to get something and a drink. I was trying to figure out my phone with the walking directions, just too nervous and sexual tension, to focus and get my shit straight. But on our way it was a longer walk than thought so we settled for a made-to-order little place. Came back, up the elevator, took a few tried to get the key card to work and went to the room. There was a couch and a side seat in the room so we sat down and started to have our late lunch. But I took 2 bites my wrap but just was not hungry, was too damn nervous. All the butterflies….no that’s not adequate….more like a zoo! All the shared conversations, sensations and emotions throughout the 3 months talk were like a flood in my mind and traveling throughout my body. This beautiful woman was trying to find a music station on her phone. I brought a drink with me and started sipping on it as she already knew I brought it. We’d look at each other with that gaze several times and we didn’t have to say anything, just had to cross that line. I asked her “so what do you want to do?’ as we were looking each other in the eyes with sexual tension, never felt so stronger. As she answered she needed to find a different music station “to kiss you.” After a few minutes I leaned over and kissed her softly on the lips. Eyes closed, delicate ever so heart racing. Damn her soft lips, almost never want to stop kissing them. All the while I was trying to show the trembling in my body. Then I asked her if I could give her a message. So she went over to the bed, stripped down to her bra and panties and I did the same. She laid face down. My pussy was throbbing at this point and panties so wet. I stared at her body for a moment. So beautiful she is. So I hopped on top of her subtly. The massage started with her shoulders and neck to relief any tension. Then I went from her arms and at times just grazing my fingertips along her skin. Continued her rub back deeply and more intensely when approaching her lower back. I could begin to hear her deep sighs. So as I was touching her I pulled to the side her hair and started kissing her neck. Her body so delicious, everything this about her (mind & soul), not wanting to miss an inch. The longer I kept massaging her I could sense her readiness when I got to her lower back again for the 3rd time I reached down in front, feeling her panties were wet too. Then she turned around, then it got a little blurry and crazy, overcome by it all, body shaking and ready to go….. Gently kisses turning into passionate kisses with our hands all over each other. First with the bras coming off then the panties all while kissing. Our increased heart rates and bodies raging with anticipation as the skin on skin raising the heat. We each felt each other’s wetness, we wanted each other so bad and it was quite evident by our sensations. Amazing to crave someone so deeply, to feel her from the inside it’s all-consuming. Bodies screaming, can’t take it anymore. I was on top and started to work my way south, slowly and intentionally. Kissing her chest then her supple breasts and erect nipple that could cut glass. Working myself downward to her toned stomach and navel area as I continued licking her up and down. I continued the kissing till I reach her pussy so badly wanting to be touched. I kissed the top of it and started to kiss the inner of her thigh and then her juicy wet pussy. God it was so amazing to kiss her there, doing so was making me when wetter than I knew possible. Hearing her moan was music to my ears. Still enjoying every moment of it. Licking hard, side to side quickly or sucking her clit was simply amazing all while looking into her eyes and hands in touch passionately with her breasts/stomach or gorgeous legs. I was seriously about to get off just between the act and her moans. Putting my tongue inside her and sucking her clit filled with desire fueled by her quickening breathes and louder pleasure noise. Cum, cum for me babe! I don’t know how long I was down there would have stay as long as she needed me to. Kissing her so she would know what she tastes like, like heaven. Kissing some more. Much eye contact, gazing. Squeezing and kissing of breasts. Skin on skin with a woman is amazing. Softness, sensual, mixed with emotional connection, oh my god a power keg!!! Talking dirty, “[insert my name here], you’re so WET” in her seductive voice, fuck me, fuck me now! I am screaming in my head. Quivering…. her touch, couldn’t get enough She then went down on me. She positioned herself stealth as I was unaware what was going on until I before I knew it I was sitting on her face at the head of the bed. Right now as I type this it is taking every ounce of energy not to touch myself. Her tongue on my pussy and in my vagina while looking into my eyes, good god this is so explosive & raw with sensuality, endless wetness. So much back and forth giving and receiving. The intimacy with a woman so electric as we were go were so consumed I remember when pleasuring her she kept arching her body that she moved closer and closer the end side of the bed, almost falling as we giggled a little. I loved going down one her, 3 times I think. We also 69’d, it was first time I’d ever done it. Damn, to hear get off and I’m eating her…..orgasmic!!! As I write here I need to go change my panties. Then at some point we got to scissoring. That felt amazing as we are grinding back and forth my clit getting so hard, our bodies were pressing together, so close. Swollen pussies rubbing up against each other, so wet…about