KeikoM

A Sex Night Date With My Suddenly Curious Bff

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Talk about an ideal situation! Haha. Good for you, Keiko. I'm glad even after all this time that things are going well!

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Just to update, me and my girlfriend/bestie have had sex about 5 times. When I say sex, I mean under-the-blankets full on sex. We've had other times with some heavy petting, kissing, and exploring, but 5 wonderful times.

 

The last time was last weekend. We were in an upstairs bedroom at her house and her husband was actually downstairs at the time. We hadn't planned on doing anything, but she was trying on clothes, getting my opinion on what she should wear to a dinner party next weekend. After changing out of one outfit, she came walking back into the bedroom in just her panties and a tank top. Well, that's all it took. I got all kinds of horny and grab her hips and pulled her close, then out of just pure animal reaction, I slipped my hand into the front of her panties and just let my fingers do the rest. I get excited now thinking about it. She was hesitant at first and kept saying that her husband was just downstairs, but I couldn't stop and eventually she stopped protesting. This was different for us because we had beautiful sex while trying to be extremely quiet, which we normally don't do. I had a bit of a fear of him walking in on us, and probably should have been more careful, but I did not care, I was zeroed in on one thing. Just to make it clear to those that think we are having an affair behind her husbands back, we're not. He knows we have had sex and is OK with it, he just didn't know we were up there having sex that night and a few nights later, she told him. She said it kind of excited him that we were doing that while he was there, which is OK because that's as close as he will ever get to a threesome with she and I.

 

Anyway, it was fun and exciting and we are still doing very good in our best friendship/sexual relationship. We still do more things together like go out to eat, shop, party, and watch movies and TV together more than anything we do sexually, but we are having this best times of our friendship doing it.

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Wow, I've obviously been away a long time because I thought things had fizzled out between you two. I'm glad you're still best of friends and enjoying each other in bed as well.

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No fizz out, I just didn't want to post every detail. I'll update once in awhile, but with my previous girlfriend, I would be with her and when we would do something exciting or she'd do something sexy, I'd think to myself 'wow, this is going to be great to post on Shybi, they'll love this' and I decided I didn't want to predicate my relationship by what sounded good to post in a forum. That was my bad, I should of never did that.

 

Now, we just have fun and I've stopped thinking about if what we were doing sounded good in a post. We just do it, have fun, love our relationship, and if I find time I update. This has worked out better for me. Like John Lennon said, 'Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans'. I'm all about that now. Live my life and worry about relating it later. Don't get me wrong, I love to update, because it reminds of how well it's going, I'll just do it when it fancies me instead of running computer after every event. Our relationship will be much better for it.

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I promised only to update when there was something to say, so I thought I'd update. I think in another thread I was talking about how me and my girlfriend were talking about doing some late night skinny dipping in my pool this summer and we have about every week from late June through the present. It's kind of our date night for the week.

 

We usually pick a night when the kids are gone and during the summer, that's normal because the kids spend the night at friends quite often, so she comes over often. Many times my husband is home, but he is very supportive and lets us have our alone time. My pool is an above ground pool about 18' in diameter round. It is off our deck in the back yard and the way our house sets, there is no neighbor on our left, the neighbor on our right is blocked by our shed, and the neighbor in the back is two yards away, so pretty secluded.

 

It is very erotic. The first time we got in we both had our bikinis on and slipped into the water. We drank a couple of beers, then I approached her, put my arms on her shoulder, pulled her face to mine and kissed. Then while kissing I undid her top and she took off mine and we just kissed with our breast pressed together and rubbed each other, exploring our bodies. It was fun, but that's as far as we really went that night. Next time, we set on the deck and had a few drinks and then we got in, the water was so warm, I took off my top and bottoms and told her to do the same. She stripped and we came together and really had some fun together. It was very exciting. We now usually strip naked right after getting in, swim a little and relax, and then make out, usually ending with our fingers inside each other making each other climax. I am now dreading Fall and the cooler weather.

 

Like I said, it's really dark and secluded in our back yard, so I doubt anyone sees us, and when the hubby is home while we are out there, I don't think he ever watches, but if he does, really so be it. Anyway, that is my update.

