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Masturbation Techniques

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I would get too wet easily, and if the dildo toy or whatever penetrated is too small , it can fall out easily or get lost in there, and I cant feel it fully.   its slippery when wet., so I understand fully, I wipe myself often to feel it .  

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On 2017-10-20 at 4:39 AM, BenedettaC said:

But it can it ever actually be too slippery...?

For me it’s not about the wetness. My panties are soaked by the time I cum. I’ve done both saddled and bare-backed (lol) loving my saddle.

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I'm a big believer in pussy massage when I'm starting masturbation.  Using both hands I'll start massaging the area between my outer lips and inner thigh occasionally rubbing my pussy mound .  As the excitement builds I'll use the three middle fingers on one hand to massage the outer lips with the middle finger slipping between them.   It reaches a point that I'll insert fingers in my vagina while still rubbing my clitoris shortly after a flood of juices usually follows.  I think most of us masturbate this way and I've found that of all the other things I've tried I like this method the best. 

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On 10/20/2017 at 5:07 AM, Femme Lusting said:

I read it is good to switch masterbation techniques every now and then.  

Definitely! I always think that forming sexual habits is never really a good thing...either masturbating or having sex with others... Sure, catering for preferences is important...but applying new or different approaches or techniques keeps things exciting, both with oneself and one's lovers... 

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On 10/20/2017 at 10:11 AM, kairi said:

I can do it without touching myself too:wink:but this is a whole different experience and I don't know if it counts for masturbation.  I can't explain why and how now in public :P

@kairi - You can't just drop that one here, and then say you 'can't explain why and how now in public'! 

Whether it counts as masturbation really depends on how it's happening...and why... 

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23 hours ago, TBD78 said:

assuming ur not looking for the demo of me and my god given hands... here u go ;)

https://womanizer.com/experience

Hmm... How did you find that one? 

Oooh...and with a leopard-spotted decorative feature too! Does that enhance the experience?  :D

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13 hours ago, ElizabethG said:

I’ve tried many times panty-free but the orgasm is just not as intense. I love the feeling of the fabric rubbing against me.

Silk panties are especially good for that... :evilgrin:

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4 minutes ago, BenedettaC said:

@kairi - You can't just drop that one here, and then say you 'can't explain why and how now in public'! 

Whether it counts as masturbation really depends on how it's happening...and why... 

I can't do it alone but i don't   need anyone in the same  room with me for this :P This a little help?

The why,it is because i am able to feel more than normal people :P 

 

 

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12 hours ago, Vampire said:

Ladies, as you age, lubrication is essential. As a post menopausal woman, it's a different matter entirely. You can't get wet enough anymore. 

Lube is VERY popular in the lesbian world...at least the one I've been living in...ha, ha, ha...

But seriously, this is because of the physical characteristics of lesbian sex (using the hands and sexual accoutrements for vaginal stimulation and penetration), including how much longer we tend to spend making love compared to with a man.

So, lube tends to be ever-present in the lesbian bedroom, at all stages of life... 

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12 minutes ago, kairi said:

I can't do it alone but i don't   need anyone in the same  room with me for this :P This a little help?

The why,it is because i am able to feel more than normal people :P 

Well...I'm guessing that Elle might be involved... Am I right? 

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3 minutes ago, BenedettaC said:

Well...I'm guessing that Elle might be involved... Am I right? 

no :) It has nothing to do with watching porn

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@Percy has also alluded to hands-free orgasms elsewhere.

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2 hours ago, BenedettaC said:

Silk panties are especially good for that... :evilgrin:

Exactly! 

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3 hours ago, kairi said:

I can't do it alone but i don't   need anyone in the same  room with me for this :P This a little help?

The why,it is because i am able to feel more than normal people :P 

 

 

I heard from someone that they learned to achieve touchless orgasms by first stroking a different part of their body, such as their thigh, while imagining their erogenous areas being stimulated.  Once they mastered that, they progresses to stroking an object outside of their body, such as a pillow, in the same manner.

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On 21/10/2017 at 11:51 PM, Femme Lusting said:

I heard from someone that they learned to achieve touchless orgasms by first stroking a different part of their body, such as their thigh, while imagining their erogenous areas being stimulated.  Once they mastered that, they progresses to stroking an object outside of their body, such as a pillow, in the same manner.

 

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4 hours ago, kairi said:

no :) It has nothing to do with watching porn

Phone sex or sexting?

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4 hours ago, BenedettaC said:

@kairi - You can't just drop that one here, and then say you 'can't explain why and how now in public'! 

Whether it counts as masturbation really depends on how it's happening...and why... 

I worked with a woman once who claimed that she had orgasms on the bus every morning on the way to work claiming the vibrations of the engine enabled her to....

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1 minute ago, myladylove said:

I worked with a woman once who claimed that she had orgasms on the bus every morning on the way to work claiming the vibrations of the engine enabled her to....

Lucky lady! :D

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Just now, BenedettaC said:

Lucky lady! :D

Personally I need pressure on my friend clit.

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During a particularly hot sexting session, touching myself was actually frustrating, so I just gave up and let it all wash over me. I felt like we had had actual sex after that. #handsfree

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5 hours ago, BenedettaC said:

Lube is VERY popular in the lesbian world...at least the one I've been living in...ha, ha, ha...

But seriously, this is because of the physical characteristics of lesbian sex (using the hands and sexual accoutrements for vaginal stimulation and penetration), including how much longer we tend to spend making love compared to with a man.

So, lube tends to be ever-present in the lesbian bedroom, at all stages of life... 

I'm not big on penetration so i couldn't go at it for ages either. After menopause, the skin becomes dry and sore because of the lack of estrogen, so one has to change the way we do it. Puts a whole new level to it. Vaginal Atrophy is something that is common in older women. Life and sexuality can change so much. 

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2 hours ago, kairi said:

I don't need to stroke any part of my body or touch it ;) And I certainly haven't learned it, it just happens 

@kairi, that is talent!  The rest of us will either have to learn it, or stick to manual. :lol:

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On 22/10/2017 at 2:14 AM, Femme Lusting said:

@kairi, that is talent!  The rest of us will either have to learn it, or stick to manual. :lol:

It is my super power :superman::P

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On 10/20/2017 at 9:54 PM, N00Bi said:

Hand raised here in the back of the classroom joining those who can be too wet. I can't really feel anything when it's too wet,  especially with penetration. 

I like being incredibly wet. I don't think there's such a thing as too wet for me. That said, sometimes I do need to dry off the clitoral area a bit to get enough friction to feel things properly.

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