KeikoM

A Sex Night Date With My Suddenly Curious Bff

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You might have heard me discuss this in another thread about how my best friend seemingly got a little bicurious last winter after I told her of the affair I was having with another woman. Before I broke this to her, I had never ever mentioned that I was a bisexual. She said she knew it. She and I had been best friends for about 15 years.

 

She would seem to get a little excited when I told her the stories of our sexual encounters. She then broke it to me that her and her husband have been discussing doing a threesome with another girl as his ultimate fantasy and even though she was totally straight, she wasn't opposed to giving in to his desire. She asked if I would be that third, that I would be perfect because we were best friends and she would be comfortable with me before anyone else. I declined, mainly because I did not envision myself being sexual with her husband, even though I did run it past my hubby. We declined the offer.

 

She has talked about it a few more times, but I said I still wasn't ready for that. After I broke up with my girlfriend we really didn't discuss it much, even though I regularly go over to her house to have a beer and smoke something.

 

Last night I went over to her house to have a beer and a smoke and we started to get real giddy. She brought up that she had watched a lesbian movie the other night and she was getting a little excited. She said that she was having thoughts about sex with another woman and then had something else to say. After I had to coax it out of her, she shyly admitted that she had had thoughts and fantasies about being with me. I seriously blushed and I don't get embarrassed easy. I gathered myself, then crawled over to her on all fours, got right in her face, almost lips to lips, and said 'you can't handle me'. She stammered because she was expecting a kiss, I'm sure, and said that she totally could handle it. She assured me that she wanted it. I went over her and put my arm around her and said, if that's what you want to do, I want to do it too. Then I said, 'but not tonight'.

 

For me, I don't want this to be a spur of the moment drunken thing. I want her to think about it, and if she is still curious and is wanting to do it, I will. Just not that night. I gave her a little kiss on the cheek, still fully blushing, and went home. I haven't talked to her yet, but I will later tonight. But I have to admit, that got me so excited, I felt tingly all day long. Even though we've been friends for a long time, I really did see this coming. She had been putting signs out there. I'm going to call later and see where her mind is and try to see if we can set up a date. It is exciting, but I do not want to ruin a good friendship. Neither one of us says we would get romantically involved, that it would be for fun, but you can never be sure about that. We will see, we have finally committed kind of, so it may be exciting. I will update.

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Very interesting. Let us know what happens!!

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What an awesome story (plus the almost-kiss thing? totally hot)! I wish you the best of luck! But if anything happens you have to come back and give us all the juicy details. :hyper:

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Yay Keiko's back with her hot stories! :D

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Yay Keiko's back with her hot stories! :D

 

I really haven't had anything hot happen to me lately, at least with another woman. Hubby and I have had some awesome hot stuff happen, but no one here would want to hear it. ;) I have been kind of excited about this all day, even though I've told my self over the last 15 years we would never do anything. But the way she explained it to me last night made it seem so right. I'm calling her in about 10 minutes, so I'll find out what she's thinking.

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My best friend in high school and I had sex. We were both bi and always knew it, we just didn't develop attraction for each other until about a year later. We did it and it was fun, she was the first girl I was ever with sexually. It was just a one-time thing though, after that we decided it was best just to remain friends and not to go further than kissing and cuddling lol.

 

I think your little story was hot, especially that almost kiss part and I think it was very selfless of you to give her time to think about it before she made any regrets. I hope that whatever you two decided to do that it was the right thing and that it was worth it. :sungum:

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Ooooh sounds exciting!

 

Do update us! :D

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Minor update. We talked on the phone the next day and she is still up for a date, we just haven't had time to plan it yet. Her husband works at the stadium for the Kansas City Royals and it's been a bit busy lately. She sounded very excited about it and maybe a little nervous. And I agree Moostachekitteh (sorry, but had to giggle a little after writing that) but I believe this will definitely be a one time thing between us. We already cuddle a lot, just have never taken it further than that. I went over to her house last night for a World Series party with her and several other friends, but nothing but partying and enjoying a big win by our favorite baseball team.

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You might have heard me discuss this in another thread about how my best friend seemingly got a little bicurious last winter after I told her of the affair I was having with another woman. Before I broke this to her, I had never ever mentioned that I was a bisexual. She said she knew it. She and I had been best friends for about 15 years.