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What a lovely relationship, the pool is an ideal place to have some alone time with your girl friend, and its sooo soothing doing it in water, sorry the cooler nights are coming , Thanks for updating us Keiko.

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Wow.... Lucky girl!! I would simply love to be in this situation with my best friend. Have a feeling I will have to wait a while though. We don't have nice warm swimming pools here in England though!

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I feel like a voyeur. It feels good

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Wow...that is so very exciting. I would love to be able to have relationship like this with my BFF...but I do not think that will ever happen.

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Wow...that is so very exciting. I would love to be able to have relationship like this with my BFF...but I do not think that will ever happen.

 

I didn't think so either until I got into a relationship with another friend of ours and my BFF found out and she started to ask more and more questions about it. I could tell she was getting curious and at first that scared me, because I wasn't sure I wanted that. But she was pretty persistent and got a little bolder, and it happened. She first approached me with an offer to have a menage a trois with her and her husband and I refused. After she realized I wasn't into that, she pursued a relationship and I gave in. It happened very fast, so you never know. Just be open about it.

 

We have a great relationship, we meet once a week, either at my house or her house, usually just to have a beer and watch TV. We usually cuddle on the couch and only occasionally have sex, but when we do it's pretty darn good. I was her first female, but she has really caught on and is a really sensual lover. We also have fun talking about other women we find attractive. My guess is that if we ever do have a menage it will be with another female and not a guy.

 

The relationship is strong, I think we will be fine.

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You are right you just never now what might happen. I am still figuring all of this out for myself...before I really tell many people that I believe that I am a bisexual female. I am not quite ready for that yet.

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Reading the story made me wish it was me and my best friend. All you need is two martinis each

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Alright, this was a new one. I was laying in bed with my gf last night watching TV. It's nice, ever since we had our night together where we let our husbands watch us (detailed in another thread), we've been able to be together in her house with her husband at home. We used to wait until he was gone, he didn't care, it was just out of respect. But it's fun, we now go to her bedroom, cuddle, watch TV, have sex, yada yada, while he's downstairs.

 

Last night we were laying there and she brought up that she would be turned on watching her husband with another woman. In the past she has brought up the idea of her and I and her husband being in a threesome together, but I never would because that would just be weird. I also would not object to my husband being with another woman, as long as he is honest about it, but I don't think I'd like to watch. So with all that info, I think she is maybe eluding for me doing this. She didn't say it outright, but I think it's coming.

 

I've always been a very sexually open person and not normally hung up on emotions. My feeling is if it feels good and everyone's alright with it, do it. I don't think I'd do it and I am not sure what my husbands view of it would be, but I feel I'm not ready now.

 

Anyway, she didn't outright say it, but I thought she was getting to it and I kind of cut her off. We'll see how it goes.

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Wow, I really need friends like KeikoM... hehe

 

this thread was amazing..... I just wish I didn't get the "you're like my sister" speech... I feel like, why don't you just say I'm gross then?... *sigh*

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Alright, this was a new one. I was laying in bed with my gf last night watching TV. It's nice, ever since we had our night together where we let our husbands watch us (detailed in another thread), we've been able to be together in her house with her husband at home. We used to wait until he was gone, he didn't care, it was just out of respect. But it's fun, we now go to her bedroom, cuddle, watch TV, have sex, yada yada, while he's downstairs.

 

Last night we were laying there and she brought up that she would be turned on watching her husband with another woman. In the past she has brought up the idea of her and I and her husband being in a threesome together, but I never would because that would just be weird. I also would not object to my husband being with another woman, as long as he is honest about it, but I don't think I'd like to watch. So with all that info, I think she is maybe eluding for me doing this. She didn't say it outright, but I think it's coming.

 

I've always been a very sexually open person and not normally hung up on emotions. My feeling is if it feels good and everyone's alright with it, do it. I don't think I'd do it and I am not sure what my husbands view of it would be, but I feel I'm not ready now.

 

Anyway, she didn't outright say it, but I thought she was getting to it and I kind of cut her off. We'll see how it goes.

