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So I'm a squirter but I have a lot of mixed feelings about this. I hate that it's uncontrollable and messy but I usually come much harder when I squirt. It probably happens during 5% of my orgasms but there are sometimes moves I can do that will increase the odds of it happening. So I know this is something that they simulate in porn and I think guys usually like it? My husband is just whatever about it. He isn't bothered by it but it doesn't turn him on any more than usual. Although I think he gets a certain sense of satisfaction when there's "proof" that I had a very good orgasm. I'm interested to see if you ladies squirt or if this is common or uncommon. I have very limited sexual experience when it comes to numbers of partners so I just don't know. In the lesbian world is this looked at as gross? Or hot? Or just ok? I'm thinking of sleeping with a woman for the first time and this is one of my anxieties.

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I'm not, or at least it hasn't happened for me yet. I have experimented a little and pretty sure I've had just a couple of g-spot orgasms...it's much more difficult for me to "get there" that way, but no squirting when it happened.

 

I know if I was with a woman, I would be okay with it, but I would appreciate a heads up that it could happen so I was prepared for it. :)

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It's gonna vary in terms of preference. Just forewarn people and put a towel down.

 

It shouldn't be a concern, also don't hate it or feel anxious about it that's just dampening the experience before it's begun.

 

5% is nothing, but breaking it down to a percentage isn't even necessary!

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I would give her a heads up, but don't stress. It's a turn on when my GF does it, and she's cool when I do it (more often than she does).

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I agree with all the ladies above. Don't stress about it! It is what it is. Give her a heads up, and have fun! Personally I would think it was super sexy :)

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I'm a squirted too.

Can't comment on how other women would view because I've not had experience with another woman...yet...but personally I would love it because I know how good it feels to do it xx

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I'm a squirter, but definitely not all the time and not with everyone. I have never squirted with a woman (only been with one once) but the guys it has happened with absolutely loved it.

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I've never done that myself and neither has my current girlfriend so far. She is the only woman I've been with though, so I can't really comment on past experience with it. As long as everybody is having a good time I would personally be fine about it. If the person I was involved with warned me it might happen so we can put a towel down beforehand that would be even better

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it depends on who you sleep with, lesbian world or not. people always have different preferences. some find it hot, some don't. personally i love it. lol. and i'm a squirter myself. pretty mess up to be honest, but i fixed that part ;x

it's rather uncommon that you'll end up being with a another squirter, but it's not like it won't ever happen. when women are very open sexually, and there is no mental block or such thing exists in her world, i find that she's most likely a squirter.

most women find it a big turn on because a lot of us can't squirt. if it gives you anxieties, just tell yourself it'll be okay, and don't forget to give the other a warning in advance.

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Wow I would love it! It's a huge fantasy of mine to be drowning in it! Although I've not experienced it with the women I've been with, and only been able to do it myself with one man. I can only do it from being fingered on my gspot. If i'm standing up it floods out. Years ago before internet i thought it was an urban myth!! :lol:

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Never squirted, so sad. I wouldn't mind it in a partner at all. I like fluids.

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I never have but I would Love to. I would love to make a girl do it too

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I have once. I did it through self stimulation with a back massager when I was 15. I haven't been able to do it again since. I've yet to be with a woman but if I was and she squirted I would be super ecstatic. It's really hot knowing you helped someone get to that place.

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I have tried to squirt without any success. Can anyone give some pointers. I would luv to be able to. I get very very wet but never achieve squirting.

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The times I squirt are often when I'm by myself and first come while rubbing my clit then bringing myself to another climax after that. Sometimes I like to use my vibe and come with penetration, then move back to my clit. Regardless I usually squirt when I'm doing a multiple orgasm session.

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I think everything has to line up perfectly for me. Like I have to be a certain kind of aroused and I can kind of tell sometimes early on if I might squirt. Like it's kind of a certain feeling. But not always. I can usually tell it's going to happen like a few seconds before I come though. I never come through vaginal only stimulation so it's always clitoral for me. sometimes spreading my legs wider while I masturbate can help me squirt. That's how I did the first time when I was a teenager.

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My husband has taken me there a couple of times, and he likes it. I would love to do it more often, it was the most intense orgasm ever! If a woman I was with did it.......I think it would just turn me on more, knowing I satisfied her that much! Nothing to be embarrassed about!

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I’ve never squirted before. I wouldn’t be opposed to it but it’s just never happened for me.

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I would love any pointers on how to. I have tried with no success. 

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I would love to experience a woman who squirts. I imagine that would be a lot of fun!

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It's only happened with two people for me, both very good with their hands ;) my former fuck buddy and my fiance. Particularly my fiance, he's very talented lol. He LOVES it. 

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I have before with an ex, he absolutely loved it. He is the only one who could make me do it though, maybe it’s a self conscience thing? Personally, I’ve never been with a woman,but I think it might be kind of nice though to see my partner orgasm that hard. 

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I'm not a lover of it. Had an ex that was obsessed with attempting it... so me being very curious what on earth it was did a quick review of the medical literature (as I was pretty certain that women didn't have the physiological capacity to produce and store large quantities of any such sexual fluid) and all of the scientific research carried out on it at that point and since has found that although women do produce small amounts of what might be called ejaculate, when they "gush" it's actually just mostly urine, from the bladder, with minimal skene gland secretions found in a handful of cases. So I've just found that way too off putting.

So yeah, being *too* curious about it kinda killed that one off for me. I totally get that some people are into watersports, but not me. 

If anyone's interested, here's a recent paper :

Salmana, S. et al. (2015) 'Nature and origin of “squirting” in female sexuality'. J Sex Med 2015;12:661–666.

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In my experience, squirting is definitely not considered 'gross' in the lesbian world - rather as something desirable and very hot, because it's a manifestation of intense pleasure. Sure - it's messy, but it really isn't much trouble to prepare for that, is it? I guess it depends on how much you value sexual intensity and the ability to let go completely...

 

 

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I do ... but not every time and it usually happens shortly *before* I actually orgasm or at least most intensely. There has to be clitoral stimulation, never just through penetration alone. There’s no secret way of doing it, for me, just the right context, being horny enough, and also uninhibited! 

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