 

She would seem to get a little excited when I told her the stories of our sexual encounters. She then broke it to me that her and her husband have been discussing doing a threesome with another girl as his ultimate fantasy and even though she was totally straight, she wasn't opposed to giving in to his desire. She asked if I would be that third, that I would be perfect because we were best friends and she would be comfortable with me before anyone else. I declined, mainly because I did not envision myself being sexual with her husband, even though I did run it past my hubby. We declined the offer.

 

She has talked about it a few more times, but I said I still wasn't ready for that. After I broke up with my girlfriend we really didn't discuss it much, even though I regularly go over to her house to have a beer and smoke something.

 

Last night I went over to her house to have a beer and a smoke and we started to get real giddy. She brought up that she had watched a lesbian movie the other night and she was getting a little excited. She said that she was having thoughts about sex with another woman and then had something else to say. After I had to coax it out of her, she shyly admitted that she had had thoughts and fantasies about being with me. I seriously blushed and I don't get embarrassed easy. I gathered myself, then crawled over to her on all fours, got right in her face, almost lips to lips, and said 'you can't handle me'. She stammered because she was expecting a kiss, I'm sure, and said that she totally could handle it. She assured me that she wanted it. I went over her and put my arm around her and said, if that's what you want to do, I want to do it too. Then I said, 'but not tonight'.

 

For me, I don't want this to be a spur of the moment drunken thing. I want her to think about it, and if she is still curious and is wanting to do it, I will. Just not that night. I gave her a little kiss on the cheek, still fully blushing, and went home. I haven't talked to her yet, but I will later tonight. But I have to admit, that got me so excited, I felt tingly all day long. Even though we've been friends for a long time, I really did see this coming. She had been putting signs out there. I'm going to call later and see where her mind is and try to see if we can set up a date. It is exciting, but I do not want to ruin a good friendship. Neither one of us says we would get romantically involved, that it would be for fun, but you can never be sure about that. We will see, we have finally committed kind of, so it may be exciting. I will update.

 

Jesus.....this is killing me!!! Please tell me there's an update?

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Hi! Keiko, please update! I would love to know how it went with your bff. I have a friend who I have a crush on, but it'll just stay that way most likely

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Whoaa hot. Making me miss my flit in & out & in of my life girl, that I haven't seen for a while. You know, I so thought it'd be a once off thing with us too, cos we were friends to begin with, but every time we're together we can't seem to help it! Pleeeease update :D

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Yes we need an update. Sounds like it's gonna be a good one ;)

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smoking something!! LOL, she must have forgotten to call her,

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No, we've talked and everything is still on, she still wants to plan a night, it's just the World Series got in the way. Her husband works there and we've been having parties for each game, so it's been busy. Now that it's over :( we plan on arranging a night together, which looks like this weekend. We did finally kiss. We were both out on the porch for a smoke break and she talked about how she thought I was going to kiss her the other day and that I was a tease. So I said, you really want a kiss, she said yeah, and we kissed sitting side by side in our patio chairs. It was our first full kiss. We've kissed many time lips to lips in a friendly manner, but this was the first open mouth version and she wasn't bad at all. I'm going over there this weekend when her husband is going to a work get together and we'll see how that goes.

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Sounds like the recipe for a very hot date. :)

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Can't wait to read more! Sounds very exciting!

 

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Omg, I just read all of this !! What happened!!! I am dying here

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Just tread carefully. Things can sometimes get a little awkward or messy when you start having sex with close friends...

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You might have heard me discuss this in another thread about how my best friend seemingly got a little bicurious last winter after I told her of the affair I was having with another woman. Before I broke this to her, I had never ever mentioned that I was a bisexual. She said she knew it. She and I had been best friends for about 15 years.

 

She would seem to get a little excited when I told her the stories of our sexual encounters. She then broke it to me that her and her husband have been discussing doing a threesome with another girl as his ultimate fantasy and even though she was totally straight, she wasn't opposed to giving in to his desire. She asked if I would be that third, that I would be perfect because we were best friends and she would be comfortable with me before anyone else. I declined, mainly because I did not envision myself being sexual with her husband, even though I did run it past my hubby. We declined the offer.