 

I think you're exactly right. When you guys had sex and her husband watched, she wanted you to help finish him off. She is definitely angling for a 3some. You probably need to bring it up and tell her that's not something you're interested in. Just to put the issue to rest. If you might be in the future, tell her you're willing to revisit the issue later. Good luck :)

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Yea. My friends aren't like that lol

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Just a little update because I haven't posted in here since November. My relationship with my best friend is still strong as ever. We still hang out a lot, go shopping, go to school events together and we also still have great sex, fantastic sex. She is great and at first I worried because going from best friend to best friend/lover was a huge step, but we have handled it well. I go to her house or she comes to mine, we drink, smoke, watch TV or movies, gossip, and then go off to a bedroom and make love. We used to wait until the husbands were away before we would do that, but now they are so cool with it, we just excuse ourselves and go do it.

 

We plan to have our threesome night in April. The rooms are rented at the casino hotel and I am excited about it. Just like the night we let the husbands watch us have sex, we plan on doing it one at a time. She and I and my husband first and then to the next room when we will roll her husband. I can't wait and I think my girlfriend is more excited than I am. My husband seems a bit nervous, but I can tell he's ready for it, and her husband wants to do it right now, but he's wanted it since he found out about his wife and I having sex.

 

Anyway, things are still good with us, which is promising because my relationship before her was so short and ended badly, so here's hoping it keeps going strong.

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Wow! That sounds so hot! I'm so happy for you that things have worked out with your best friend. I can't wait to hear how the double threesome goes. A threesome is a fantasy of mine. I bet it will be an incredible experience for you.

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What a riveting post! Like everyone else here, I am glued to every word. I just read this entire thread as well as the thread before with your other friend. You seem really happy, and it looks like this relationship is progressing well. I had a hot encounter with a female friend 10 years ago that she initiated, which was really hot. She is also 10 years younger than me so I was very flattered. We had several encounters, but the first was the hottest. Lots of French kissing in a public place, and later that evening in a bathroom of a bar, more kissing and me touching her pussy: she was wearing a skirt so easy access. ;) She did grab and kiss my boobs, because I had the misfortune of wearing jeans. ; ( Anyway, we had a few more times of French kissing and mild groping, but we're unfortunately never alone in a private place to do anything else. I see her now maybe once a year so nothing will ever happen with her again. I have had other make out sessions with a few friends, but nothing close to this. I hope to find a girl like you have. In some ways, it's easier with a friend bc you know each other already, but also harder to approach a friend. Thanks again for sharing, can't wait to hear more!!!

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Ahh, summers almost here and the weather is hotter and the pool is almost ready. Last year my girlfriend and I had fun on those nights when we'd skinny dip in the pool and more. Last night she was over and she and I and my husband were having some cocktails. So yada, yada, yada, my girlfriend and I decide to go skinny dipping despite it not really being the warmest weather. It was dark out and as I explained earlier we have no close neighbors, so we stripped nakkie on the deck and ran and jumped in. Big mistake, COLDDDDD! We tried to stay in and even hugged for warmth, but no good, we got out pretty quick, wrapped up in towels and ran back in the house where my husband was laughing his ass off at us. I got in and unwrapped the top of my towel because I wanted to show off my rock hard nipples. I have big Asian nipples anyway, so the cold water really engorged them. Anyway, my cute girlfriend sucked them warm while my husband enjoyed the show, and we eventually retired back to my room. Just my girlfriend and I, no threesome last night, but it was kind of fun getting under the sheets naked and reviving each other back from the brink of hypothermia. Anyway, can't wait for the really hot nights and an actual skinny dipping to commence.

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Ok...I got turned on reading your progression.

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Now that I have taken care of that...

I would be careful bringing men, and I mean plural, into the situation. Men are still cave men inside and I am afraid this can open up a whole Pandora's box of things. You now have 4 people involved and its gets more complicated.

 

Thats all I will say. Its a heck of fantasy and I know you have backed off when it gets over analyzed. I understand that too becuase i hate it when others do that to me. I do not send this to build me up or claim to be an expert. I just want you and both couples to be careful especially since you have families.

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I am seriously dreaming of this kind of situation. Congrats on finding it, and have fun! :)

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