MishalB04

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Hi all just wanted to introduce myself as a newbie. I have been bicurious all my life and unfortunately did not explore those curiosities before becoming married at a very young age. My husband and I are open with one another about my feelings. He has recently encouraged me to explore this side of me a bit more. Looking forward to hearing from others about Thier experiences . Particularly those who are in relationship's and how that works.

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Hi and Welcome to Shy’s

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Hi, welcome to the site! 

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Welcome!  If you haven’t already, be sure to check out How Our Forum Works to see the site rules and other helpful posts.

We have a whole forum on here dedicated to being in a committed relationship and being bi.  It can be tough to navigate, but you’re far from alone.  Go through the various forums and you’ll see a lot of posts you can probably relate to.

There’s a great book I often recommend if you’re considering this kind of arrangement.  It’s “The Ethical Slut” by Dossie Eaton.  It’ll help you avoid a lot of the common mistakes and help you and your husband communicate better with all this, even better than you are now.  You’re lucky you have a guy who’s supportive!!

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On 1/30/2018 at 6:29 AM, BiTriMama said:

There’s a great book I often recommend if you’re considering this kind of arrangement.  It’s “The Ethical Slut” by Dossie Eaton.  It’ll help you avoid a lot of the common mistakes and help you and your husband communicate better with all this, even better than you are now.  You’re lucky you have a guy who’s supportive!!

Just downloaded this book. I knew there had to be some books out there, just didn't know what to search for. I'm so unimaginative :blush:

MishalB04 your guy is awesome for being encouraging :air_kiss: 

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4 minutes ago, sikchick said:

Just downloaded this book. I knew there had to be some books out there, just didn't know what to search for. I'm so unimaginative :blush:

You can also check out Opening Up by Tristan Taormino, and there’s a website, morethantwo.com.  I don’t agree with some of the stuff on morethantwo, but that’s my own opinion.  I haven’t read Opening Up, but I really liked The Ethical Slut.  I think EVERY couple should read it, poly or not!!

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Thanks! I'd like to read and then recommend to my partner. Would be great to open up conversation into something less casual perhaps. Not really sure what I want, but reading and sharing ideas can't hurt that's for sure.

I think my friends should all read these books too, might help them be more open minded <_<

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