to cum….fucking amazing, god what you do to me [insert her name here]! Oh this all feels so natural and right……so unbelievable awesome how 2 people come together like this….. So much happened what it seems to be fast but not really as it was close to 2 hours of bliss. Afterward I love at the end when she went down on me for the 3rd time giving me the big “O”. I’m moaning intensely, deep breathing, throbbing, hard clit….not whispering “fuck!” “Oh [insert her name here]” I was loud, no regrets, wasn’t going to contain my excitement and pleasure that [insert her name here] gave me. It was in the middle of the afternoon and guest most likely in their room. She’s just that fucking awesome. The part that made my heart smile was when she laid her head on my chest for a couple minutes after I had my explosion, heart racing. Out of breath, she kissed me so I could taste what she just did. We lay in bed for a little bit, still in amazement…. Chatted a bit more…this time much more relaxed…way more relaxed Had a few laughs and I gave her a foot massage. Her noticing my tattoos… This, this was so natural. Still don’t understand why people want to say it’s wrong. How can something this natural be wrong? Because it isn’t Walking back from using the bathroom I saw her foot and I had this urge to tickle her, as I was feeling quite playful, but was unsure if that body part was okay. But I didn’t though I got the okay next time, for I asked her I may have wasted many years missing out on the intimacy with a woman. But since I did have to wait, this woman, [insert her name here], was well worth the wait. She is perfect in every way. We got off the bed and got fully dressed. Damn I have to wear my wet panties home, didn’t think of bring an extra pair. She said “I hope I will see you again” or something to that fact. I said “I would like that,” again something to that fact. And kissed her….didn’t want to stop kissing her. It was so amazing and overwhelming I couldn’t remember every detail as I like to have liked to remember. As I was on the couch tying my shoes she asked “are you sure that was your first time with a woman?” (going all the way). I smiled and giggled saying “yes, you’re my first.” She knew I was telling the truth because we built quite a bond sharing of life stories and struggles. And said to her how much honesty meant to me and to be that way with others as she smiled back at me. Few minutes later we were in the elevator and she gave me one last kiss. Also hearing the kids that were next to the room in which we didn’t hold back in verbally expressing the bliss. We got out to the parking lot and I put my bag in the car, giving her a warm embrace goodbye. She told me to text her when I get home to make sure I got there safe. That made me smile too. When a person genuinely cares for someone they say little things like that. It’s those little things that make people feel important and loved This is my first experience, what an experience it was……to continue this journey, wherever the road may lead in this crazy life. No regrets. Never felt so alive.
  17. So there's a woman who I have been pining for for a couple months. We indirectly work together so I see her a few times a week but not for an extended period of time. I'm mostly closeted. Most people assume that I am straight because I am married to a man, and I don't really correct people unless they ask. I'm not ashamed of my sexuality, but bisexuality is complicated as you know so I don't feel like telling everyone I know and having weird judgements that I'm a "lesbian in denial" or just want to screw anything that moves. So only close friends and my husband know. I'm a very friendly person and I have a knack for setting my sights on someone to befriend and then following through quite well. This works pretty well with flirtations too. However, I always kind of panic when it gets to that point of moving in the friend zone. I set my sights on this lady because im very attracted to her but I've also caught her staring at me on more than one occasion. We now talk regularly and I invited her to get drinks with me with some work friends. She took the opportunity to give me her number. But now I'm not sure how to proceed. She is dating a guy who lives elsewhere, so I could assume she's straight. But I'm just getting a vibe that she's not. The staring, she has some mannerisms, her voice drops a little lower when she's talking to me. Basically, I'm at the crossroads of making a move soon or this could just turn into friendship which isn't the end of the world but it's not what I want from her. I don't have much experience with this except the last time this happened, the girl I had my sights on came on to me very strongly which intimidated me so I didn't follow through with anything. I don't want to be rejected or outed. But I don't want to pass anything up either. What do you ladies suggest that I do?
  18. I am in a difficult marriage, and feeling very stuck. I have had feelings for women since my early 20s (turn 40 in two months!), but I have never even kissed one! My husband an I have not had sex for nearly a year. I think exclusively of being with a woman during my "private time". I believe that I need to explore this pulsing desire to be with a woman, but have no idea how to go about that. I travel for work 2-3 times per month, and often find myself (as I am tonight), wanting to act on my desires. The problem? I have no idea how to meet someone. I welcome any ideas or comments from anyone! My deepest gratitude!
