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I am in a relationship with a man but I have been having a sexual attraction to women for the last 10 yrs or so. I've had fantasies of tasting a woman and having her taste me. Sucking on her titties and grinding clit to clit until we both climax and explode in ecstasy. I watch lesbian porn often to get off. Idk what it is but lesbian sex is so sexy and sensual to me & I'm starting to crave it like I crave chocolate during that time of the month lol 

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@AnniLee I feel your pain. I'm married to a great guy but for the past 4 yrs or so, I've been finding myself fantasizing about women more and more. It started with my best friend. She got under my skin and now I want, no need, to taste a woman. Lesbian porn is all I really watch. There's just something so sexy about two (or more) women together.

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I'm kind of in the same boat, but my boyfriend of three years has given me the go ahead to fulfil those fantasies.  Have you talked to your man about it?

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Same here...my hubs knows about my curiosity and is more than okay with me experimenting. Just gotta find the right woman ; )

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I am right with you all.  I along to be with a woman and feel her skin next to mine, to taste her, to kiss her...sigh.  I certainly don’t mind watching porn with 2 women, but it just makes me leaving wanting that for myself!  My husband knows about my desires, but is not open to discussing it.  That’s fine.  I love him very much, but I just want, no, need more!  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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@California shy I'm sorry your hubs isn't willing to discuss it : (

But maybe one day he will be. For now, allow this site and all of us to take you away into fantasy land and give you what you're so badly missing. Xoxo

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I fantasize often about lesbian sex as well. Having been with a woman it was the most erotic thing to me, I loved every minute of it. Tasting her and her tasting me was so amazing. I also watch lesbian porn, it's the only porn I watch since I don't get turned on by looking at a naked man. Watching two women kiss, caress, and go down on each other is such an amazing sight and turns me on like nothing else. 

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All of you need to experience it, it’s truly everything you are imagining it to be! I can go from not being in the mood at all to completely turn on in less than 30 seconds just from a kiss from my girlfriend. I don’t know what is so different, but it truly amazing! I’m so thankful my husband lets me explore this side of me. He isn’t always happy with it, but is ok with it. The way she touches me, the way she kisses me, touching her, kissing her. Knowing that she wants it just as much as I do. She touches me and I honestly feel paralyzed and cannot move bc it feels that amazing. I really hope each of you get to experience that! 

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On 11/3/2018 at 6:37 AM, Dutchess607 said:

@California shy I'm sorry your hubs isn't willing to discuss it : (

But maybe one day he will be. For now, allow this site and all of us to take you away into fantasy land and give you what you're so badly missing. Xoxo

He’s still not willing to discuss it, in fact he is saying that I may need to make a choice...him or being with a woman.  I’ve been very honest and told him that i will not promise not to be with a woman, so perhaps my choice is clear...I do love him, but not in love and that’s where we are at...

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On 11/7/2018 at 2:36 PM, Ty2254 said:

All of you need to experience it, it’s truly everything you are imagining it to be! I can go from not being in the mood at all to completely turn on in less than 30 seconds just from a kiss from my girlfriend. I don’t know what is so different, but it truly amazing! I’m so thankful my husband lets me explore this side of me. He isn’t always happy with it, but is ok with it. The way she touches me, the way she kisses me, touching her, kissing her. Knowing that she wants it just as much as I do. She touches me and I honestly feel paralyzed and cannot move bc it feels that amazing. I really hope each of you get to experience that! 

I don’t have a ton of experience but I agree it is very different- much more sensual. 

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I have only recently come to terms with being bi, my husband is very supportive and says that I can experiment as much as I like - because I have never been with another woman though I am worried whether I can satisfy someone. The most I do is chat,flirt and watch female porn. I would love to have someone to chat about that understands my situation and then maybe take things further!  

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I find that once you start to get that urge to be with a woman, it doesn't go away until you finally do it. The more you suppress your feelings, the more you start (at least in my case) you almost start to resent yourself and who you are with. I am lucky enough to be with an amazing man who encourages me to explore any feeling I may have. Our job in life is to grow. How can you be happy with someone else if you can't be happy with yourself? 

Maybe this is who you are. Maybe it's just the craving of an experience that is different. You wont know until you finally take that plunge. 

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I agree,  @Nunu30. I don't think you can really know this about yourself without some real life experience.

As for me, being with another woman changed my life. Such a powerful, positive experience. So real, so free, so different. Just felt right,  you know?