 

She has talked about it a few more times, but I said I still wasn't ready for that. After I broke up with my girlfriend we really didn't discuss it much, even though I regularly go over to her house to have a beer and smoke something.

 

Last night I went over to her house to have a beer and a smoke and we started to get real giddy. She brought up that she had watched a lesbian movie the other night and she was getting a little excited. She said that she was having thoughts about sex with another woman and then had something else to say. After I had to coax it out of her, she shyly admitted that she had had thoughts and fantasies about being with me. I seriously blushed and I don't get embarrassed easy. I gathered myself, then crawled over to her on all fours, got right in her face, almost lips to lips, and said 'you can't handle me'. She stammered because she was expecting a kiss, I'm sure, and said that she totally could handle it. She assured me that she wanted it. I went over her and put my arm around her and said, if that's what you want to do, I want to do it too. Then I said, 'but not tonight'.

 

For me, I don't want this to be a spur of the moment drunken thing. I want her to think about it, and if she is still curious and is wanting to do it, I will. Just not that night. I gave her a little kiss on the cheek, still fully blushing, and went home. I haven't talked to her yet, but I will later tonight. But I have to admit, that got me so excited, I felt tingly all day long. Even though we've been friends for a long time, I really did see this coming. She had been putting signs out there. I'm going to call later and see where her mind is and try to see if we can set up a date. It is exciting, but I do not want to ruin a good friendship. Neither one of us says we would get romantically involved, that it would be for fun, but you can never be sure about that. We will see, we have finally committed kind of, so it may be exciting. I will update.

 

First I salute your self control and your good sense. But really the bridge has been crossed for both of you. This is unlikely to be successful. However, sex or no, your friendship is gone. You've moved to territory that is sexual and potentially fun. Embrace it. As things progress I wish that your relationship transits successfully from friends to lovers. And if, the intimate relationship is not sustainable I wish you the best of luck transiting from lovers to ex lovers.

Allow me to offer a sober last thought. Self control or good sense as side you've most likely will regret your choice. Most people are not mature enough to transit successfully from friendship to intimacy and back again. But I most sincerely hope I am mistaken.

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Appreciate all the advice, but it's a little too late. We had our 'date' last Saturday night and I thought it went well. I won't get too into it because I really don't want it to be over analyzed and I really don't want this to turn into a 'Penthouse forum'. As for some of your concerns, most of those same concerns went through my head before this. I was concerned about this straining our relationship and becoming something more than what we agreed to. She was very curious, as it turned out, about sex with a woman and decided to approach me about it. She found out last winter that I was a bisexual so I think that was what made her more comfortable with me. She wanted to experience it and really had to convince me that I would be the one she would she choose to do it. Her basic argument to me was that she was going to try it eventually and she would rather be with someone that she knew and has been close to for years. Believe me, we discussed all of the fallout that could occur by taking this step.

 

As far as the actual night last Saturday night, I thought it was sweet. We started by watching a movie (yes, that's why I have been reviewing movies all week, we ended up watching 'I can't think Straight' on Netflix) which then turned into a make out session, before going to her bedroom. She was nervous, i was gentle, and I thought she really enjoyed it. I went further with her than what she did with me, but that was OK, she was still feeling it out and was extremely nervous. Afterwards she was very emphatic that it felt like the right thing to do, that she enjoyed it, and appreciated the way I treated her. It was a very enjoyable night, a very sexy night, and an extreme turn on for me. I wouldnt describe it as very frantic, but more exploratory. More like a soft porn night than a hard porn night.

 

I appreciate all the concern about how this may strain our relationship, but I really think we'll be fine. We talked after, she seems fine, I feel fine, and there are no plans to have sex again any time soon, but if it happens, it happens. I can see it happening again, but I'm not pressing.

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Thanks for the update "Keiko"it sounds if no damage done, or likely to be done, great result, best of luck going forward.

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My BFF and I have had a physical relationship off and on for the past 20+ years. We made a connection right off the bat…and not just physically. She was the first person I was able to tell I had feelings like that. She has since moved to Georgia..and I am in Mass, so….yeah. I did visit her in Feb. of this year and her BF , her and I…..lets say all got together…if I wanted to be with her I had to take him too. :/ Oh, well..it was worth it.

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