  19. I had my first real experience with the woman of my dreams that simply dropped into my lap after months of searching. She planned a wonderful day for us. It was ABSOLUTELY perfect. She gave me an address to a beautiful FL beach resort about a week and a half prior to the big day. I asked what time I should arrive, and she said 10am. My belly got butterflies. I was really going to embark on this journey. It was a done deal. I had no reservations, no second thoughts, no fear. I just finally wanted to see the beautiful spirit that I'd met a few weeks prior and had fallen in love with. I stopped and got wine the night before, and gassed up so that I could arrive on time for my date. I had a 2 hour commute, and I was NOT going to be late. I got up early, showered, shaved, and got glam for the beautiful lady I had planned to spend my day with. I hopped in my car, put on some love tunes, and made the two hour drive to the other coast. She called me when I was about 10 miles away letting me know she was there. I arrived promptly at the resort, valeted my car, and she was outside waiting for me. We gave each other a warm, calming embrace. It was our very first time seeing each other in person. She was beautiful, and just like her photos. Tall, lean, dressed comfortably but beautifully. I was in awe that she had planned this entire day for me. It's been decades since I've been treated this special............not even by my husband. Her efforts were not unnoticed. We entered the hotel and engaged in small talk as we went walked to the elevator to put my items down in the room before lunch. We entered the elevator alone. As soon as the doors closed, we embraced and I got MY FIRST KISS. My first real kiss. I had one experience over 20 years ago............I vaguely remember it. I was nothing spectacular. But this kiss was special. In my 40's at this phase of my life, this kiss was perfect. It was memorable. It was everything. A first that day, of many. We entered the room, And the door patio door was open to a beautiful ocean view. Gorgeous blue waters, the sounds of ocean breezes blowing, and the sight of pristine white sands. She did this.......FOR ME! I was so full of emotion, but I was able to contain it all. I put my items down, walked over to her and we embraced and kissed again. I walked out on the patio, taking a moment to savor every................single.............moment. Every crash of the ocean waves, and each blow of the breezes. She stepped behind me grabbing my waste and embracing me. I lay back upon her chest, savoring yet another moment. Another FIRST. I turned and gave her a kiss, and we continued to embrace as I enjoyed that moment of finally being in the same room with someone that I'd connected with so deeply on so many levels. It was beautiful. She's 5'11, I'm 5'6, which makes for wonderful embraces and kisses. It was so romantic. The room was spacious, white, bright..........allowing each of us to see and experience one another in all of our beauty and glory. She asked if I was hungry, and I was. So we decided to venture down stairs to the café for a short lunch and learn. We walked to the café and I just enjoyed the views. It was my first time at this resort, but it was huge. Immaculate. We made our way to the café, and ordered a light lunch. We talked about all sorts of things. Lunch helped me unwind, and her an opportunity to get to know me a little better. We spent about an hour and a half getting lunch. She picked up the tab for our lunch. I'm amazed yet again. Another FIRST. Excited to get to the next phased of the day. I signaled I was ready to go back to the room. And she obliged. We chatted on the way back to the room. We hit the elevator, and suddenly an army of emotions hit me. I was happy, excited, curious, and a little worried that I would be "clumsy" making the experience less than stellar. I got out of my mind for this moment, and through all caution to the winds. I was ready!!!! She opened the door, and I was drawn to the patio once more. I love the outdoors, so the view was absolutely perfect. She followed me to the patio, and embraced me once more. I turned around and we began a passionate kiss that led to so many other perfect things on this day. She was loving, and kind. Very assertive in everything she did leaving no room for questions. We kissed on the patio for what seemed an eternity. I'm sure guests nearby got quite a show lol..........It was beautiful, it was freeing, and it was REAL. ANOTHER FIRST.......... We stepped back into the room from the patio, where we kissed and stripped one another lovingly. We had music playing in the background that set the tone for things to come. Before I knew it, we were in bed. We made love for hours. We explored, we played, we kissed, we rubbed, we touched, we talked. We performed oral on one another, and I introduced toy play. We attempted to learn each others bodies. Toy play helped ensure neither of us walked away this very first time without an orgasm. We came, we talked, we napped. We shared a bottle of wine. We talked about how much the day meant to us, and how long it took to stumble upon each other. We talked about our future together (short-term and long-term). We sang, we laughed, we cracked jokes. ALL THESE FIRSTS. It was getting later, and I needed to make the two-hour drive back to my life. The boring one. The one that will get a little better because of my new partner. My new lover. She's not a "friends with benefits". That's so casual and disrespectful to me. So not the title for women of a certain age. She's my lover, and I love her. I can see me spending the rest of my life with her. She provided me with an experience that is out of an erotic novel. As we took our final embrace before I got up to shower, she asked me if it was ok if she joined me. Of COURSE I said YES!!!!!!!!!!!! It was another FIRST, and it was beautiful. We got into the shower, and she began to wash my back..........which turned me on. I could feel my juices flowing. We kissed passionately and embraced. We lathered each other and rubbed each others' bodies. She stepped underneath the shower and we kissed romantically. I just knew I was going to be late getting home............but I made it out alive lol.......... It was the last beautiful experience and an the of a beautiful day. It was also the first of many more. Someone took the time to plan a day like this for me. I'm still amazed. Basking in the glow of it. Replaying so many moments. My first was romantic, and thoughtful. I'll never forget it. I'm in love! Wishing all of you that haven't had your first get all that you deserve and more. Best Wishes!
