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#41 OFFLINE   Jennirotika

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Posted 19 January 2017 - 12:48 AM

View PostNeilluuli, on 07 December 2016 - 07:02 PM, said:

I am married and have 5 children. I told my husband about a year ago that I am bi. He surprised me and was okay with it, and he is super supportive. I have not had aN opportunity as of yet to explore this side of me, but I hope to. He encoutages me and has even playfully teased me when I am talking with my BFF because he know I have a MAJOR crush on her. She knows but as of now has no intrest, but I am okay with being just friends with her. Eventually like I said I hope to find the right woman.

Wow! I'm married and I have 5 children also. Mine are very young, though. Ages 7- 4 months. They're homeschooled, so they are home with me all day. Kind of a bummer. It definitely adds to my lonely factor. LOL

I just came out to my hubby about a year and a half ago. He was skeptic at first, but it didn't take long for him to register it and become super supportive. He teases me too about being with my only online friend, who does know that I'm bi also (she's pansexual) but not quite interested in being with me for baby daddy reasons. It's kind of fun to pretend and role play, though.

I haven't had the opportunity yet to even kiss a woman, but I am dying to sooooo badly. The void that my hubby can't fill is just aching for a woman to be there. I want to experience what it's like to have female companionship. I'm one of those SAHMs with no friends to have mommy time with. :( T_T

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Posted 19 January 2017 - 06:57 AM

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Wow! I'm married and I have 5 children also. Mine are very young, though. Ages 7- 4 months. They're homeschooled, so they are home with me all day. Kind of a bummer. It definitely adds to my lonely factor. LOL

I just came out to my hubby about a year and a half ago. He was skeptic at first, but it didn't take long for him to register it and become super supportive. He teases me too about being with my only online friend, who does know that I'm bi also (she's pansexual) but not quite interested in being with me for baby daddy reasons. It's kind of fun to pretend and role play, though.

I haven't had the opportunity yet to even kiss a woman, but I am dying to sooooo badly. The void that my hubby can't fill is just aching for a woman to be there. I want to experience what it's like to have female companionship. I'm one of those SAHMs with no friends to have mommy time with. :( T_T


Mine are homeschooling as well! I totally understand where you are coming from as well. Ages of mine are between 10 and 3yes old. I don't get out much because it and don't get time alone either. Maybe one day we will our chance to hopefully at least kiss a girl.
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Posted 19 January 2017 - 11:55 PM

I told my husband I was curious about girls about 2 years ago.  Since then I've struggled to figuree out if I'm more attracted to girls or if I can be happy with my husband and a gf.  He says I can have a gf for the 2 of us and it's ok for me to be with her while he's at work.  So we'll se what happens.  I thought I had a gf but she has made evident by her actions that she isn't ready for a relationship.  I haven't yet had a chance to tell her how i fell about this.  But so far things are good with my husband and I.

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Posted 21 January 2017 - 06:23 AM

View PostNeilluuli, on 19 January 2017 - 06:57 AM, said:

Mine are homeschooling as well! I totally understand where you are coming from as well. Ages of mine are between 10 and 3yes old. I don't get out much because it and don't get time alone either. Maybe one day we will our chance to hopefully at least kiss a girl.

Ohhh, so you totally get where I'm coming from? Yay! Yeah, I hope we get our chance. I have an old friend who I just found out is into me, so maybe... ;)

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Posted 21 January 2017 - 08:49 AM

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Ohhh, so you totally get where I'm coming from? Yay! Yeah, I hope we get our chance. I have an old friend who I just found out is into me, so maybe... ;)

Completely understand, and I hope so. Sounds like you might get your chance depending on how you feel about your friend. Good luck and let us know if you get that opportunity.
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Posted 22 January 2017 - 07:50 PM

View PostNeilluuli, on 21 January 2017 - 08:49 AM, said:

Completely understand, and I hope so. Sounds like you might get your chance depending on how you feel about your friend. Good luck and let us know if you get that opportunity.

I just made a post about how she and I are doing! Hope you can find it. lol ;)

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Posted 06 February 2017 - 06:59 PM

I came out to my hubby almost 2 years ago now. It's been a rocky road, but we're at the point now where if anything were to happen with a woman he wants to be there :/
He doesn't like the idea of me being with another woman and getting all the "fun"...



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Posted 07 February 2017 - 11:50 AM

mine works just fine, nothings changed apart from more sex hehehe

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Posted 09 February 2017 - 06:11 PM

I am married, I love my hubby dearly- could never envision ever being with another man  but  he does not know that I am bi. He is very conservative and straight, if he knew it would hurt him, he just could not begin to process  the fact that i am bi. As a result I keep that part of me, private. So far it as worked out ok.

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Posted 11 February 2017 - 02:07 PM

If I'm being honest, scenarios like the ones that are being described in this thread are like Reason #47 that I'm terrified of marriage.

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Posted 31 March 2017 - 11:30 PM

I've told my husbands how I've felt off and on over the years, but he has never taken me seriously. He just blows it off or says sweet bring her over. So my question is how do you have an open and honest conversation with someone unwilling to have one? I want him to understand I love him and our family I'm not interested in leaving him I just need to find me.

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Posted 14 April 2017 - 05:34 AM

I told my husband a few months before we got married, as I thought things were progressing with a girl at work and I didn't want to hide it anymore.  He was hurt at first, but he's become very, very supportive.  He's fine with me exploring and experimenting as long as he has a heads up on what's going on.

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Posted 19 April 2017 - 12:33 AM

My hubby knew when we first got together that I was bi, but since we have been together, I have never been with anyone else. I am not sure how he would take it if I said I wanted to do something about my feelings.
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