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Would you date a married woman?

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If you dated a married woman, would you like to include her husband in the relationship?

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If you are married, would you want to include your husband in a relationship with another woman?

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#1081 OFFLINE   TBD78

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 04:50 PM

Being married and having been with a married woman, I would do it again.  I would want to make sure anyone I would get involved with has good communication with me and their primary partner.  I'd try and set expectations and do check in's to make sure everyone is getting what they need(emotionally and physically).   Balance and setting good boundaries are important.  However, I can say from experience...dating a married woman can be very hot!

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:30 PM

View PostTBD78, on 18 January 2017 - 04:50 PM, said:

Balance and setting good boundaries are important.

This. I agree with this very much!
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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:40 PM

View Post1008, on 18 January 2017 - 09:30 PM, said:



This. I agree with this very much!
Live and learn...this was a big aha moment once I went into "reflection mode"

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Posted 04 February 2017 - 03:46 PM

Yes I am in a wonderful relationship with another married women. We have so much in common, a husband we love but doesn't know we are bi. While we have a  stable and loving marriages, our bi relationship fills that void that our husbands never could give us.

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Posted 12 February 2017 - 06:28 PM

Sometimes it's like do you even have a choice, if you fell in love with a married women and she you,
Then of course you would act on it


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Posted 12 February 2017 - 08:57 PM

Yes, I definitely would. I'm married too, so I think it would almost make it easier. A bit of common ground, ya know?

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Posted 12 February 2017 - 09:25 PM

View Postbrokengirl0407, on 04 February 2017 - 03:46 PM, said:

Yes I am in a wonderful relationship with another married women. We have so much in common, a husband we love but doesn't know we are bi. While we have a  stable and loving marriages, our bi relationship fills that void that our husbands never could give us.
This sounds wonderful...
I'm starting to think that honesty isn't always the best policy :/

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Posted 12 February 2017 - 09:44 PM

Definitely easier, common ground kind of like you know where you would stand and how the other one feels

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Posted 12 February 2017 - 09:51 PM

I'm in a relationship with a woman who has a partner and I'm totally fine with it.   He doesn't know about us.   I love her to bits and wouldn't change anything.
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Posted 13 February 2017 - 10:43 PM

View PostPurple Rose, on 12 February 2017 - 09:51 PM, said:

I'm in a relationship with a woman who has a partner and I'm totally fine with it.   He doesn't know about us.   I love her to bits and wouldn't change anything.
You are exceptionally understanding. That's awesome.

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Posted 13 February 2017 - 10:49 PM

I'm in a long term steady relationship, I'm looking to find someone in a similar situation, I'm not out to my partner and would prefer it to stay like that for now, so yeah if that's you, I'm here!!! Lol xxd

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Posted 14 February 2017 - 04:45 PM

View PostSmile111, on 14 February 2017 - 02:19 AM, said:

I'm a married mom and preferably I would want to be fwb with another married mom. My husband is totally against it right now...well as far as acting on anything. He is definitely aware of some of the crushes I have though:)
Are you my twin or something lol

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Posted 16 February 2017 - 11:53 PM

It feels entirely selfish to admit it, but having falling for a women in a relationship, I don't think I could consider doing it again. (emotions are cheeky butts, they do sneak up on me so I'm not ruling it out) I would like to involve my husband but only in as far as being a part of the family. If she wanted it to be more, that's fine, if she only wanted to be friends, that's fine too. And never would there be pressure for her or him to be romantically or physically involved. But they would BOTH need to be compatible with each other. If they didn't get on, I wouldn't force the discomfort on them.
My dream, crazy though it is, is having a function triad to grow old together with. Adding another guy to the mix, at this stage, is too much for me to comprehend... Though who knows how I'd feel in 5 years time.

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Posted 17 February 2017 - 07:44 PM

I'd have a sexual relationship with a married woman as long as all parties were informed and ok with it.

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Posted 19 February 2017 - 03:29 AM

I personally would only feel completely comfortable if all involved parties were aware. A marriage is a commitment, and I don't want to be a party that might unknowingly cause someone else's marriage to end. At the end of the day, we are all adults making our own decisions, but I don't want to cause pain to someone else, even inadvertently. You never know when a secret will be discovered. Another complication is if there are children. I definitely don't think they need to be consulted, but they still need to be considered. An accidental outing would possibly effect the children of either marriage.
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Posted 19 February 2017 - 03:33 AM

Disclaimer to my above post: these are my personal views, but I certainly don't judge anyone with differing views. We are all grown ups here from varied backgrounds and experiences who make our own decisions. Only you know what feels right for you :)
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Posted 19 February 2017 - 06:23 PM

I feel like I change this answer depending on the day and person I am interested in, lol. But as of today- yes, I would.. I'm looking to be in love but not to move in together, have babies, get married or anything else. Married women would ideally fit that mold. But its not always true. I used to think that dating single ladies is the way to go until I learned quickly that expectations can get in the way of otherwise happy relationships. Some people have the desire to live together and raise a family together and so forth. Not only do I not want that, but couldn't even if I tried for their benefit. Fact of the matter is- I need someone, single or married, that understands my need to be alone and have a partner from afar that is content with the same. I'm pretty sure I'm on the right path now though.

Edited by cre8yourf8, 19 February 2017 - 06:27 PM.

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