  20. Went out with my friend today for breakfast, and walked on the boardwalk on the beach after. We laughed. She touched my arm. I thought nothing of it. Then again....again... she let her hand linger. I let myself question. We talked and laughed and this time she leaned over, nudging her shoulder into mine in a shared joke. My heart skipped a beat and I felt myself hope. She walked closer to me, slipped her hand into the crook of my elbow, and told me how she loved the back of my dress. Oh, and my heels! They're so sexy! She's flirting, right? They're sandals, not stilettos! She's either flirting, or sleeping with my husband. It would have to be something huge to be this awkwardly flattering. We walked and laughed. She let her hand slip slowly as we talked- almost casually- almost as if she wasn't thinking about it. I couldn't STOP thinking about it. We were still walking, chatting. Her hand slipped into mine and looked up at me, laughing still. I must have looked stunned. She asked me if this was weird. She suddenly started nervously babbling out about how she had known I was bi for a long time, heard my husband say I always loved redheads... and after her divorce she had ended up drunk and "hooked up with" a girl she met in yoga in revolt against her neglectful ex husband... and it opened her eyes to her "true self". My heart was in my throat, and the second she said she hooked up with a woman- I started to get wet. By the end of her explanation I was smiling... pulling her toward the car. We were two minutes from my parents' beach house. We fell into the house- giggling, touching, kissing. One minute she was beside me, and the next she was above me. My previously straight, always drop dead sexy redhead friend was obviously more experienced than me- and kissing my neck, pressing her body against mine and then her hand was sliding down my body... I was taking off her bra... and then her tongue settled against my clit and I died. She was amazing! She kissed me after I came on her tongue, and set herself on top of me- her wetness against mine, and rode until she screamed. God I love the sound of her. Never thought it would be her sound that was so... I don't know- sexy and overwhelming at the same time. We laid there making out, and she began kissing me down my body, then kissed my wetness to taste herself in my pussy, then it was my turn... it was- soft, silky, and I kept thinking I must be the most selfish person- I kept thinking this HAD to be hotter for me than for her. Her moan, the way she smelled- like me- but not... it was driving me crazy. I've never read or heard of anyone having an orgasm from GIVING oral, but I did. I laughed as I came, and began licking her deeper as I could through the laughter until she pulled my hair and stopped me to ask me why I was laughing. I laugh when I cum- it's something I can't help. I laughed telling her about it and struggled away from her hands and back towards her soft, sweet center. I pulled her hips up off the bed, and flipped her over, and onto her knees so that I could see her fully- her beautiful ass, her delicious wet pussy, and buried my face in the slit, kissing her from front to back, fingering her as I did. By the end we had cum Half a dozen times each- and she even made me squirt into her mouth time after time until I couldn't anymore. I don't know that I'll be anything but dripping for days... What came next blew me away even more. She admitted to feelings I never suspected. She admitted to being attracted to my husband also, and told me she knew I'd never leave him. She wants to be together. There was definitely emotion involved in the sex- something I never even considered. She asked me if he'd be okay with the two, or maybe even the three of us dating and told me to think it over and talk to him. I know it was her idea, and I need to think with a clear head... but it's hard. I started out feeling horny, and ended up feeling more.. I am laying here with my husband and kids watching a movie, and am astounded at the things I'm considering with my friend...