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10 hours ago, Nunu30 said:

I find that once you start to get that urge to be with a woman, it doesn't go away until you finally do it. The more you suppress your feelings, the more you start (at least in my case) you almost start to resent yourself and who you are with. I am lucky enough to be with an amazing man who encourages me to explore any feeling I may have. Our job in life is to grow. How can you be happy with someone else if you can't be happy with yourself? 

Maybe this is who you are. Maybe it's just the craving of an experience that is different. You wont know until you finally take that plunge. 

I agree, in life we have to live and learn and this applies to our sexuality. Even if, as in my case, the experiences turn out to be somewhat harmful to us, we have learned. If not we would drive ourselves and our partner crazy with resentment and longing. Sometimes we need to suffer to grow, there are though still the moments of joy that will stay with you forever.

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I'm sorry your journey was somewhat harmful, @myladylove. I can relate! Despite the challenges and difficulties and some hurt feelings, I still would not change a thing I've done along my way. I have tried my best to be kind to all. But we can't know our true selves without experiencing first hand what loving a woman can be. 

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First off - so thankful the site is back up and running!!

Secondly, its really great to know I’m not paddling this boat alone!!

I am in a loving relationship with my husband of 16 years...but my fantasies are always of that with another woman. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again, the sensuality of what being with a woman seems like - I can’t get it off my brain. I have been thinking about it all day long....it’s very distracting while I’m trying to work...but clearly not discouraging!!!! My body has been on fire at the thought..

I like knowing that I’m not alone.

Thoughts though, if my fantasies ever became a reality...am I a terrible person for wanting to keep it a secret from my husband? I wouldn’t want him to ever be a part of what I imagine to be a very special relationship,..my relationship with him will always be my priority...but this craving for a woman to be in my life in a mutually beneficial role, I want it to just be mine. 

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@STITCH70 I agree!  I am in the same situation.  My story is almost exact to yours.   I have no experience, but I definitely have the desire...and no clue what to do with it.

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It’s all I can think about since I’ve started opening myself up to the idea of it and my hubby and I discussing exploring. It’s so distracting! 

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On 2/8/2019 at 2:40 PM, KeeKee80 said:

First off - so thankful the site is back up and running!!

Secondly, its really great to know I’m not paddling this boat alone!!

I am in a loving relationship with my husband of 16 years...but my fantasies are always of that with another woman. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again, the sensuality of what being with a woman seems like - I can’t get it off my brain. I have been thinking about it all day long....it’s very distracting while I’m trying to work...but clearly not discouraging!!!! My body has been on fire at the thought..

I like knowing that I’m not alone.

Thoughts though, if my fantasies ever became a reality...am I a terrible person for wanting to keep it a secret from my husband? I wouldn’t want him to ever be a part of what I imagine to be a very special relationship,..my relationship with him will always be my priority...but this craving for a woman to be in my life in a mutually beneficial role, I want it to just be mine. 

I don't think how you feel is wrong at all. I feel exactly the same. My husband knows that I am bi and when we have sex we talk about about threesomes to turn eachother on but secretly I feel I don't want to share him or her. Yesterday he openly asked me if I want a girlfriend.....i said yes but i don't want to share either of them. We talked about it and came to an agreement where I am allowed mow to have a girlfriend of my own and he wont get involved. I am happy and very thankful to have such an amazing man in my life.

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Hi all. I’m new here and can relate to these messages. I’ve been married to my husband for 12 years, but over the past 18 months or so I find that I’m fantasizing about having a sexual experience with a woman and the thought of it is the only thing that turns me on. My sex life with my husband has always been poor and boring and I reached a point where I needed something more exciting, so started to consider threesomes. I suggested this to my husband but he said no as he doesn’t want to share me (I thought all men wanted threesomes!). Needless to say my husband has no idea about my desires and our sex life continues to be dull. My thoughts have progressed from threesomes to just me and another woman, but I don’t know what to do about it or how to meet someone who is also bi-curious. My urges seem to increase as the days go by.

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I'm curious about sex with women, more like how to go about it. Is it better to randomly meet another or to go through more traditional methods, I'm considering the former to keep discretion, it's not something I've done and if it goes bad I might want to forget it (sounds bad)

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I'll admit I'm pretty curious how it would be to have sex with another woman. The interest in this increases every day. I know that I can't talk to my husband about it. He's very closed minded and has trouble sharing me in general. I think that's why I just long for a connection with a woman that is sensual and I can be free to express myself to her. If that makes any sense. But physical touches, kisses, our bodies pressed together. Yeah that sends tingles to all the right places when I think about it. 

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@AnniLee it’s like your words were written for me. Same. Same. Same. Ha! 

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