  21. Something very interesting happened to me the other day. As some of you know, I've had a work crush on a girl named Ashley for awhile. Our "relationship" has only ever consisted of 30 second conversations a few times a week when I see her, but there's always been a connection between us. She's a tough shell to crack and she doesn't really talk to many people but she always greets me with a hug, smile, maybe a rib squeeze. I was getting some vibes and we exchanged numbers at one point but I kind of always just thought it would be a little crush and that would be it. Especially when she mentioned her boyfriend to me. Fast forward a couple months to now. She saw some snapchats of mine from when I was at the pool with some friends and started hounding me to invite her. The flirtations amped up too. She started hanging around the area where I work a lot more and her coworkers started making comments about how much she loves me. Maybe she is interested? So I invite her to the pool on Friday. It's an adult only pool with a bar which is awesome so I had a couple beers before she arrived. She came and it started out pretty great. I was kind of nervous and definitely wondering what kind of hang out this was. She mentioned her boyfriend early on so I kind of figured it was just a friendly hang out. No big deal so I mentioned my husband for the first time. She looked totally shocked (even though I wear a ring to work) and kind of stuttered "when did this happen?" I told her 3 years. She started asking a lot of questions about my marriage after that. I've always been an open book so I had no problem answering her. The alcohol was still flowing and I basically told her how he's the only person I've ever dated. She kept prodding like "so you've never slept with anyone else? Aren't you curious?" My gaydar was going off pretty hard at this point. I kept playing it coy like "I don't know. Maybe. There are so many things I haven't experienced." And finally she asked me flat out if I wanted to sleep with a girl. I kind of panicked and played it coy. Although I have always wanted to give her a vibe that I was interested it was nerve wracking that she was so confident that I was advancing on her. I got paranoid. When I continued my "I don't know maybe" answers she kept pushing it and I kept trying to change the subject. She was making me nervous. I wasn't sure how I was feeling about it and I have never been wth a girl. Plus I'm married to a husband who doesn't support my fluid sexuality. Also my husband was out of town and she knew it. She kept waiting for me to give her an in or some sort of confirmation that I like girls so I eventually mentioned that I made out with a lesbian a couple months ago. That's all she needed and she says "let me tell you a story." She launches into this story about how her boyfriend made some bet with her that her lesbian friend wouldn't hook up with her even if she was single. Ashley said she would. The boyfriend said if she can get laid by this girl within the month then she is free to do whatever she wants with her for the rest of the month. Few days later, Ashley makes a joke about hooking up with this girl to her boyfriend (even though she didn't actually). He got upset and thought she actually had hooked up with her so he broke up with her. They got back together a few days later. But she said in the meantime she actually did hook up with the girl and has continued to through the month and her boyfriend doesn't know. She kept saying she had 5 days left (which shouldn't have anything to do with me since I had nothing to do with this bet that I know of). Then she started pressuring me again passive aggressively like "don't you want to try?" And "it's not really cheating if you hook up with a girl." Honestly her aggressiveness made me nervous and uncomfortable. Plus I was kind of drunk. She was really touchy which felt extra sexual when we are both in bikinis and she's touching my stomach and stuff. When we were walking out there was s private area we walked through and she definitely lingered there waiting for me to give her an indication that I was interested. But I just couldn't. Or wouldn't. I don't know. Maybe I was just scared. So I kind of thought to myself as I walked to my car "maybe I'm just straight. Maybe this isn't for me. This was my opportunity and I let it go deliberately." But when I got to my car I realized I was super super wet about it. Like wetter than I've been in a long time. And I suddenly wondered if I made a mistake in turning her down. She also called me like right then but only let it ring for a few seconds before hanging up. Then she texted me about how much fun she had. I haven't really talked to her since. Just wanted to share and see if anyone else has felt this way before.
  22. This is all very new to me. Im married and been feeling confused about my sexuality for a while now and had never acted on it. A friend of mine who is also in a relationship had previously opened up about about experiences she'd had with her partner and other females and ever since it made me want to try. One night after a few drinks we ended up kissing in front of her partner and my husband. It was very breif but she did have a wondering hand for a minute or 2 and i really enjoyed myself. The next morning she told me not to feel ashamed as she knows im very shy and we havnt spoken about it since. I really want to but find it hard to express myself. Her and her parter are open to having some fun privately with friends but i dont think my husband is. I find it hard to express my true feelings and want to explore some more but dont know what to do... feeling confused